Introverted boy s pain, girl please come in

I think she is using your introversion as an excuse, don't be disappointed or haven't met someone with fate, I like the introverted and stable type very much, and one day I will meet someone who appreciates you, if the other party really doesn't like you I suggest not forcing it Look at what she said to you Prove that she doesn't like you this type, you don't need to change yourself for her, even if you love her very much, change it for her for a while, but you can't change it for a lifetime. So don't take the risk. Be true to yourself.

It's not necessarily that no one likes you, it's just that she doesn't like you, and she uses your being too introverted as an excuse to reject you, don't care too much, it's good to be introverted, steady.

Keep chasing. I am also introverted, he rejected me when I chased her, but I didn't give up, I had to try to change myself, make myself cheerful and sunny, if I didn't succeed 3 times. Forget it, don't mind adding 838185772 I can tell you about my experience!

Keep chasing and don't give up after all, she's someone you like.

.This is indeed a problem. Unless you have the money. Or Zhang's okay, or humor. If you don't have one, then it's better to be single. Purely personal opinion, hehe.

Have you ever asked yourself if you love her?

If you really love her, act quickly, a good girl is chased by many people, don't wait until you lose it to regret it Love to say, love to do, girls are very emotional, you have to be brave and bold to say what is in your heart, tell her how you feel about her, don't be afraid of rejection, because if you don't do it, how do you know you can't do it Also, don't be too abrupt and scare girls! I wish you happiness.

First of all, I want to say that it is rare for an introvert to be able to ask questions on the platform.

To be honest, in my opinion, "introversion" is not a disadvantage, but everyone has a different personality, first of all, you need to figure out whether you don't want to talk because you are introverted, or because you can't talk about it. Judging by your description, it probably belongs to the second type. You need to have a certain amount of accumulated life knowledge, and the more knowledge you have, you will naturally become "able to speak", and you can talk to others more about some things you know well at this stage, and strengthen communication with others.

The second point is that you say that it is difficult to talk about witty words on the Internet, which is a very common phenomenon at present, this is because you may feel that "you can communicate with each other very safely because you can't see each other on the Internet, and you are not afraid of losing face if you say something wrong", try to pay more attention to some communication skills in life, listen more to the style of those who can speak, and imitate.

The third point is that you are very attentive to what others say about you, and you are very uncomfortable. You can think like this, "The people who pass by just see me, no matter how bad I behave, I guess it's just the same side, and I won't meet you in the future", and what others think is their business, for example, you say that you are shy, others can say that you are familiar and civil, you will never satisfy everyone, do your best.

As for you saying that you are in love. My personal advice is for junior high school students not to fall in love. Love in school is undoubtedly the purest, but you can't deny that school is very busy.

You have to take care of a lot of things besides love, such as grades, which can make you physically and mentally exhausted. And love in school rarely ends well.

In fact, it's nothing, I'm like this, I'm very introverted, I never tell people anything, I'm very confident, very ambitious, high-minded and not exposed, don't be too inferior, I used to have low self-esteem, this is a matter of mentality, adjust my mentality, I won't care about things that have nothing to do with me, if you are with someone you like, slowly there will be more topics, if introverted people find a confidant, they will talk about everything, it's not like this, don't care too much about other people's ideas, do your own thing, I feel very chic now.

First of all, congratulations to the landlord, you can see that your character is an improvement in itself.

You yourself say that you are afraid that you will make a fool of yourself or do not do well, and others will laugh at you.

The landlord has thought about it, who has learned to run since birth, everyone first learns to climb, then learns to walk, and then learns to run.

Since you want to twist your own character, then don't be afraid of making a fool of yourself, who hasn't made a fool of yourself?

Life is nothing more than laughing at others, or making others laugh. In terms of mentality, we must let go and adjust.

There will come a time when our parents will not be with us, and the only one who can help us at that time is ourselves.

It's good to want to reverse this personality now, participate in more group activities, and don't be afraid to make a fool of yourself or mess things up.

Everyone has the potential to be embarrassed or do bad things.

For accusations or accusations from others, you must learn to distinguish between good intentions and malicious intentions, if it is well-intentioned, be grateful, and you will become better than before.

If it's malicious, don't hesitate to return the favor.

In addition, from your words, I feel a kind of lack of confidence, participate in more group activities, gatherings, and communicate more with others that you are interested in.

After a long time, your inferiority complex will naturally disappear.

Finally, I wish the landlord success.

You first try to overcome your fear of failure, failure is the mother of success, there is nothing so scary.

If you think about it, if someone else doesn't do well and fails, you won't keep laughing at him because of this.

Sometimes others laugh at it, that is, everyone is having fun together, there is no special target for anyone, and there is no malice.

Failure is a very common thing, you have to allow yourself to fail, you can face your failure, let go of your face, and so on, and enjoy the game itself

How old are you, friend, you are more introverted than me, you need someone to force you, otherwise it will be difficult for you to get out of this step, since you have discovered your own problems, it means that you can still be saved, just be cruel to yourself, tell your best person, tell him to force you, and he will help you.

It's up to the person. If an extrovert wants the other person to listen, they will like someone who is more quiet and willing to listen. This is called complementarity.

But if extroverts want each other to interact together, the opposite is true.

Find out what type she is.

Good luck with your relationship!