How to forget a boy who hates himself

Updated on psychology 2024-07-14
15 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    You can fall in love with another person and thus spread the love for him, and you will not be so miserable, but you have to make sure that the other person will not let you down, will not give you pain! But I don't think you can guarantee it, so don't think about shifting your target, or you'll probably get hurt again!

    If others talk about you, it's temporary, and if it takes a little longer, no one will talk about who you have a crush on, because every day something new happens, that is to say, every day there may be gossip that interests both girls and boys, and when new gossip appears, it's time for others to stop talking about you and the boy! So, don't let those people's chatters disrupt your life!

    If the person you like is disgusted with you, then you should give up! There is no need to cry and be depressed for a long time for someone who does not know your heart! You say that you often fantasize that he likes you, hehe, I think many girls must have experienced this kind of fantasy, and they have fantasized that the boy they like has a crush on them!

    However, regular daydreaming can make you lose sight of reality! So, it's a big deal to cry, even if you still like him now, try to stop yourself from fantasizing about being with him, time can ** your crush wound, rest assured, one day you will feel less and less about him. Maybe one day you will find that you don't care about him anymore!

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    Find a boy who likes you.

    Enjoy the feeling of being truly loved instead of chasing others.

    To have your own personality ...

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Divert attention:

    1: Try to see only his shortcomings. You'll hate him for a long time.

    2: Falling in love with another person.

    3: Shift your energy to studying.

    4: If you really can't do it, if the situation allows, just transfer to another school. This is the best way to do it.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Don't deliberately forget, avoid it.

    The more you try to avoid it, the more you think about it! Or this person!

    Don't tell yourself to forget, the more you forget, the more cranky you will be

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Summary. Dear, good evening, welcome to ask, it's an honor for me to answer for you, I am your psychology teacher Mr. Zhang, the answer is being sorted out, it will take about 3 5 minutes, please be patient.

    How can you forget a man you hate.

    Dear, good evening, welcome to ask, it's an honor for me to answer for you, I am your psychology teacher Mr. Zhang, the answer is being sorted out, it will take about 3 5 minutes, please be patient.

    Good. If you want to forget a man you hate, you must have had a relationship with you, you want to forget, but you can't forget.

    Right. Is there something that hurts you that makes you feel annoying? Since he hurt you, the premise for you to choose forgiveness should also be that he took the initiative to stitch up your wounds?

    The reason why he said this is that if he didn't choose to bandage your wounds, you shouldn't use any reason to deceive yourself.

    I feel that you have a lot of stories, this kind of deep memory is more difficult to forget, compared to you are more hated or even hated by this, you have to force yourself, what happened to you?

    Seeing that your service has been used up, I really want to talk to you a few more words, analyze and analyze, but the system can't continue, you can buy my ** or voice service, I will analyze a little more for you. Although time can dilute everything, the problem between you is that your emotional entanglement with him is not completed, and here I can help you deal with the injuries you have suffered in the past, so that this matter can be easily passed.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    There may or may not be an unexpected gain! If you don't dare, then forget it and forget about him! The answer is not something to wait for, but to find it yourself.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Believe me, time will dilute everything, time will ** all the pain, focus on work or study to break it down.

    Give yourself more time and contact with other people of the opposite sex.

    You will find that there are many good men in this world.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    I've had a similar experience, and I've loved it for five years. But then I stopped working in the same class, and I saw each other less, so even if it took time, the long distance made me naturally die. Now I don't feel it anymore.

    I wonder if I really liked him in the first place. The key is to keep your distance. Otherwise, you won't forget it.

    Because as soon as you get close, you will have illusions.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    There was a girl who did this to me. Delete him. If you treat your friends with an ambiguous attitude, then you don't deserve to have a confidante.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Start over, delete his QQ, and have more fun with girls!

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Like you, I like a girl, but I was rejected, and now I can't forget her, and I want to find a solution.

  12. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    I'm having the same problem as you and I'm wondering, how are you doing now?

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    To deliberately forget is to forget. Because I care about whether I still remember, I often remind myself to forget, but in fact, every reminder is to let me remember him at a deeper level. So don't try to forget the person you don't want to forget.

    One day, when you don't care if you forget it, you really forget it.

    If you can't forget it, bury him and this feeling deep in your own heart, hidden in a place where the smoke of the city can't reach. That's a beautiful place in your heart......What do you think it will be to give up, is it so easy to give up someone, and is it still called true love? Love will make you happy, and thinking of her will make you happy and powerful.

    But you know how you'll feel when you don't get her? Do you feel that the sky is falling, people are tired, and your heart is tired? I'm sure you've encountered it, because I've also encountered it, and I'm in trouble, in pain.

    I can understand your feelings. I want to love so much, I give love, but she wants you to give up on her, I said I will, but is it really okay? When I was lonely, when I was lonely, I quietly thought of her, her voice, and every word she said, it was so unforgettable and heart-wrenching.

    I really want to love, but I get a lot of pain, and my body and mind are haggard. Is this called abandonment? Therefore, it is impossible to give up a person you really love, you can only cry and remind yourself that you want to forget, to escape, although you don't want to, you are very unwilling, but what else can you do besides escaping?

    I'm like that now, and I can understand your mood somewhat. If you want to let go, I think the best thing to do is to change your focus. Turn your attention to something else.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Since you can't forget, don't force yourself to forget, the more you force yourself, the harder it is to forget. It's better to be calm and try to shift your attention to other places, work or study. Enrich yourself, and you won't be cranky, although sometimes it's difficult, but after a long time, your heart will slowly fade.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    1 Treat it all indifferently, maybe it's okay.

    1.Don't deliberately forget, if you do, you will only remember it better.

    2.Try to keep yourself busy, make your life full, and let yourself have no time to miss.

    3.Try to expand your circle of friends and meet as many people as possible.

    4.When you have to contact him, try to be as normal as an ordinary friend.

    5.Try to discover your hobbies and do something you enjoy to play an empathetic role.

    6.Give yourself a big smile every day and tell yourself "Tomorrow is another."

    day."I believe that one day in the future, you will find that when you think of him again, your heart no longer hurts, it turns out that unconsciously, he has become "that person".

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