Am I changing, becoming arrogant and arrogant

Being jealous of others, jealousy of others, is nothing more than not wanting others to live better than themselves. I've encountered this kind of thing, and some people want to see me laugh at it, but I don't want them to see it. I try, I struggle, I do better than them, let them see their own jokes, make them jealous to death.

The same is true. Two methods.

1 Find the right friend You have such a good starting point, if you look higher, you will have the motivation to struggle, instead of still staying in the stage of relying on your parents, and mix with those who have good family conditions and ability, not high school classmates, classmates are not friends, don't doubt yourself or give yourself a psychological burden because they live differently from you.

2 Be more casual and friendly What does it mean? Smoke together and play with wine.

As a result, we have kept our friends and gone away from those who think they are high.

I feel that your parents don't teach you much about relationships, but society teaches you a lot, don't doubt yourself, be calm, be open, and empathize, they actually envy you, and jealousy, people are like that, it's not strange.

Hehe, don't rush, you have revealed a lot of family information here. If you work in a tobacco company and your family is in a leadership position, so that others don't believe that it is a relationship, do you think for yourself that someone believes it? Some people may be young and vigorous, and it is possible to find other jobs on their own.

Because they are still young now, everyone shows that their feelings are okay, and in a few years, everyone is not a newcomer to society, can the psychology of others be easily known? If it is not good, you may encounter more problems, of course, good working conditions and treatment are also important, but it is not a good thing to be psychologically uncomfortable at work. What happens in the future?

Their garbage should be looked down upon, should they be angry if they don't understand it, and they don't expect others to be beautiful, don't worry about them, they don't accompany them.

Oops, it! Caring about other people's thoughts, you will be tired to death, take advantage of your parents to get out of the hall now, people will always change, you are now worried about everything, and you don't want to think about yourself in the future, then when your parents are old, your so-called friends have achieved nothing, they don't have anything, look down on you, don't play with you, that will be even more annoying, don't waste too much energy on this matter, they will be like this, because their hearts are not good at all, and they have always been jealous of you People sometimes can't care too much about other people's opinions.

Since it is said to be arrogant by others, there must be some reason, right? Maybe your heart is too high, maybe you are too protective of yourself, or maybe you are not used to the way girls do it, and stay away from them, making them feel that you are not easy to get close to.

I think from what you say, it's not that you're too arrogant, but that you're too protective of yourself. Why don't you have true friends, don't you tell them your thoughts and little secrets at all? Or do you speak to people in a tone that makes others uncomfortable to hear?

I think we are very similar in some places, I have friends but very few, I also have a kind of guardedness, not my good friends, there are some things I can't say at all, and even some times just some polite coping, as for the boys, I rarely play well with them, because I don't take the initiative to approach them, and those who play well with the boys, they always take the initiative to talk to the boys, take the initiative to help the boys, always seem very approachable, but I can't do it.

Maybe there's nothing wrong with your self-preservation, but in the eyes of others, it's a strange phenomenon.

But I'm learning to change, I keep my temperament, but I'm becoming approachable, I remember the good of others, and forget the deliberate sarcasm of others. Even if you can't get used to what other girls do, you definitely don't show it (it's not hypocrisy, it's just their practice, it's nothing to do with you), just laugh happily. Try to chew your tongue as little as possible in front of others, and even if others are saying it, try to say it as little as possible, or say a few perfunctory words.

I think you're a little bit high, and there's nothing wrong with that, it's just that it scares away a bunch of friends. Don't try to stay away from the world, because whether it's your friends, your classmates, or your family, they are all worldly, they all have the appearance of some small citizens, and you should learn to accept it, not reject it. You will feel that the vulgar is really vulgar, but you also know how to keep yourself in the world, how not to follow the crowd.

As for the boy, don't do it. He dislikes you because she doesn't see your strengths, and if a boy doesn't know how to appreciate you, don't do it.

Also, remember 'a knife on the head of the word ninja', try not to speak harshly to others, if others say it to you, don't take revenge, this will only be exchanged for hatred. So always keep your peace of mind.

Don't always look at the shortcomings of others, but also review yourself, so that you can see your own shortcomings and change them.

Try to ask the girls, or the boys, why they think you are very high, and try to change them in combination with their own thoughts, and you will be welcomed.

Girl, be confident, it will be more beautiful this way

No, you're good! They and him don't deserve to be so good to them, don't pay attention to them, they are not qualified to possess your world, you can meet new friends, there will be a good confidant and boyfriend who understands you when you lose your temper and comforts you when you are sad, don't limit yourself to a world where there are only them, take that step and you will see everything new! They don't deserve that from you.

Then don't get in touch with them, it's obvious that your parents don't teach you well, and I hate that kind of selfish, arrogant, and self-righteous people the most.

Actually, I'm the same, I hate those people. If you can be friends, add my QQ.

When an event happens in the world, 10,000 people look at it, and there will be 10,000 different ways of thinking to look at it and draw conclusions.

That is, the truth in the world is only relative, and now things are like this from your point of view, you feel that you give a lot to your friends without asking for anything in return, and your friends are indifferent to you, and if this is the case, then everyone around you is sick.

It's impossible for everyone around you to be sick, so there must be some negligence in the conclusions you came up with, and you must have missed something.

To put it more simply, to others, things are not what you say they are.

All you have to do is calm down and think from someone else's point of view why that is done to you, you're still young. I don't understand very well, try to slowly know empathy, try to trust others, try not to think that I will always be hurt.

Communicate your ideas with others, and slowly everyone will like you sincerely.

[Title]: Arrogance.

Pinyin]: kuáng wàng zì dà [Interpretation]: Describes people who are very proud and complacent. Arrogance: Extreme arrogance. Arrogant and arrogant, self-righteous. Arrogance: Very proud.