Medina and her mother in law quarreled over a pair of shoes, which of Li Sheng s words left Medina s

Since ancient times, the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law has been the most difficult. Whether it is before or after you get married, the relationship between your daughter-in-law and mother-in-law will inevitably have a little friction, and no family can avoid it, and the same is true for celebrity families. Recently, in a variety show "Mother-in-law and Mother", there is a picture segment that reflects the small friction between the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, and the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law are Medina and her mother-in-law.

Although Medina and Jiang Chao, the star couple, do not belong to the category of celebrities in the entertainment industry, the husband and wife also have a certain degree of attention after they have passed the variety shows, not to mention that they are on the family-style variety show "Mother-in-law and Mother", and as an audience who eats melons, of course, they like the family affairs of gossip and gossip stars.

In the show, Medina and her mother-in-law had an argument over a pair of shoes, and the relationship was at a stalemate. The reason is that Medina's mother-in-law wants to buy a pair of shoes for Jiang Chao on the Internet, but Medina thinks that these shoes are not good, but her mother-in-law thinks that it is just a pair of shoes, and if it is not good to wear, it can also be worn as slippers at home, which will not be good. In this regard, Medina said that there are already a lot of shoes at home, and neither of them will let go, and her mother-in-law even said a sentence with a heavier tone, "I have to control everything I buy", which is obviously an angry sentence from her mother-in-law, but even so it means that her mother-in-law is really a little angry.

Seeing this, some viewers may feel that Medina is a bit excessive, after all, this is also a piece of mother-in-law's heart, and they feel that Medina is a little ignorant to do this. But Medina is a person who insists on her own ideas, and she feels very uncomfortable in the face of her mother-in-law's insistence, and then the two do not communicate a little bit in the process of arriving at the hotel, and they have been frozen. After arriving at the hotel, as soon as Medina saw Li Sheng, she took the initiative to tell Li Sheng about the conflict between her mother-in-law because of buying shoes.

Watching Medina's rhetoric in the show, she wanted Li Sheng to help her persuade her mother-in-law, after all, there are enough shoes at home, and there is no need to buy any more. And Li Sheng, who is a clear-eyed person, after hearing what happened to Medina and her mother-in-law, made Medina speechless with just one sentence. First of all, Li Sheng pointed out Medina's problem and said to her, "Not smart, you know? , and then gave Medina a look, "If Mom likes it, you can buy it."

After Li Sheng finished speaking, Medina finally had nothing to say, and lived in harmony with her mother-in-law again. Judging from this incident, Li Sheng is really good at handling the relationship between himself and his mother-in-law. Also, in fact, just because of a pair of shoes, and the family is unhappy, it is indeed a very unworthy thing, not to mention the hurt harmony, I am afraid that because of a small thing and affect the harmony of the whole family, so under reasonable circumstances, occasionally let go of a little bit of stubbornness, accept the choice of the family, it is not impossible.

Li Sheng told Medina that since her mother liked it, she had to buy it, and this sentence directly made Medina speechless. I have to say that Li Sheng's EQ is really higher than Medina's.

1. In fact, sometimes small compromises will be exchanged for family harmony

2. Some insistence is often unnecessary

In my opinion, Medina and her mother-in-law did not insist on it because of a pair of shoes, but because the two of them had already reached the point of incompatibility. These two strong women always want to control each other, but neither party's temper and character allow it, and the only thing that can balance them is the existence of Jiang Chao and the child. Their mode of communication and getting along is very similar to the relationship between many mothers-in-law and daughters-in-law in life now, and learning to compromise with each other should be a way for both of them to learn to live in harmony.

Medina and her mother-in-law are at a stalemate over a pair of shoes, and they should learn to compromise when necessary, because the family and everything is prosperous, and it is not a solution to quarrel between the two sides all the time.

Sometimes there is really no need to be at a stalemate because of a matter, which will definitely affect the relationship between each other, so it is better to learn to compromise when necessary.

When necessary, you should really learn to compromise, so as not to bring more troubles to your life, but also to promote mutual affection, which will make family life happier.