A father who lives in the world but dies in his heart, should he still admit it?

Updated on society 2024-07-12
12 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    This is my personal opinion: of course it should be recognized! I have the same background as you, but after all, it is your father, no matter how bad he was to you when you were a child, or if he didn't accompany you and rarely cared about your affairs, that can be forgiven.

    You have to know how to be tolerant, because when you were young, if a family member treats you badly, you will have to turn his face against him in the future, which is not the right thing to do. Now that you are full of resentment towards your father, why don't you use the tolerance and kindness of your nature to help him and move him? No matter how bad he is to you and how inhuman he is, he is still your biological father, a flesh and blood relative, why should he be so?

    I'm about the same as you, so I'll tell you, it's best to forgive him for his mistakes and help him, because your father is probably not good to you on the surface, but he is secretly proud of you in his heart.

    I hope you agree with me and go and be reconciled to your father!

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    I think it depends on how he treats you now, people make mistakes. It's up to him to see if he will change it, and whether he realizes that it was a mistake to abandon you. Do you want to make up for you, not specifically economically, but spiritually, whether you repent from the heart, if you are good to you and really want to make up for the father-daughter relationship, you can admit it.

    But I still take it for granted, or I don't feel like I'm wrong at all. Then don't admit it, the premise of kindness is that he treats you as a daughter. I have this kind of father, even worse than yours.

    I chose to admit him, but it was not good for me for him to be unrepentant, and I was thinking about not recognizing it, and I really sometimes felt that there was no need to morally kidnap me.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Yes, I understand your pain very well, your father abandoned your family and children when you were young, and your mother raised you in a very difficult situation, however, Dad only thinks of you when he is in trouble, let us also condemn this irresponsible father, but, after all, he is your father, and it is also appropriate to help him, however, it cannot become dependent, and it is necessary to help him conditionally.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    This depends on your concept of family, after all, it was your father and mother who gave birth to you, and it is also appropriate to help you, but if your father was really bad to you or even abused you when he was a child, then resolutely do not help.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    He's your father after all, and if you don't help him, what will happen to him? Wouldn't it be more uncomfortable for you? Repay the grievances with virtue, use your kindness to move him, and make him feel guilty about his bad treatment of you in the first place.

    Since you have struggled out, you are also a capable person after all, so if you forgive others, you should let yourself go.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    It's your father no matter what. Blood is thicker than water, don't let yourself regret it later.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Do your best to be filial to your mother, and help your father more.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    The grace of fertility is greater than all else, and we must learn to be tolerant.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Summary. Good evening, if your father asked him to do something more decisive, then you should not listen to him, although he gave you life, but he did not give you enough education in terms of education. At the same time, the day after tomorrow, you have also made your own efforts, and then let yourself grow, and not everything is given to you by him, so you still have to be confident, don't do something stupid because of his words.

    If a father lets himself die, shouldn't he die?

    Good evening, if it was the father who made him do something more decisive, then Minkong himself should not listen to him like this, although he gave you life, but he did not give you enough education in terms of education. At the same time, the day after tomorrow, you have also made your own efforts, and then let yourself grow, and not everything is given to you by him, so you still have to be confident, and Qiao Zhen is blind and don't do something stupid because of his words. Traveler.

    The value of life is very high, you can't give up the first end easily, Qi Na because you have the value of surviving, in addition to your father, there are other people who have also given you care, then you need to be responsible for other people, such as your mother Ziqin, and your brothers, sisters and friends.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Summary. Honey, hug you. Don't think so, the most important thing <> be alive

    If a father lets himself die, shouldn't he die?

    Honey, hug you. Don't think so, the most important thing <> be alive

    But he wasn't satisfied with what I did.

    No matter what your father said or did, if it hurts you, don't take your own life. You are an early individual, you should be independent and strong. Don't care what he says, just be happy and live your own life.

    He's not satisfied, maybe he expects too much from you. As long as you do it, you have a clear conscience. <>

    Okay, thank you, thank you very much, it feels good to have someone to comfort, I hope you regret that everything goes well, teacher, I won't think about it anymore, you're right, no matter what your father said, it's just angry talk, there's no need to commit suicide, Bi Ying, I just need to work hard to live, thank you.

    Hello, brother Min Oak because I saw that you rated my last time I didn't take Kai, I am very concerned about your experience. If you are satisfied with my service, I hope you can give a thumbs up! If there is a problem, I am always waiting for you.

    I wish you a happy life and a happy life!

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    You think you're not human, you're jumping out of a rock.

    Definitely not, as long as people still have a breath, they are not dead, please cherish life and love life.

    It is possible to testify, as long as it is accepted by the court.

    Of course, you can, and you have to be born again.

    No, umbrellas generally don't have UV protection.

    Backgammon is similar to Go, one is that the chess pieces are the same, both are black and white pieces, and the other is that the chessboard is similar, both are small checkered chess covers.

    Because the two play methods are different, there are fewer pieces in backgammon than in Go, and the board in backgammon is also smaller than in Go, with 15 vertical and horizontal lines on the backgammon board and 18 vertical and horizontal lines on the Go board. If you play it on a regular basis, you can play it as Go, but if it is an official match, you can't play it as Go.

    Non-night tickets allow you to enter the museum during the day until it closes, but night tickets can only be visited at night.

    It is a form of evidence, but this alone may not have a good chance of winning the case.

    The fault lies with the parents, because the parents are the children's enlightenment teachers, and they can't teach the parents to do the same. But as a child, haven't you ever read a book, never gone to school, and haven't seen how others treat your parents? Living parents can say such things when they die, is this human words?

    It's okay when they're dead, but can you get by with your conscience? How did you grow up? Will you grow up when you are born?

    Can you grow up without the love of your parents? No matter what, your parents gave you life and everything, and it is not right to be unfilial, and you have to be your parents dead? Animals will repay their parents for their nurturing grace (sheep have the grace of kneeling and crows have the meaning of feeding), are children not even as good as animals?

    What kind of contribution will "people" who are not filial to their parents make to society and humanity? The so-called there is no afterlife, don't these children know, do they really have to wait until their parents have a hundred years to regret it? I advise you to reflect on it and not to do things that you regret.

    No, it's not the same

  12. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Summary. This question is up to me, it takes a little time to type, so please be patient.

    This question is up to me, it takes a little time to type, so please be patient.

    Hello. Hello, do you always see it in dreams or in reality?

    At present. Did your father say anything to you?

    Don't speak. Does it usually appear during the day or at night?

    It has been seen both day and night.

    This situation is not your father short of money to spend.

    Have you ever sent him money.

    Send him money every year.

    Go to the paper shop to tie a few maids, and burn the house and car to him.

    I do not let you burn it now.

    Your father should be faulty something that wants you to give him.

    If you really don't let him burn, you will often go to the cemetery to visit him, and it will be good to see if it will be good after a long time.

    This phenomenon occurs when the elderly miss their children, and I have heard of it before.

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