What s the most important proverb you would like to tell your children? Why?

Although I don't have any children yet, I really like the following sentence because it is a beacon for our life path.

Industry is good at diligence, and absurdity is frolic; Actions are made in thought, and destroyed in follow.

Source: Tang Hanyu's "Explanation of Entering Study".

Meaning: The success of career or study lies in hard work, diligence and enterprising, too playful, relaxed requirements will achieve nothing; To be a man, we must think carefully and think carefully to achieve something, willful, sloppy, and casual will only lead to failure.

Comments:The key to cultivating children's diligence is to let them develop the habit of doing things well and finishing well, and avoid giving up halfway.

Cultivate children's ability to make the right choice, in the process of choosing, first to think, judge, when the choice is made, in fact, thinking has a result, after the choice must be adhered to, do not choose blindly, make a decision carefully, make a decision to take it seriously.

Someone in the West has proposed a "10,000-hour rule":

Studies have found that any world-class level requires at least 10,000 hours of training, and no world-class expert has been found to have less than that number in their field of expertise. It seems as if the brain has to spend that long digesting and understanding to reach an extremely proficient level.

Industry is good at diligence, and absurdity is frolic; Actions are made in thought, and destroyed in follow. In the career of life, we do not hesitate to choose diligence, she is the inducer of almost everything in the world. As long as we think diligently, work hard with diligent hands, treat work with diligent hearts, and persevere, then our lives will bloom and make the time of life more shining and wonderful.

I don't have any children, but if I had, I would probably tell my children the motto: If you want to keep the original branches and leaves of a fallen tree, how can you hold it, because the donor always gives the recipient an inferiority complex that looks up to others, and as a result, the inferiority complex becomes hostile.

If you want to maintain the original branches and leaves, how can you hold on to the fallen tree?

The big eaves of the rich man.

Once upon a time, a kind-hearted rich man built a large house, and he specially asked the builder to build the eaves around it twice as long, so that the poor and homeless could temporarily shelter from the wind and snow below.

When the house was built, many poor people gathered under the eaves, and they even set up stalls to buy and sell, and made fires to cook, and the noisy voices and smoke made the rich unbearable. The unhappy family members often quarrel with the people under the eaves.

In winter, an old man froze to death under the eaves, and everyone scolded the rich man for being unkind.

In the summer, a hurricane made everyone else's house fine, but the rich man's house was actually lifted because of the long eaves. The villagers said that this was evil and evil retribution.

When the roof was rebuilt, the rich man asked for only a small eaves to be built, because he understoodThe aftermath of giving always makes the recipient have an inferiority complex that looks up to others, and as a result, the inferiority complex becomes hostile.

The rich man donated his money to charity and built a small house, which was much smaller than the previous one, but with walls on all sides, and was a formal house. Many homeless people have been given temporary shelter in it, and when they leave, they ask which good person donated this small house.

Within a few years, the rich man became the most popular man, and even after his death, people continued to remember him for his blessings. A man's saying: "If you want to maintain the original branches and leaves of a fallen tree, how can you hold it?" ”

I hope my children can be kind, generous, and earnest!

Summary:A useful sentence can make you remember for a lifetime, affect your life, and be very useful to you in any way, so that you can live a wonderful life.

The first sentence: "People are forced out".

Everyone has potential, born in peace and died in sorrow, so, when facing pressure, don't be anxious, maybe this is just a little test of life for you, believe in yourself, everything can be handled well, forcing a hero to go to Liangshan, the times create heroes, the poor think about change, people only have pressure to have motivation!

The second sentence: "If you are simple, the world is simple to you".

Simple life can live happily, people should be self-sufficient, tolerant and generous, nothing can be complicated, the load of the soul is heavy, will complain about the world. It is necessary to delete the memory regularly, and discard the unpleasant people and things from the memory, life is short, wealth and status are attached, life does not bring death, and a simple life is a happy life.

The third sentence: "There is no dress rehearsal in life, every day is live".

Occasionally, I wonder what life would be like if it was really like a video game, and I could choose to start over if I broke it. It is precisely because time has passed and there is no return, and every day cannot be recovered, so we must cherish every inch of time, honor our parents, love our children, be considerate of our lovers, and be kind to our friends!

Summary:

1. Be a hardworking person. God rewards diligence, all successful people are hard-working people, and only hard-working people will be rewarded, diligence is the only ladder to success, we must remember the ancient adage: laziness is the root of all evil.

2. Be a lover of others. I would have liked to say to be a philanthropic person, but how unrealistic that is. Being able to love your relatives, your friends, and all the people around you is already a kind of realm.

As for loving all people, it can only be extravagant. By the way, son, you must love yourself even more, and those who don't love themselves are the ones who don't know how to be human.

3. I am glad that the teacher gave us this opportunity to communicate with you here, in fact, my most prolific words are: your efforts. Mom and Dad are looking at it, Mom believes that you will learn better, you have not only worked hard in your studies recently, but also performed very well in life, and you can consciously arrange teacher counseling, well, Mom is very satisfied with you, work hard!

4. Children, as parents, we also want to be your friends, and hope that in the future, we can communicate more and communicate more, so that parents can become good partners in your study and life.

5. I hope that you will study hard in the new semester, get along well with your classmates, and strive to continue to create excellence in ideological and moral quality, cultural quality, labor skills, health and other aspects. I also hope that you will be proactive and bold to become a cadre through your own efforts and strive to be a good student.

Children, you need to go through it yourself in the future, so no matter what setbacks you encounter, you must face them bravely, work hard to overcome them, and go on bravely.

I want to say to my daughter who has not seen her for many years: children who learn to be self-reliant and grow up will generally have good self-management skills, and my mother has a small income, so I hope that my daughter can be more talented than my mother and have the ability to take care of myself. Study more, exercise more and all aspects, be able to do a good job of yourself, you can mix in the sea of people, my mother feels that the foundation is poor, it is very sad!

On the premise of not breaking the law, lacking morality, and not hindering others, always do what makes you happy. One day I had a child, and I was going to tell him that.

Don't be picky when you're a child, you need to have balanced nutrition, children don't have to apply a lot of skin care products and cosmetics like their mothers, but they also need to pay attention to maintenance**Don't tan.

Children should never forget that you have come from ** and will go to ** in the future, you must keep in mind the goal, work towards the ideal of life, and work tirelessly.

I will tell my children: don't be afraid of difficulties, have the courage to challenge, life will encounter a lot of troubles, and it is not easy, you must face difficulties.

Today's Lego robotics class is more difficult to program and build structures, and my son can only follow behind a senior classmate in the group and listen to his command to be responsible for handing parts. He said to himself, "I'm just responsible for handing over the parts."

The son's father said next to him: "Not everyone has to do big things and take on heavy responsibilities, and being a good assistant is not necessarily a bad thing, so you don't have to think of suffering." ”

To be a cultured person from an early age, even if you occasionally burst into foul language, you must have basic morals, and do not do things that go beyond the bottom line.

I will tell my children: love is that your mother didn't dislike me for having no money, and family love is that I won't let you find a poor bastard.

When I was a child, I had to take the tutoring class and talent class seriously, even if I was tired and annoying, I learned to persevere. Because you may not know that what you learned when you were young will have an unimaginable impact on you when you grow up.

Recently, I was watching Chai Jing's "Seeing", and there is a sentence I want to give to my future children: "There are no good people and bad people in this world, only people who have done bad things and people who have done good things."

Try to get close to the ideal height before puberty, otherwise you will gain weight if you don't pay attention to your diet during puberty! It's really hard to lose weight when you're fat!

First of all, I had to fall in love, get married, and have children.