How did you tell your parents that you wanted to get a marriage license with your boyfriend?

Updated on society 2024-07-12
40 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    My mother doesn't agree with me marrying my boyfriend, she and my dad are looking for a house and a car, the school knows that there is no house and no car, I don't agree, I can't take it home to see my family, my mother is poor and afraid of marrying a boyfriend, don't call her mom for the rest of my life, don't marry a boyfriend, he likes me very much, I care about me is in detail, better than my blind date, the baby he knows that I am on a blind date, I told him.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    I took a picture of the marriage certificate and showed it to my mother, and I guess I saw it again, and I was sad again, and my daughter who had been raised for so many years became someone else's.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    The two of them love each other very much, because they want to live with each other too much, and they want to experience the married life with him as soon as possible, so they told their parents about this idea of getting married, and took their parents to get a marriage certificate under their witness.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    I told my parents that I wanted to marry xx because I felt very happy with him. I hope that parents will bless us, we will be good to you in the future, and you have not lost me. Marriage is a matter of two families, so both parents need to know about it.

    Happiness is to be blessed. I wish you a long and happy life.

    Parents are afraid that if you get a marriage certificate, their family will not care about the wedding and decoration and let you be wronged.

    Serious thing, it is said that the vision of parents will definitely not be bad, but there are always exceptions, you dare to hide from your parents and your boyfriend to get the certificate, I think you are also ready to be discovered by your parents, you have to let your parents.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    It's already in my thirties, I was originally unmarried, but fate is so coincidental, I met someone in my thirties who wanted to live together, and I called my parents **, saying that I would get the certificate in the afternoon, my parents were very surprised but also very happy for me, they always felt that their daughter would not get married.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    I took the household registration book with me in advance, I remember that my dad asked me what I was doing with the household registration book, and I said that it was useful, and the information review was needed (I guess my dad also guessed that I had the idea of getting a certificate at that time, but it was not as fast as he thought), hehe, take the time to pull the certificate.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    My boyfriend's parents died suddenly, and my boyfriend was hit hard, and he lost his parents all of a sudden, so he begged his parents to get a marriage certificate in advance, so that he could become his family faster and give him the best comfort.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Mom, I'm going to Shijiazhuang tonight, and the two of us will get the certificate tomorrow, my mother: Did you bring the household registration book?

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    The wedding is about to be held, and my mother still hasn't given me the household registration book, who can help explain what kind of psychology my mother is.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    My daughter-in-law and I got the marriage certificate and posted it on the circle of friends, and the parents of both parties knew that we had received the certificate.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    The bride price money is taken home, and they are willing. They just want money. I kept the money for my brother to marry his daughter-in-law.

  12. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    I directly said to my parents that I was going to go home for the Spring Festival to get married, and she said that you didn't say that you were not busy getting married? I said my friends were married. I also wanted to get married, and then I started to prepare for marriage

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    70 days of flash marriage. I told my parents: first go to the Civil Affairs Bureau to see and submit the information, and 520 to get the certificate. As a result, I received it directly and posted it in the circle of friends. My aunt asked my mother: Married? My Mom: Ah??? It's impossible, I didn't bring my account with me...

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    My mom kept urging us, and then one day I said, let's just go and end it! Then I asked my mother to get the household registration book, she didn't give it to me, saying that it was too hasty, I fainted, and she was the one who urged for two years, and she was the one who didn't agree, so I got angry, I said wait for the next two years, and then she panicked and gave it to me.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    I've been urged by my parents to get married, but I'm not very old, and I want to play for two years, and then my mother pretended to be sick and forced me to say that I was not filial, so I had no choice but to say that I was ready to marry my boyfriend.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    I remember saying to my mother that day, "Mom, it's time for you to bring home your lost half of your son."

    Mom understands in seconds, "So, it's time for me to prepare to lose my whole daughter?" ”

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    I took my boyfriend to see my parents, and my parents liked this person very much, and asked about the mess of the family situation, and agreed to get the certificate a few days later.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    I don't have a boyfriend for the time being, so I don't think about it.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    As long as you don't object, it doesn't matter how you tell it, in fact, if you oppose it, then you have to do the work.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    I'm pregnant, and the other party is a rich second generation.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    I went with him to get the certificate on my birthday, and my family still doesn't know about it, and I don't dare to say it.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Generally, you just have to bring your ID cards and household registration books, and then go to the Civil Affairs Bureau to work for a while, but you have to queue up in advance.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Prepare the household registration book and ID card of both men and women, and then prepare three two-inch half-length photos with red background**, open the marital status statement, and the certificate of no blood relationship, and go to the relevant place to handle it.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    The two of you can simply change your makeup, and then go directly to the local civil affairs bureau, and take the household registration book of the two of you and the valid ID cards of the two of you to take a photo**.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    Hello friend, you must get the blessing of your parents is the best, you communicate with your parents and let them agree to you, you can go to get a marriage certificate.

    The best relationship is to find a partner who can talk to. There are all kinds of topics, and you can never finish talking about them; Repetitive language, and don't get tired of it. Companionship is a habit of mutual affection; Understand that it is a kind of attachment between two hearts.

    I always feel that the time together is too short, it turns out that it is not the time that goes the fastest, but the happiness when two people are together. Happiness is to have someone who understands you; Warmth is to have someone who is willing to accompany you.

    There is nothing wrong with loving someone, there is nothing wrong with loving selfishly, loving domineeringly, and loving to lose yourself, but it is just a matter of how appropriate it is to love, and how much temperature the other party can accept, but it is something that people who love each other should reflect. If it is true love, the first thing to give him is freedom, including the freedom to love you and not to love you. To love someone is not to deprive a person of their freedom, not to limit their preferences.

    In fact, to give the other person freedom is to give yourself freedom.

    There are always times when people are vulnerable, and they don't need much romance and language. Tired, there is a hug to lean on; If it hurts, there is a sentence that can be soothed. Even if they look at each other in pairs, it is a wordless like.

    Even if you miss it silently, it is also a down-to-earth peace of mind. People must always have a home to shelter from the wind and rain; Heart, there must always be a harbor to rest and dock. The longest-lasting love is the insistence on not giving up in the plain; The most intimate warmth is the companionship in the wind and rain.

    Life is like a road, be patient. Walking and walking, maybe you will walk out of the bustling scenery in the desolation. Life needs to be soaked in suffering, and without pain, life will be less colorful and heavy.

    Only the flowers that bloom in the wound are the scenery that accompanies us to move forward silently. Don't care about small grievances. and what should be remembered, it shall be carved on the stone tablet of the heart; If you should forget, you will melt it into the tears of catharsis.

    Home is very bland, as long as you can see the smiling faces of your relatives every day, it is a display of happiness; Love is very simple, as long as you will miss each other every day, it is a down-to-earth emotion. Happiness is not ethereal, it lies in the feeling of the heart; Love is not far away, it lies in the tacit understanding between the two hearts. Heart, only one, don't pretend too much; People only have one life, don't chase too tired.

    The pleasure of the soul comes from the richness of the spirit; Simple happiness comes from contentment.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    No. Wait, no hurry.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    There may be, because the TV or the net.

    I see reports of this kind of thing from time to time.

    But most of them are due to family conflicts.

    Present. If the parents do not agree, there should be him.

    We disagree with the reason. Can be serious.

    Think about whether there is any truth to it.

    If you secretly got a marriage certificate, it is not difficult to think.

    Like the anger of the parents when they know the truth.

    Son, and even after marriage, you don't.

    can guarantee that the two will always be in love, a generation.

    The child lives without any contradictions and disputes.

    In the good life, what will you be like then.

    Face your parents?

    So think twice and try to be in the parents.

    Complete your life with the blessings of your family and friends.

    It's good to be a big thing.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    In the event of parental disapproval.

    Secretly get a marriage license.

    This is indeed the case.

    But more recommended.

    A marriage with the blessing of the parents.

    will be happier and better.

    So advised. Try to communicate with your parents before doing it.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    Although love and future life are a matter for the two of you, but the opinions of your parents, I think you should listen to why they are against it? After all, parents are from the past, they will see a lot more than you, and they are also for your good, after all, marriage is a lifelong thing, especially women, are the disadvantaged party, and there is nothing wrong with considering more than one party.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    Getting married is a lifelong event, so how can you get married without your parents' consent?

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    The opposition of parents, especially the identification of first love, many people's love is beaten by one or both parents.

    Treat the love of young people, some parents are stronger, and now there are more mom bao men and good girls, many young people do not have their own opinions, in love, too, parents say okay, parents say against it, then this love will end for a short time. In the eyes of parents, it is difficult to achieve happiness in love, with different family backgrounds and different living environments. Because after love, you have to start a family, and marriage is a matter of two families.

    Many people's love is just in the bud and is defeated by their parents. Take your own path, you can do it yourself, and how to solve it depends on yourself.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    A family register is required for marriage, if your household registration is with your parents'. I'm afraid it's not easy to operate.

    In addition, the matter of marriage is a union of two families. It is advisable to be cautious.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    It's better not to take it, it won't do you much in the end. It's too late for you to regret it, I just secretly took it, but people are not sincere, they don't care, they regret the dead, just guard against me. Be careful, I don't trust you all the time, I can't see you dead or alive, I don't give you the money I earn, and I know that I regret it when I receive it.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    Yes, having friends, 95 years. I'm single myself, but if I encounter this problem, I think I still have to tell my parents, although my parents don't agree, or say it, and then go to get the certificate, you must say it, maybe my idea is, because my friend didn't say it, and now I'm living well with his husband, or it depends on personal choice.

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    Not what you think, girl, you're definitely mistaken.

    First, as someone said above, it is a custom to let the bride stay in the new house on the wedding night, and it is for your consideration, that is, for your good.

    One more thing, habitual thinking, you know. It is customary for people not to simply get a license to think of marriage, but to be considered married only after drinking and being witnessed by relatives and friends.

    And one thing, from your point of view, I remind you that it is your own dignity not to live in the man's house before the wedding. Be more independent and self-reliant, and get a greater degree of respect from the other party.

    Girl, if my daughter encounters such a problem as yours, I will never allow her to live in her boyfriend's house first, because I don't want her to be looked down upon, and I don't want her to be criticized by the man's relatives and friends for such behavior.

    As a mother of two daughters, I want all my daughters in the world to be cherished and valued, including you, of course. Kids, don't move in early, remember.

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    This kind of thing suggests that you don't worry about it, but keep your mind level. You just think that the house is theirs, you are not married, you are not a family, not to mention that they are elders, treat them as much as possible. In this way, it is also good to get along with them if you don't get angry.

    You just don't have a house for a while. Rely on yourself and don't rely on others. In this way, the heart will be open and comfortable.

    Instead, what's the use of trying to figure out if they're guarding against you? It only adds to the troubles, but it does not change. Even for your boyfriend's sake, you should give them face.

  37. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    The old man has the stubbornness and rules of the old man, it doesn't matter, since your husband can't solve it, just live outside first, and the trouble will be troublesome, and there is no way. The old man talks about face, afraid that others will gossip, saying that he has moved in without a formal wedding, right, long live understanding.

  38. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    Since you can rent it out now, it's not a big deal to stay for a few more months, and it's not worth upsetting about it.

    In the future, if you encounter such things, you will leave it to your boyfriend to decide. On the one hand, he seems to respect him, and on the other hand, he also throws the contradiction to him to solve.

  39. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    The first is his parents' house, not your boyfriend's house. If it's your boyfriend's house, will he not let you live in it? No!

    There's nothing to think about, even if you get married, your parents won't give you a room to live in, and you don't have to complain. Because, this is yours.

    And since you want to live in someone else's house, you have to endure other people's eyes and requirements.

    Of course, this is a reasonable statement, in terms of feelings, his parents are not kind, but in any case, we should always be grateful, it is not easy for parents to prepare a house for you, so bear with it if you can.

  40. Anonymous users2024-01-04

    Love at first sight is to look at the face.

    Affection over time is to look at money.

    For your parents, his face doesn't matter anymore, the main thing is to look at his money. If you don't get married, you don't pay the bride price, and you send your daughter to the door, and this kind of loss-making business is impossible to do.

    If your boyfriend directly pays the bride price to your parents first, that's fine.

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