How to restrain feelings you shouldn t have

1. In many cases, an important sign of growth is to learn to restrain emotions, restrain strong expressions, restrain self-performance, and know how to accept the irreversible inequalities in relationships. This is a kind of growth, but also a kind of helplessness. The moon is cloudy and sunny, and it is common for you to like someone so much, but the other party can't fall in love with you.

It makes you miserable and it makes you grow.

Second, you should not blindly follow when you are emotional, learn to restrain your emotions, and effectively use your feelings to control your spiritual appeals, which is the right way. Analyzing feelings with a clear mind is an ability that needs to be cultivated, that is, the ability to control emotions rationally.

3. People must learn to restrain themselves, restrain themselves, restrain their feelings, and restrain all things.

Fourth, learn to maintain a resilient relationship. There are expansion and contraction, addition and subtraction. Stay sober and restrained.

Fifth, when I first left you, I would not be used to it, I would watch your dynamics every day, think about why I am like this, and begin to learn to slowly let go of not caring, and restrain myself from thinking about you and not asking about you.

Sixth, I feel like everyone is leaving me. In the eyes of others, I have become a scumbag, and if I am wrong, I am wrong. What should I quibble about? It was my soft-heartedness and indecisiveness that caused all this.

7. If you always waste time on garbage people, and let the other party bring out your annoying side to the greatest extent, at this point, I always believe that cautious restraint is better than brave quality, and it is also the most important truth I learned in this impulsive relationship, women must be more rational when they are in love.

01. Time, let the deep things get deeper and deeper, and let the shallow things get shallower and shallower. After a long time, the love faded and dispersed. Don't wait for people who shouldn't wait, don't break hearts that shouldn't be broken. Only by paying affection will you be really distressed; As long as we tolerate each other, there will be true feelings.

02. No matter how strong emotions are, they will eventually fade, liking and love are mostly subjective and emotional, and only mutual appreciation can be close to long-lasting. Don't lose yourself at any time, don't slack off to become a better version of yourself, this is also the easiest way to maintain every relationship and relationship.

03. What makes women remember is feelings, and what makes men forget is feelings. Feelings precipitate over time, and feelings disappear over time. Who can understand whose deep love, and who can understand whose departure.

Everyone thought they would be the exception, in addition to regret. The feelings that everyone thinks they have are also exceptional, in addition to fading.

04. As long as they are together, even if the relationship fades and they don't love so much, as long as the other party is not at fault, betrayal, or touches the bottom line, they will choose to continue to be together because of responsibility.

05. Many people think that because their feelings are weak, people will become lazy, but in fact, people are conquered by inertia first, and then their feelings slowly fade. Nowadays, more and more people just want to fall in love for a lifetime, but they are reluctant to enter into marriage. Because, marriage makes people easy to become lazy.

Feelings that shouldn't be there, or you should restrain yourself from venting appropriately, or do something else, divert your attention so that you don't think about it anymore, and regulate your emotions.

Many people will be in a relationship and will not be able to exercise themselves. Because for them, such a thing may not be comparable to that of staying with each other in a relationship. However, these are two completely different things.

If you can't do it, it means you can't be too healthy. Therefore, no matter how strong your feelings for the other person are, it is meaningless. After all, you can't stay with him for long.

One should not feel so intimidated by oneself living alone. After all, if you can't enjoy this life, you can't be happy. Although, things like feelings are really more important to you.

But there are other things in your life that you need to do. If you don't have your own private space, then when you get things done, you will feel that you are not free, and your life is being interfered with by others.

One should never think that you don't need to clean up. At all times, you can only make yourself feel happy if you do it with light makeup on yourself. After all, in many cases, happiness is something that you bring about yourself.

Instead, you get it from the other person. Moreover, only if you can clean yourself up, the other party will want to stay by your side. The vast majority of people are still relatively superficial and care more about each other's appearance.

If a person does not know how to grasp their friends in a relationship, then you should not let yourself regret it in the future. After all, once you miss out on your friend, it's hard to get him to come back. It's not easy to meet a friend who can really get along well with you.

If you choose to lose him because of something like a relationship, then you will definitely feel remorse. However, by that time it will be too late.

For many people, reading such things is too tedious. And the relationship is completely different, as long as you think of each other, you can make yourself feel happy. It's true that reading something like this can be very boring.

However, what you get from it is often something that feelings can't give you. Moreover, if you really want the relationship between two people to last for a long time, then you must make yourself a good read. This is the key to knowing how to get along with each other in a relationship.

One should never be afraid of the hardships of work. Even if you are in a relationship, when you are with the other person, you will occasionally get hurt, and you will make yourself feel miserable. Therefore, it is normal for work to bring you unpleasantness.

You should ask yourself to think more about the benefits of your work. For example, it can make you well, and it can also make you understand that you are also a very valuable being. If you don't work for the sake of your relationship, you will be despised by the other person in the relationship.

"Don't be confused, don't be trapped in love, don't be afraid of the future, don't think about the past, so, well. "You can't let yourself be emotionally influenced, otherwise your life will be very difficult. After all, you can't control your own life.

Learn to restrain your feelings and don't treat love as the whole of life. You should learn to plan for yourself.

Then this still has to start according to the specific situation, and restrain your feelings for a certain aspect. Treat him with restraint and reason.

1.Don't express joy easily.

2.Calm down.

3.No promises are made to anyone.

4.There is a strong consciousness inside.

5.Be brave in the face of setbacks.