What to do if an unmarried boy is always cold and hot to a divorced girl

If his parents don't agree, you may really have no results. No way, fate.

No way. He basically won't marry you.

may play a relationship with you, and getting married is basically no fun.

That's when you had a marriage, maybe he has some tradition in his thinking, and he cares a lot about that.

To put it bluntly, he doesn't love him as much as you love, if he really loves you, will he care about his parents?

Blowing hot and cold? Obviously, he just wants to be ambiguous now, this kind of man should let go quickly, don't waste his youth!

You focus on life or other fashion.

First, it is too difficult for you to achieve positive results, and second, he is either wandering or has a target now, after all, you have not been together for a long time, it is recommended that you stay calm and calm, think about it clearly, you have had a failed marriage, and the road ahead must be taken well.

How old are you to get married, it seems that you don't have a lot of experience, so it's better to be cautious.

Be bold and speak your love. Express it with action!

You'll always find it....

Yes, yes, bless you.

First of all, it depends on the relationship between the two parties, but you also have to know how to protect yourself, pursue your own happiness and think more about your children!

No problem, as long as you are honest and kind.

It's so hard, it's too hard...

Handsome, more outgoing, and with good family conditions, why don't you find an unmarried beautiful girl and have a child of your own?

I don't mind at all, I don't mind.

To be honest, you're a two-handed woman, and you have a child, which is enough.

Do you want to be handsome after a divorce? Are you brain-dead? I don't know what to say except for finding it for yourself.

Why can't it, people with a heart will always know your goodness.

The fact that you can write so much shows that you sincerely want to get the answer. I suggest that if you really like him, you should wait another 2 years, and time will slowly give you a clear choice.

I've experienced emotional confusion before (but not married and divorced men), they each have their own strengths and weaknesses, I think they have more disadvantages than strengths, but they are also love dead and alive. I'm married now, and when I think back to the past, I feel that I used to be very unstable and immature. The real life, life is firewood, rice, oil and salt, care for each other, appreciate each other, love each other, the main point is that you live a happy life.

Do you feel happy with him as you are now? From the words you wrote, I can understand that you just love him and have feelings for him, but I don't feel that you are happy, but now I am very conflicted and troubled. I suggest you leave him!

I once had a boyfriend for more than 3 years, but then broke up for some reasons, 3 years is not a short time, right? I was miserable because I still loved him so much, and if I didn't have my parents, I might have chosen the extreme way. But then I survived, time can dilute everything, feelings can be cultivated slowly, and whoever you spend a long time with will have feelings.

If you don't believe me, your life is completely in your hands now, because you haven't registered yet, and when you register, it's too late to have your children. As the saying goes, it's better to demolish a temple than destroy a marriage, and we don't know each other, but since I see the problem, it's like I'm expressing my thoughts. It's not that a divorced man can't get married, it's that you are not happy with him.

Marriage matters should be cautious.

With such a complicated person and such a heavy burden, what do you want him to do? You can't get married, can you?

Zengguang Xianwen: The two of them have a general heart, and they have no money to buy gold; A person has an average heart, and it is difficult to buy a needle if he has money.

The most important thing for a man is to have a sense of responsibility and the spirit of struggle, this old man who doesn't know how to struggle, what do you want him to do? It's better to find another young man with ideals and ambitions to be a husband.

I have already persuaded you that this person is not suitable for you, but you have been relying on it, he has no talent, no appearance, and is still a lazy embryo, what do you do with him? It's time to make up your mind and break up; For the sake of your lifelong happiness, you must make up your mind.

A woman must have the ability to support herself and her children even after divorce, a man who has no good job, no good conditions, no matter, but he can't be self-motivated and responsible, otherwise there will be no good results.

And the most important thing is actually the children.

You can imagine how it goes on now.

Wait until you have a child.

One is that you will be bound by children's affairs.

The second is. What do you think... The child grows up in this environment, are you worthy of him?

Think about it.

If you don't have a tolerant heart, it's better to choose to break up, so as not to ask for trouble.

It's hard to say, only you know the emotional things best, but you have to ask yourself whether you are happy or not.

I agree with what 12345 said upstairs, this love has a shadow, and it is well divided.

I'm having the same problem now, are you all together?

It's up to you to like it or not.

To put it mildly: marriage is for you. It's not for anyone else.

If you feel happy, it's good to be happy

Why care about other people's opinions?

It's hard to say.

The key is to see if the girl can grasp the man. Emotional matters, rely on yourself.

After all, the matter of marriage is like whether the shoes on your feet fit or not, only you know!

You have to find out if the man you know has a common language with you, and if he is good, why did his ex-wife leave him.

There should be a lot of factors that go into this, right? First, does the man really like the girl? If it is just to find someone to pass the loneliness or make up for the trauma of abandonment, then there is no true love in such a union.

Second, does the girl like the man? If you sacrifice yourself to sell meat only for the sake of materiality, satisfy vanity, give up! But if we all love each other sincerely and stick to that belief with each other, the age gap is not an obstacle, in fact, it is not very far behind.

Third, what do the relatives of both sides think? This will be related to whether you can live in harmony in the future, and an unpeaceful life will become an obstacle to perseverance...

Why did his ex-wife leave him? To investigate clearly, I am saying.

A man who has been divorced once should love a woman.

Personal opinion is not optimistic, it is better not to look for a married man!

Maybe you should know more about the man to see if he is suitable. Don't care what others think, your own happiness is the most important thing!

Of course! I feel that such a man is more responsible for girls!

It's up to you to think about yourself. If you want to get married, you can get married, what a lot of trouble.

No, absolutely not, hurry up and separate.

1 I also didn't experience it personally, but, from my point of view as a bystander, it was really unfair to that girl.

2 If you are really together in the future, it will be a point of contention in terms of children first, and the role of stepmother is really difficult to play, besides, a person who has no story and a person who has a lot of stories will not end well.

3 I hope that the girl will give up early and be led into a misunderstanding.

It depends on how much you love such a man.

My stepmother and my dad were married to an unmarried woman, and it may be difficult to accept me at first, but with the man you love as the center, you can find common ground, as long as both parties work hard, you can have a happy family, of course, some things don't depend on your efforts alone, if you really love him, I believe you will work hard, I wish you happiness!

Of course not, definitely not, otherwise just wait to see the result, first of all, the child will fight with you in the future, and then your husband will have many conflicts with you, therefore, absolutely not,

As long as you really love each other, there will definitely be some inconveniences, and I believe that you can overcome them.

Is he genuine to you? How old is his child, whether he accepts you or not, what problems will arise in the future?

What is his attitude towards the child, will he spoil the child too much or something, if you are together, will he let you have your child? What is the current relationship between him and his ex-wife? Also, what will his parents think of you, what will your parents think of you, what will your friends recommend?

In fact, there are a lot of problems, but if it is sincere, and he has been divorced, relatively speaking, he should be more mature in marriage and love, and he should take care of you more, if he can, it is very good to be friends with his children, in a word, if it is sincere, and he has confidence in you together, he will not say anything to others, you will hesitate and regret it, so it is better not to accept him, so as not to ask for trouble

There seems to be a saying that a man who has been divorced once is a treasure, I hope he can be your treasure, and you will be the treasure in his heart

As long as you truly love Him, you will accept His children.

Why do you get divorced? It must have been his wife who failed him!

Whether a divorced woman can find an unmarried man depends on the woman's conditions.

How is it. If the woman is in particularly good condition, such as being particularly beautiful, empathetic, hardworking and capable, having a successful career, and having a large amount of savings, she can find it; Otherwise, there is a certain degree of difficulty. After all, marriage requires the consent of both people.

Article 5 of the Marriage Law stipulates that marriage must be of complete voluntary will between the man and the woman, and neither party shall be allowed to coerce the other or any third party to interfere with it.

Article 6: The age of marriage shall not be earlier than 22 years old for men and 20 years old for women. Late marriage and childbearing should be encouraged.

Article 7: Marriage is prohibited in any of the following circumstances:

1) Immediate blood relatives and collateral blood relatives within three generations;

2) Suffering from a medical illness that is medically deemed unfit for marriage.

Article 8 A man and a woman who wish to marry must register their marriage in person at the marriage registration office. Where the provisions of this Law are met, they shall be registered and a marriage certificate shall be issued. Obtaining a marriage certificate establishes the relationship between husband and wife. Where marriage registration has not been completed, the registration shall be re-registered.

Article 9: After marriage is registered, the woman may become a member of the man's family, and the man may become a member of the woman's family, according to the agreement between the man and the woman.

First of all, at this age, you have a certain insight into this kind of question, and objectively speaking, unmarried men and married men think from different angles, which are two concepts.

I think divorced women are more mature.

I don't think you should take whether you have ever been married as a condition for choosing a mate, you first try to find someone you love with your heart, as long as there is love, everything is not a problem. You love him, you naturally don't care if he is married, he loves you, and he doesn't care about your past. And, if your family members object, you can prove to them that you love each other!!

I don't think you should do a lot of things too deliberately, your starting point is not quite right, why do you limit people to married and unmarried in the first place? I think what you're looking for right now is someone who loves you and is good to you! Even if you find an unmarried, what's the use of being bad for you, even if you find a divorced person who sees you as a treasure, which one do you think is the best?

I think you have to straighten out your thoughts now. Don't be too pushy!

If you have a heart, you can find it, because there are too many unmarried people who enjoy the treatment they have now, but you have one more divorce certificate than them. But first you have to have faith in yourself.

Can be found, but may be a little harder.

I feel that when the feelings arrive, anything is possible.

Needles can be caught in the sea, let alone people.

Someone who truly loves you won't mind that.

The 28-year-old girl's view of marriage should be adjusted, and it will take a few more days to decide whether to be with a 35-year-old man, divorced men are flawed, be cautious!

Does that 8-year-old boy love that 28-year-old girl? It almost takes as much love as his mother.

I personally disagree with this kind of love, and advise the 28-year-old not to disobey the old man--- unless that man's reputation is particularly good, you may be his second divorce partner.

Think again!!

This kind of thing can only be thought out by yourself, and if two people really want to be together, no one can break it up, but you must understand the man's personality and the reason for divorce in advance.

It's not wrong to fall in love.

Lovely not at the right time.

There is a big difference between your age and his experience.

You are willing to be in a normal relationship and have a normal married life.

Then give up. If you want to challenge yourself.

Then stick to it.

Look at the TV stepmother or something, the young one in it, it's really bad.

Didn't you watch some programs on CCTV in the early stage, a 35-year-old man fell in love with a 70-year-old woman, and everyone said that his brain was kicked by a donkey.

How? There are so many men in the world, so many men your age, and you don't have one to look at?

Why bother looking for a man who is so much older than you

Xiang couldn't figure it out.

Since they love each other, why not be afraid of worldly eyes and gossip.

Love is a matter of two people.

Only love is not loved.