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Anonymous users2024-02-12Life is your own, and life is your own. People live for themselves and be their truest selves.
On the road of life, be kind to yourself, strive to live as you like, don't care about other people's eyes, don't care about other people's opinions, live for yourself, in order to smile brightly.
Some things, some hurdles, just pass it after you figure it out, don't care about the cold eyes and ridicule of others, you are just a grain of sand in the vast sea of people, not so humble, not so great, you don't have to follow in the footsteps of others, just be yourself.
In this world, there are always people who like you, and there are always people who don't like you. So, don't care too much about other people's opinions, be yourself, keep a kind heart, and at the same time maintain your own personality, and be a principled and temperamental person.
Life is not to please others, as long as you are happy, you don't need to care about what others think of you; Everyone is desperate and redoubling their efforts, and you have no reason to complain about the cold of the world while being wronged.
Everyone's life is a story, some are magnificent, some are peaceful and calm, don't think that you are the most unlucky, because there are always more tragic than you, don't think that you are the best, because there are always you cattle. Don't care what other people's stories are, try to write your own life, because he is the only one and the only one you can have, and here you are the only protagonist.
Don't care too much about other people's eyes, because your world has nothing to do with them, they are just spectators, and they can't influence you.
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Anonymous users2024-02-11Are you a person who cares a lot about other people's eyes?
Whenever you do something, you always think about what others will think of you, and whenever you hear someone say something bad about you, you will always become very unhappy.
No matter what time it is, you always hope that the people around you will be satisfied with you and will not have any bad opinions about your behavior.
You are like that, you have been living carefully, but no matter how careful you are, there are still people around you who like you, some people don't like you, some people say you are good, some people say you are bad.
In fact, you really don't have to care too much about other people's eyes, it's like getting a new haircut, when you ask the people around you what they think, there will always be people who tell you that you look good, some people tell you that it's average, and some people tell you that it's not suitable for you at all.
Everyone's view of things is never the same, and you have no way to make everyone happy with you.
Just like the story of the old man, the child and the donkey, when the old man put the child on the back of the donkey, someone blamed the child for being ignorant and let the old man walk, and when the old man rode on the back of the donkey, some people said that the old man was unreasonable and let the child walk. When the old man and the child ride on the back of the donkey, some people say that they are too cruel to the donkey, and when neither of them rides the donkey, some people say that they are stupid, and there are donkeys that do not ride ......
So a lot of times, when you're always listening to the outside world, you might hear a completely different view.
Someone tells you that it should be like this, someone tells you that it should be like that, their views are completely different, or even diametrically opposed, not only can they not give you any advice, but they will only make you more messy.
Schopenhauer said that one of the most peculiar weaknesses of human nature is that we care about what others think of us. When you always care about other people's opinions, you will always care about other people's opinions, you will live a very tired life, and you will not even know how to live.
To be honest, you really don't have to, you always care about what others say about you. No matter what kind of life you live, there will always be people who have mixed opinions about you. And when they say those things, it's just a mouthful, and you really don't need to take it seriously.
There is a proverb that says, "A person who is twenty years old will be concerned about what others think of him; A forty-year-old person has no idea what others think of him; Sixty-year-olds find that others have never thought of themselves at all.
Yes, in this world, everyone is busy with their own lives, and no one is so free to pay attention to your life. So you really don't have to, always care about other people's eyes, to change yourself because of others.
Don't care too much about other people's opinions, you should look inward in everything and listen to your inner voice, not other people's opinions.
Don't care too much about other people's eyes, it's really not that important, you just need to comb your feathers, live your life the way you like, and live your life the way you want.
Text: Tan Meng.
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Anonymous users2024-02-10Because he understands that the eyes of others can never be stopped, and only becoming a better version of himself is the greatest wisdom.
Yesterday's sun was very bright and warm on my body.
It's rare to have such good weather, and I don't want to stay indoors, so I let myself go and wander the streets for most of the day without a purpose.
Walking on the street, it was originally quite pleasant.
Suddenly, I noticed a problem: I don't know when, the seams in front of my jacket pocket were broken.
At first, I thought that it was nothing, so I walked ...... by myself
But after taking a few steps, I felt awkward in my heart, and I always wanted to cover my ...... with my handsLooking at the oncoming passers-by, it felt like everyone's eyes were staring there.
I can't stand it, I really can't stand it. Seeing a shop repairing clothes on the side of the road, I hurried over to ask my aunt to sew it, and I was still busy explaining my embarrassmentI don't know when ...... openedAlthough it is less than an inch, it is too conspicuous ......It's dangling like this, and people can see how bad it is ......
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If you think about it, it's really that reasonable.
I often walk by the river, how can I not get my shoes wet? Wrong. Often drifting in the rivers and lakes, how can you not be knifed? Not right either. What's going on? ......Why don't you know how to use words, the guy on the other side doesn't know how to laugh at me, it's a shame!
Perhaps, this is our true state of mind after embarrassment, caring too much about other people's opinions.
We are all ordinary people, and it is inevitable that there will be embarrassing situations such as doing wrong things and saying wrong things.
Some people are relatively sensitive, feel that they are very shameless, very embarrassed, and they can't turn around for a long time, and their mood is easy to plummet. Others, on the other hand, are more contemplative and quickly forget about ...... incident
So, how do you quickly salvage your positive image after doing something embarrassing? Here's what the book teaches us:
First, the shameful things of the past are quickly forgotten or selectively forgotten.
Second, find the best way to solve the problem immediately.
Third, being brave enough to be humorous, or self-deprecating, is also a good medicine for embarrassment.
I would like to add that don't care too much about other people's eyes, because you don't matter that much at all.
Paying too much attention to the eyes of others is actually not confident in oneself, thinking that oneself in the eyes of others is more important than one's real self, and that other people's opinions are more important than one's own opinions.
In life, the most fearful thing is not that you live worse than others, but that you regard the eyes of others as the only standard of your life.
At the end of the day, you will find that you are not living as others like, nor are you living the way you want.
Don't take yourself too seriously, because few people really know you.
May we all learn to recognize ourselves and live the best in our hearts.
Don't worry too much about it.
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