Why, after loss, I know what to cherish

Updated on psychology 2024-05-29
15 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    You may not think it will be like when you have it, but when you lose it, you will know what heartache is. Most people get used to doing something or accepting someone's feelings for a few days, but one day when you stop what you have done and accept from people, you feel as if something is missing. Actually, nothing is missing, it's just that you're starting to get used to that life, that feeling.

    Therefore, when you lose him (her), you will think that he (she) is valuable, if you cherish him (her) at the beginning, he (her) will not leave you now. Cherish what you have now, and don't wait until everything is gone from you, all you have left is regret and self-blame.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Man has not yet fully evolved, which is the inferior nature of man.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Friends are indispensable in everyone's life

    Like you, I lost my best friend in 2007, and we said we would be good friends for life, good sisters, go to the same university, live in the same house

    But because of the appearance of a boy, I broke with her completely, and it was a very uncomfortable feeling, and if I could, I would have liked to go back to the old days with her, but now it seemed to be a luxury, although she had proposed reconciliation the other day

    I also agreed, but the apathy between us is not over, and if you can get it back now, go and keep him, otherwise don't let yourself regret it

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    In fact, people are always like this, things are always in hand always don't know how to cherish, and only when they lose it will regret and complain, but it's all too late, and it's already useless, I don't know if you're talking about between men and women, or between the same sex, but it doesn't seem to matter anymore, things in the world are lost, some can be recovered, but some can never be recovered, you should cherish what you should cherish, you should keep it!

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    If you like someone, you don't leave each other because of a momentary anger.

    If you genuinely like the other person, you get back together.

    Do you think of each other every day?

    Will you unconsciously call out the other person's name?

    Do you have a lot of dreams about each other?

    Do you often think about each other's past?

    If so, get back together.

    If you ignore the existence of the other person at all, but now you are a little uncomfortable and unaccustomed; Keep it up!

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    People are like that. I don't know the feeling of losing without losing 0....

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Yes, some things or some things some people, when people have it, they don't know how to cherish it, love it, once they lose it, they feel the preciousness of its existence and the value of use, but all regrets are irretrievable.

    The cup is lonely, being poured boiling water, the feeling of being hot, so the cup thinks this is the feeling of love, when the water becomes warmer, the cup feels very comfortable, I think this is the feeling of life, the water is cold, the cup is very scared, I think maybe this is the feeling of being afraid of losing, the water becomes cold again, the feeling of the cup is also very uncomfortable, I don't want to have a tasteless feeling, so I want to pour the water out、、、 the water is finally poured out, at this time the cup feels very comfortable, but it is also poured to the ground at the same time, Broken into pieces, the cup found that on every fragment, there will be traces of water, it knows that it still loves water in its heart, it wants to love water again but it is impossible, is it only lost will know how to cherish? Only when everything has passed does you know the happiness of the past? The facts have warned us to cherish what we have now, and not to regret it until we lose it, but it's too late.

    Reality is always cruel, it doesn't give us that chance, some things are missed and won't come back.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Girl, I don't know if it's a lost beauty.

    Why is there this word, because many people don't know how to cherish it until they lose it, and Uncle has lost a lot now, and knows that he cherishes a lot, so now your uncle is trying to cherish what should be cherished, girl, I hope you also cherish the present, and what you have lost is a good memory. . .

    Let's Harpy every day...

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    The troubles are all because of my excessive attachment.

    Even if you go on like this.

    Not to mention that there will be no good results.

    Why do we just give blindly? No one is selfless.

    Everyone wants to be rewarded for their efforts.

    At the very least, it has to be recognized, in fact, the situation is very clear, but you don't face it, and it just takes a while to forget.

    To let go, if you can't love yourself well, then what can you do to love others well, yes, every truth is difficult to do.

    Maybe it's easier said than done.

    But all I can say is.

    If you are neglected, why should you practice yourself?

    Maybe I was like you in the past.

    Time really can change everything.

    Learn to be strong.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    When you have, you feel satisfied, you feel that it's all that I deserve, that it's not going to go away.

    And when you really lose them because you take a wrong step, you regret it, thinking about why you didn't do it in the first place, if only you had done it that way, if only you didn't have how it was ......in the first place

    But fantasy is fantasy after all, it is not reality. When things happen, they happen, and it doesn't help you to regret your bowels.

    If this continues, when people know how to cherish it one day, I am afraid that their hearts will already be full of holes.

    There is only one sentence: be satisfied with what you have now, and always feel dissatisfied.

    This sentence is not contradictory.

    We must meet the current standard of living, be satisfied with what we have, and do not expect from others; And "dissatisfied" refers to the expectation and cherishing of the present life, cherishing everything in front of us, and looking forward to another beautiful day tomorrow.

    If everyone can think like this, it doesn't matter if you regret it or not!

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Because you find that you are missing something after losing, you should cherish the small things and people, friends and brothers around you!

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Let's put it mildly, this is human nature, cheap!

    That's how I think people are cheap!

    Don't get me wrong, I'm targeting people

    That's just my opinion

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    People are like this, what you can't get is always the best, so people always deliberately pursue those things that can never be obtained, and often ignore the people around them who have been silently loving them. If you are in true love, then don't break up easily, and don't wait until you lose it to regret it. At that time, the pain was unforgettable, and many people in the world only knew how to cherish it when they lost it, we should cherish the people we have around us, and not lose an opportunity because of others, lose a lover, then we will lose a lot.

    In the face of our lover, we should treat it with a tolerant heart, no matter what happens, we should tolerate each other and think more about each other's good, so that the relationship between two people will last for a long time.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    If you haven't lost it, you won't know how to cherish it.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Because you don't know how to cherish when you have it.

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