Heart wrenching troubles, why people have troubles and pains

In fact, it is not good to say emotional things. In terms of age, the difference of two years is nothing, age is not a problem. If you like him, that's not a problem.

But if you're looking for a marriage partner, you'll have to consider a lot of practical things. The legal age of marriage for a man is 22 years old, which means you have to wait for him for at least 4 years. Your relationship has to be well managed in the past four years.

There is also the consideration of his family, regional issues, and his ability. Is it possible to take responsibility? If he can really give you a sense of security and not let you be wronged, you can consider accepting him, and if your family members oppose it, let him prove it to your family, he can give you happiness, and I believe your family will agree.

This is still rational and thoughtful. After all, youth is fleeting.

18 years old? I'm still in high school. Child. Be realistic.

Beauty··· Let's be realistic·· Touching can't be eaten as a meal.

o() o Alas.

If you like it, take it!

My girlfriend and I are also my girlfriends Big !

We're in good together!

You know it's impossible between you, but you can't bear to lose it.

I thought, if it was possible, don't give up so quickly. But since your affairs are impossible, then don't continue, not only delaying the time of both parties, but also exhausting your feelings.

Emotional things are different from other things, they are forged with their own hearts, if you continue to communicate with each other, and when you are separated, both parties will be miserable, miserable.

And it takes a long time to forget, so I hope you end your relationship immediately, otherwise it will be uncomfortable to be hurt.

Everyone will have troubles, and it is impossible for a person's life to be all the time.

Bai wonderful. Our lives will not be stopped because of troubles, and people will not be unable to live because of troubles. In fact, the person who is often troubled is generally a person who has a delicate mind and rich feelings, and the more he thinks, the more troubles will naturally increase.

Now, the only thing we can do is: be kind to ourselves! Be responsible for your own spirit, most responsible for your own life, and responsible for your smile.

Everything, as long as we think from the good side, there will always be a time when we can think openly, this process may be a little long, but as long as we always have a firm smile, then all difficulties and troubles will be trampled underfoot. Friends, everyone has troubles. But how to resolve it requires more of your own efforts.

Adopt a positive mindset and smile at yourself every day and believe that your life will be different...

Take a step back, let the three minds be calm, willing to suffer is not an idiot, can suffer is a man of lofty ideals, afraid that the villain is not incompetent, respect the gentleman is virtuous, if you are proud, you should have more than one step to do things. Holding ** is precious, knowing peace and happiness is worth a thousand gold, thinking twice about things, and being angry and forbearing the highest. Don't be greedy for windfalls, for those who are content are happy.

If you can do this thing, you will be happy for the rest of your life.

The current society is a society full of feelings, love has long become a fast meal, not for a long time, but for what once had.

Expert. What will happen in the future, who thinks so far? As a result, love has become a pillow when you are lonely, a traveling companion when you are lonely; Thus, love becomes an excuse for some people to achieve their goals

Love at this time. It has lost its aura of beauty and has become realistic and worldly, and modern people do not know how to cherish love. When you have it, you suck the love of love unbridledly, without watering or fertilizing, so the flower of love will wither after a long time.

When love went away, I found that the beautiful love I was striving for was once so close to me, but unfortunately there is no regret medicine in this world. One day, you find that there is no way out, then there are only two roads in front ---of you, one is to keep going, the other is to turn around, no matter which path you choose, remember not to be too extreme

Because human beings are a kind of high-level animals, du will think about problems, will have feelings, if you lose these dao, then what is the meaning of the meaning, what is the difference between that and low-level animals, in fact, this is a good thing, at least it can prove that you are serious about this problem, and you will feel troubled and painful if you care about this problem. Don't be depressed and think that there are still many joys in life waiting for you to discover it, don't just dwell on your troubles, come out and you will find how beautiful this world is!!

If there is no pain.

Annoyed, then our life is not zhi

It's a complete life. It is because of those pains, internal troubles, that we are here.

Tolerate adversity and become more and more courageous. These may be the spices of those lives, there is happiness, happiness, there is relative pain, trouble... If you look at everything from a different perspective, everything will be different!

The happiness of life is a kind of fullness to put it bluntly. The choice will make you happy.

Zhifu, let you be happy, dao your choice is as satisfying as you want. On the contrary.

You will be unhappy and bored. Because you don't have the satisfaction of happiness. But our life will never let you live smoothly, and satisfactory choices are always replaced by contradictions, which is why you feel that there are too many troubles in life.

When the time passes, we.

Forget that we once loved someone without hesitation, forgot his tenderness, forgot everything he did to return me. I don't have any feelings for him anymore, I don't love him anymore. Why is this happening? It turns out that our love was lost to the year.

Month. First it is love that makes you forget time, and then it is time that makes you forget love.

Because man has thoughts, and man is a higher animal, man not only has troubles and pains, but also has solutions to them.

1. Everyone's life is full of troubles and pains.

We don't think that only our own life is full of so much emptiness, boredom, loneliness, troubles and pain, in fact, each of us is the same, as expensive as **, cheap as a beggar, no exception.

The Tao Te Ching says: Everyone in the world knows that beauty is beauty, evil has been, everyone knows that good is good, and bad is good. Therefore, there is no mutual birth, difficulty and ease are mutually compatible, the length is dwarfed, the high and the low are inclined to each other, the sound is harmonious, and the front and back are followed.

Lao Tzu told the truth of our world, that we are a world of dualism. Only ugliness can be beautiful, evil can be good, there is nothing, there is easy, there is difficulty, there is shortness to long, low to high, pain to happiness, and unhappiness to happiness.

Since we live in this dualistic world, emptiness, boredom, loneliness, troubles and pain are inevitable and necessary. Whether you like it or not, they've always been there, but what do we think of it? Are we afraid? Afraid?

Weep? Repent and redress one's errors? Or to feel it, to face it, to understand it, to live with it, to dance with it?

2. Actually, you are happy, but you don't know it.

I remember a story about a man who complained to God that he was poor and that he was the unluckiest person in the world

I'll give you a million, but I need you to exchange it with a pair of hands, would you like it? "God asked;

I don't want to, I can't do anything without hands, what can I do with a million? The man hesitated;

Would you rather trade a pair of feet for that? God said.

I can't go anywhere without feet, no. The man thought about it.

Would you rather trade a pair of eyes for that? Again, God said.

How can I see this beautiful world without eyes? The man said in fear.

Would you trade one of your ears for that? God continued to ask.

Without ears, how can I listen to the beautiful sounds of the world? The man said resolutely.

Yes," said God, "you see that you have four million, how can you be destitute?" ”

So we are all happy, compared to those who are unfortunate. When you complain about ruining and not getting promoted, there are still people who don't have jobs; When you complain that you don't have the money to travel to see the sights, there are still people who don't have eyes; When you complain about not having shoes, there are still people who don't have feet. You are lucky, there are 7 billion people in the world, many countries are at war, many countries are poor and weak, but you are fortunate to be reborn in a country without war, to a rising power, a good family, with sound limbs, no natural disabilities, no early death, and the privilege of studying; If you are lucky enough to work and start a family, there will be many people who are not lucky to you at every step, how happy you are.

Everyone has ups and downs!

Why people have troubles and pains is very simple, because people have seven emotions and six desires, they have jealousy, they will be jealous when they see something better than themselves, they will be envious when they are jealous, they will think about what that person has, and if you don't have it yourself, you will be annoyed, and if you can't get something, you will be miserable.