Caught in an impossible relationship, how to control yourself?

No emotion is impossible, if you are sure that you really like him, you must be brave to express your thoughts, do not let yourself leave regrets, if you have to control, you can choose to play games with friends and travel, relax your mood, divert your attention.

In this case, you should try to adjust your mentality, establish a correct view of marriage and love, and can put all your energy into your work, and then let time fade away all this.

First of all, you have to divert your attention, for example, keep yourself busy, do what you like, and control yourself not to go to that person, not to think about that person.

Feelings are part of control, but they are not completely governed by our will.

Feelings are produced by chemical reactions and neural activity in our brains, and these responses can be influenced by factors such as our experiences, environment, culture, and personal values. While we can influence our feelings through our thoughts and actions, our feelings can also be influenced by moderating our subconscious and physical reactions. For example, even when we try to hide our fears or anxieties, our body language and physiological responses may reveal how we really feel.

1.Be aware of your feelings: Knowing your feelings is the first step to controlling them. Try to observe your own emotional responses and think about how they affect your behavior and emotions.

2.Change your way of thinking: Sometimes, our negative emotions are caused by our negative thought patterns. Try to think about the problem in a more positive way, which can help reduce negative emotions.

3.Learn to relax: Relax the body and mind through deep breathing, meditation, yoga and other methods to reduce the tension of the body and emotions.

Overall, while our feelings may not be completely under our control, there are a few tricks and methods we can use to better manage and control them.

can't control it, although the key to anything is yourself, but the feeling is really intriguing.

Falling in love with someone can't help it, there is no reason, even if they are not together in the end, they want to forget each other, but they will find that the more they forget, the more they miss ......

Don't love too much, in love, whoever is serious first will lose, the more you pay at the beginning, you are destined to suffer a lot of damage in the end, and this damage is difficult to wear off, it takes a long time to repair. When you feel that you can't extricate yourself from your love, it means that you are still relatively rational and there is still a possibility of coming out. There is no one in the world who can't live without anyone, and no one can definitely accompany them to the end, so be rational when facing feelings, leave a little space for yourself, and don't think about the other party too important, the kind that can't be separated.

You also have your own friends, you have your own social circle, and there is not only love in your world, but also other beautiful things waiting for you to discover.

In the face of love, you have to be sensible, there are many people who lose control when facing love, and they can't wait to give everything to each other, and even do some incredible things for each other, especially ridiculous and wrong things. Many people make irreparable mistakes because of love, so keep a sane mind at all times. Don't rely too much on love, anyone can leave whom, it's just a matter of whether you want to leave or not.

The more you rely on the other person, the more emboldened the other person will be. When you are deeply involved and can't extricate yourself, you have already lost in this relationship, and you have lost completely. Many people get hurt because they are too irrational, and the injuries are self-inflicted.

Let life be full, you are deeply in love and can't extricate yourself because you are too idle, you should keep yourself busy, life is full, and you don't have so much time to think about emotional things. And you won't be overly dependent on love, because you have other things to do and friends to maintain. At this time, you will find that love is not all you have ever had, in addition to love, you have many things, which will bring you things that love cannot bring you.

There are three manifestations of the indication that you are stuck in feelings.

But it's okay to hand it over to time, it's just that it's more difficult at the moment, and there is no need to resist this feeling.

How should the question come out?

You can think, you can miss, you can cry, but then remember to tell yourself that it's over, and now it's just a temporary discomfort.

A few more times, and that's it.

My personal way of dealing with it is to carry out this relationship to the extreme, so that I don't regret it in the end. Then the result is not acceptable, and he leaves. I am not afraid of letting go in life, but I am afraid of unwillingness and regret after letting go.

Love, if it really exists, doesn't disappear. Even if it's not as hot as it used to be, it can still give us warmth. You don't have to force yourself to cut it off.

Running away will only emphasize, but will not help you solve the problem. When you've done everything you want to do, you'll find that you don't have to run away from anything, even if that person is still there and isn't the same person you used to be. That relationship is not the same relationship that it used to be.

If you don't want to let go, don't force yourself, you can use the time to change yourself as much as possible, change those shortcomings, after a long time, you will not feel regretful, but will feel worthwhile. You can also use your time to do things you wanted to do but never had the opportunity to do.

Time and new love are often said methods. It would be immoral for me to find someone to walk out of the shadow of a broken love. So when you don't meet a new love that you can really like, it takes time to solve it.

But as the lyrics say, time can also be poison. Keep yourself busy every day until you are too busy to think about emotional matters. Time will heal, no matter how deep the feelings are, they will slowly fade away with the passage of time.

All you need to do is accept it honestly and admit the harm it has caused you, rather than avoiding it. When you feel uncomfortable, you cry out loud, and crying is also a way to say goodbye to the past. Confide in your trusting people and let them slowly guide you out.

Throw away everything that has to do with the other person. Even if the emotion comes, I really want to see or want to connect, I have to insist on it, and I will insist on it. And then one moment you'll find that it's nothing more than that. And then you walk out.

Love is a kind of uncontrollable feeling, he doesn't love you, it's as uncontrollable as if you love him, if you don't love, you don't love, you become beautiful, you get better, you become interesting, it's all loveless.

If there is true love between you, then you should go according to the depths of your heart, do not regret and do not oppress the things that you do not want in your heart, otherwise you will also torture more people who love you, but you do not love them.

Try to confide in someone, or go on a trip, time is the best medicine, time will heal all wounds.

There is such a song whose lyrics are particularly well written, that is, to express the emotions between men and women, and the lyrics are written like this: "I want to control myself and not let anyone see me cry." It can be seen that it is difficult for men and women in love to control their emotions.

For example: lovesickness, love to death, self-harm for a person, and even martyrdom, all of which are caused by not being able to control their feelings. It can be seen how terrible it is for a person to be unable to control his feelings.

So, the question is, what if a person can't control his feelings? That's okay, here are some of the methods I've summarized, I hope it will help you.

First: Read more books to broaden your horizons.

Many people who drill into their relationships, or can't control their feelings, are because their horizons are not broad enough and they think about problems relatively simply. If you want to change such a state of feelings, reading is the best way, although it will not have obvious effects in the short term, but reading more books, in the long run, it will be beneficial and harmless.

Second: make more friends and improve experience.

If you can't control your emotions, making more friends is a good solution. At the very least, a friend can enlighten you and accompany you. It won't make you go the wrong way because you can't control your feelings.

In addition, improve your experience and pattern, and look at things no longer to see one one, but to be able to see one and know three.

Third: exercise more and develop interests.

If you encounter emotional confusion or can't control your feelings, you can choose to exercise more. For example, hiking, playing basketball, cycling, etc. Developing your interests is a good way to control your emotions.

The more interests a person has, the less monotonous life will be. On the contrary, it will become colorful, wouldn't it kill two birds with one stone.

This emotion refers to love or friendship.

If it's love.

No one can say anything about friend love.

No one can be honest with anything.

You can't love someone for a reason, and you're not wrong.

As long as two people are happy.

Care for each other and complement each other.

It couldn't be better.

Friendship is different.

You can't be emotional about your work.

In this way, you are harming yourself.

It also hurt my friends.

To life - friendship is of course the most important.

But it can't be because of feelings.

I know my friend's fault.

without correcting. Tolerate him.

Isn't this hurting your friends?

Is it uncontrollable?

A literary friend said: "My point of view is uncontrollable, and it is the truth!" For the sake of love, you can ignore the law, morality and right and wrong! What else can I care about if I can die for love?! ”

I watched it and was very happy. The book says that friends are straight friends and forgive friends and have a lot of news, which are three kinds of good friends. After reading this text, it can be seen that this friend is a direct friend and a good friend. The more friends like this, the better.

This friend, a retired friend, is a diligent and studious friend, a good writer, and an honest friend, as can be seen from his writing. I admired him and admired his writing.

For such an upright old-timer, I am very serious about learning. I'll also think about his message very seriously. Even if I don't necessarily agree, even if I have a different opinion, it won't change my serious and learning mentality.

For example, I don't agree with what he said in the previous paragraph. Let me refute it.

Isn't the emotion that can be controlled true love? It can't be generalized. We can refute it with counter-evidence.

For example, parents love their children, whether they are sincere and sincere. Licking the calves. The love of parents for their children is real, and if they can't control it, it's spoiling.

Sober parents will not ignore right and wrong in order to satisfy their children's desires, nor will they indulge their children regardless of law and morality, otherwise they will only harm their children. Because desires are endless, no one can satisfy a person who has endless desires.

Love without doting, this is something that many parents can do. Love is true love, and if it is well controlled, it will not become doting, and you can choose between the immediate and the long-term, and make long-term plans for your children with foresight.

Even love can be controlled rationally. If a man loves a woman very much, and then he can't control himself, so he doesn't care about the woman's feelings, the law and morality, the time and the occasion, and forcibly acts like a beast, is that true love? If so, isn't the love of husband and wife true love?

On the contrary, I think that love that disregards law and morality is not true love, but just a hooligan in the name of love.

Therefore, I still think that emotions can be controlled, transferred, diluted, sublimated, and the right choice can be made between whether to take action or not. Love is certain, whether you should take action, and how you should do it, only depends on whether it is beneficial to help the person you love, carefully consider.