What s the point of cherishing after losing

Updated on psychology 2024-07-21
11 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-13

    Only after losing it do you know that you should cherish it! People are like this, what you can't get is always the best! You may not think it will be like when you have it, but when you lose it, you will know what heartache is.

    Most people get used to doing something or accepting someone's feelings for a few days, but one day when you stop what you have done and accept from people, you feel as if something is missing. Actually, nothing is missing, it's just that you're starting to get used to that life, that feeling. So when you lose it, you will think that he is valuable, and if you cherish it at the beginning, he will not leave you now.

    Cherish what you have now, and don't wait until everything is gone from you, all you have left is regret and self-blame. [Cardamom in that year, handmade, respect for other people's labor, do not copy].

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    People are like this, and when they lose, they will understand how to cherish it. If I possess it. Take the other party's contribution for granted.

    It becomes a habit. Didn't love. Never lost.

    It is not going to understand how to cherish. I can't feel the feeling of cherishing either. I think that the most precious thing in the world is "today", and the most easily lost is also "today".

    Because it is the easiest to lose, it is more precious. —Li Dazhao.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    People often make such mistakes, when you have it, you don't care about him and cherish him, and when you lose it, you want to work hard to cherish it! What's the point? What is lost is never coming back, and even if it comes back, it can't be the same as before... So... Cherish everything in front of you now, and don't let yourself regret it

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    There is no point, when you have it, you should know to cherish it.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    People often know how to cherish when they lose, not because they find out how important they are to lose, but because they find that what they lose is always done well, so they regret letting go. But when they really have it again, they will find that it is nothing more than that, as people often say, the wife is always the most beautiful and the most beautiful of others, and the husband is always the most capable of others. In fact, what is lost does not have to be recovered, in fact, the best is not necessarily suitable for yourself.

    The ancients said: There must be losses and gains. Why not look at it optimistically.

    Because no matter how much you regret it, it's useless. What is lost is lost after all, and even if you get it again, it is not the original feeling. It's like broken glass, and there will be cracks after sticking to it.

    In the end, what remains is only a momentary nostalgia for the dragon special signature, please respect the fruits of personal labor. Please don't plagiarize. Copy.

    Thank you.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    The meaning of this sentence is that I hope you don't wait until you lose it to know how to cherish it, and you have to give all your good to the people you love the most.

    Take my brother as an example, he talked about a girlfriend before, and the two of them are actually quite compatible, but my brother is a design worker, and he usually works more overtime, so naturally he spends less time with his girlfriend. As soon as I could rest, my brother felt too tired from work, and finally waited for the break, so he just wanted to stay at home and play a few games.

    According to his own words, he was really young and ignorant at the time, and he didn't understand his girlfriend's feelings, what complicated thoughts can girls have, but they just want to be accompanied by someone they like. But he ignored this, so they broke up.

    Until now, he still regrets that he didn't cherish the time spent with each other at the beginning, but now he wants to cherish it but has no chance.

    Therefore, we should really think more from the perspective of the people around us and learn to cherish everything around us, so that we will not regret it. Buhu

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Because it's always easy to ignore what you have now.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    If you can start from scratch.

    Have you ever had such regrets?

    After something happened for a while, you thought, if you had to deal with it again, you would handle it a little better than it did that day.

    You were so immature at the time.

    Perhaps, you are too naïve, too young, too presumptuous.

    Why are they so stubborn? Looking back today, that incident wasn't that serious.

    You're not doing anything wrong, but you can do it that way, and the result will be different.

    If you can start from scratch.

    The lost friendship is irretrievable.

    What was lost at that time is no longer possible to regain.

    Regret is a by-product of growth.

    As you mature day by day, you will naturally regret what you did yesterday.

    Yes! Turns out you can do a little better.

    It is not until one day, when you no longer regret yesterday, that you are truly mature.

    We no longer regret it, but we still regret it.

    We repeatedly told ourselves that there was another way to deal with it.

    What is the meaning of regret? Review is meaningful!

    From now on, when the same thing happens, you will be much wiser.

    Besides, the matter has passed, and there is no opportunity for you to use today's wisdom to re-deal with yesterday's events.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Although this sentence is meaningless, people are like this, what you can't get is always the best, so people always deliberately pursue those things that can never be obtained, and often ignore the people around you who have been silently loving you. If you are in true love, then don't break up easily, and don't wait until you lose it to regret it. At that time, the pain was unforgettable.

    There are many people in the world who only know how to cherish when they lose, we should cherish the people we have around us, and don't lose an opportunity or a lover because of others, so we will lose a lot.

    In the face of our lover, we should treat it with a tolerant heart, no matter what happens, we should tolerate each other and think more about each other's good, so that the relationship between two people will last for a long time.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Happiness will not wait for you all the time, the people who love you and the people you love are not ready to appear, please learn to cherish them.

    When a person who loves you deeply changes for you, it is because he loves you, and when you meet someone, he puts away his stubborn temper for you; And because he loves you, he turns your interest into his interest when ,...Or because he loves you.

    There is no reason to like someone, and there is no regret to give.

    They all think it's worth it, as long as they can be with the people they love.

    In fact, we all have some such people around us, but (you. I. He hasn't discovered that the person who knows you best will always be by your side to protect you and not let you have a trace of grievances; People who truly love you may not say many things that love you, but they will do many things that love you.

    If you find.

    If there are such people around you, please cherish .......

    Please remember! The stars that can't be picked are always the brightest, and the small fish that slip away are always the most beautiful. The missed movie is always the best, and the lost lover always understands you best.

    In this world, everyone has one.

    Those who want to look for it, once they miss it, they will not come back.

    If you fall in love, don't let it go easily.

    Abandon. It's awkward, maybe you regret it for a while; But you give up, and it may make you regret it for the rest of your life. Experienced love.

    The life of love is beautiful, and the love that cannot stand the test is not profound. Beautiful love enriches life, and love that has passed the test is perfect.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    When you have, you feel satisfied, you feel that it's all that I deserve, that it's not going to go away.

    And when you really lose them because you take a wrong step, you will regret it, thinking about why you didn't do it in the first place, if you wanted Yu Ji to do it, if you ......didn't do it at the beginning, how did you do it

    But fantasy is fantasy after all, it is not reality. When things happen, they happen, and it doesn't help you to regret your bowels.

    If this continues, when people know how to cherish it one day, I am afraid that their hearts will already be full of holes.

    There is only one sentence: be satisfied with what you have now, and always feel dissatisfied.

    This sentence is not contradictory.

    We must meet the current standard of living, be satisfied with what we have, and do not expect others to be extravagant; And "dissatisfied" refers to the expectation and cherishing of the present life, cherishing everything in front of us, and looking forward to another beautiful day tomorrow.

    If everyone can think like this, it doesn't matter if you regret it or not.

    Loss is loss, and he is no longer as good as he used to be.

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