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First love, although beautiful, is often unsuccessful! Put it down! It's the best option, you'll be happy to see her happy! I've been there, too.

Pick yourself up and pick it up, and then look at her bride, even if it's different from the position you originally thought of in your heart, it doesn't matter, just look at her happy smile, and the rest, buddy, just bless.

First love is a good memory, and if you are not together, it means that you deserve better, don't you, so you have to be strong in order to find your true love.

It's not that if you like it, you can be together, and you can't go to the end if you are together. You will meet a girl who makes you happy, happiness

It is not destined to be your dish, climb this mountain, and there will be better scenery waiting for you.

When she invited you to the wedding, she told her, "I'll go next time."

Don't think about what happened 800 years ago. It feels very childish, no wonder you haven't talked about it again.

Your love is so deep, I don't feel it after 3 years for my first love.

True love for someone not only means stretching out your hands to have each other, but also wishing her happiness while having each other. Do your duty, and as long as there is a glimmer of hope, don't ruin your marriage easily. Goethe said:

Responsibility is having a love for what you are asked to do. "People live in the world, they have to bear all kinds of responsibilities, family, work, society, in addition, we also have one of the most fundamental responsibilities, that is, the responsibility for emotions and life. In this world, we only have one chance to live, and if this only time is wasted, we cannot talk about the meaning and value of life.

In other words, other responsibilities in the world can be shared or transferred, but the responsibility for one's own emotions can only be borne by oneself alone, and one cannot rely on others at all.

Life is a hard journey, we need to trek, can be with you, through the wind and rain, can only be one. Maybe you have an unforgettable love before joining hands, such a marriage should be cherished, both men and women should always have a sincere, gentle, grateful heart, and each other to work together in the family and career, share joy and success, and bear difficulties and misfortunes together; Maybe you are in a loveless marriage, or even a wrong marriage, but since you have finally chosen each other, you have the responsibility and obligation to bear the pain, loneliness and loss that it brings. We should always accept each other with a tolerant, trusting, and understanding heart, think more about each other's benefits and advantages, take on more family responsibilities, and do not say goodbye easily until absolutely necessary.

With the passage of time, when you come to the twilight of your gray hair, you suddenly look back, it turns out that human marriage is in the process of tolerance, understanding and shared responsibility to achieve a happy ending, showing your shoulders to bear for each other.

However, what you need to realize is that there will be no smooth road in love, love only has ups and downs, only tribulations, and then it is still flat, and then it can be happy. Only by sharing weal and woe can we recess to the existence of each other and the needs of each other.

To love someone is to love his or her shortcomings, strengths, love everything he or she has, and also learn to tolerate and understand each other; Stretch out your hands.

To own each other, it should be one person who works with each other while cultivating family and career, sharing joy and success, bearing difficulties and misfortunes together, and weathering the storm together. In this way, the love between the two parties will last for a long time.

In order to pursue the happiness in your heart, people will do whatever it takes, even how high a person is, they will inadvertently do whatever it takes, which can be forgiven for you.

But if you want to step on two boats at the same time, it is not right, you will only be scolded by the world, which is beyond the scope of morality and ethics.

So what you have to do now is to make it clear to the current one, break up when it's time to break up, so that you can be single first, have no worries, and then pursue your first love, you have to remember one thing, there is a give-and-take, this is the philosophy of all things in the world, and no one can change it.

Besides, if you don't succeed in recovering your first love, and you continue to marry your current one, then this will become the thing you regret the most in your life.

To give you a simple example, if an inflamed wound is not treated, it will eventually die.

It's not that I don't bless you, or I'm afraid of you. Stealing chickens is not a loss, and the love of the two people can't be obtained, and in the end they become one. People have to obey their own commitments, and of course, if your heart is always with your first girlfriend, there is no problem for you to pursue it.

Your actions are wrong.

I don't mean to insult you here, I'm just talking about an objective analysis.

1. You have a girlfriend who is going to get married, so you can't control the love in your heart when you see your first love. At this time, what does this love mean?

Is it true love, or do you want to have sex with her.

2. If you are so disloyal to your current girlfriend, I don't think you will get a good result.

3. What kind of person is destined to have what kind of love, you will reap the consequences.

Men have to be responsible, think about you gave up this marriage for your first love, then you are sure that you can be together, you can be happy, think about why you were separated in the first place, is it to make you give up marriage like this to find him. How old a person is, think about it. Besides, your partner is about to get married, which means that she is already willing to give you her life, and you think so now, how sad he will be when he knows.

The man she is willing to live for a lifetime can't resist the meeting of a first love. Think about it, remember, responsibility!!

Fourth, there are many professional forums and knowledge platforms on the Internet, and there are also a lot of information on them, and I always go to the forum to seek solutions to professional problems.

Fifth, ask your questions more carefully and clearly! It's easier for people to understand what it means!

Thanks for taking my suggestion! !

Too greedy will only cause both sides to lose Your first love must know that you are going to have a girlfriend and also know that you are about to get married If she agrees, it is estimated that she will be killed by your current p scolded to death Think to yourself later.

The revival of old feelings is actually very simple, just get over and make it clear to you now.

Your psychology is just because you didn't get your first love, and now it's your current girlfriend who is with you, not to mention that you're going to get married, and you can cherish it, don't steal chickens and rice, be careful that your current girlfriend knows and leaves you.

Ask your first love directly how she feels about you, and if she has been thinking about you, it's okay to come together for love. But if people don't mean that, don't stalk them.

Are you playing at the 9 o'clock theater? You ask for forgiveness, but what about your current ex-boyfriend? It's time to get married, and you're still playing this, do you feel like you're finally going to be alone for the rest of your life? This 9 o'clock gear.

Get back to being single as soon as possible, and then contact your first love to see if you can start over.

Are you worthy of your current fiancée?

Give it up, someone who loves you is the best choice.

First of all, being a man is not authentic, and I want to step on two boats

Are you worthy of your current girlfriend?

It's the shadow of your childhood! Because my parents were divorced, I was not very confident in my marriage.

Actually, I think you shouldn't panic now, you said it, she is all along with you, good to you! You've been together for five years, which is a long time for young people. You should know each other very well, and even have a very tacit understanding.

This is a great start to your marriage! When my husband and I first got married, we quarreled several times to divorce, we only talked about love for half a year, and then we entered into marriage, so we don't know each other very well, and when we fall in love, we always want to show our best side, so we found out many shortcomings in each other after marriage! They often quarrel, and each other wants to change each other!

Hehe, the old man called this the run-in period! They say that the husband and wife who quarreled the most when they were young are the most affectionate in their old capital! We have been married for more than two years now, and we live in harmony and harmony.

I'm quite happy with my married life now! So my opinion is: both people are independent individuals, both with their own thoughts and personalities!

So, quarrels are inevitable, there must be! The two quarreled and quarreled, and they did not separate, indicating that they had feelings, and in the quarrel, the shortcomings of themselves and the other party will slowly emerge, and then, what can be changed will be changed, and what cannot be changed, the other party will slowly accept it. Then form a way for you to get along with each other!

You've been together for five years, and this grinding period should have been completed, so I think you will definitely have a good life in the future! After every quarrel, the two of them have to summarize more, think more about accommodating each other, or when there is a quarrel, think, her character is like this, she doesn't have any ill will towards me, she is the one who wants to live with me for the rest of her life. What's so aggressive?

After the quarrel, we must reconcile! As long as it's not a principled event, it's almost fine, and don't take it seriously, it's easy to pass a lifetime!

Don't panic, go get married. Setting up wine, decorating the home, a lot of troubles! Finally, I wish you all eternal happiness!

The same upstairs brother .........Landlord, you think too much......What kind of person is your girlfriend ......You yourself know ...... very wellThere is no love between you alone, it has been sublimated from love to family affection ......From what you said that she is always silently good to you, then it shows that she is a kind and understanding person......You'll be happy together......Bless you ......

My boyfriend is also divorced by his parents, and when he was 5 years old, I was very afraid that he would be like his father in the future, but in fact, the management of marriage I think is really a knowledge, I have been with my boyfriend for almost 4 years, in fact, the more I want to talk about marriage, the more panic I will be, can this person live with me for a lifetime? Will this person betray me in the future? This is probably a premarital phobia.

It's okay, I think, as long as two people trust each other and run a good business, it will be fine. And I think communication is very important, when two people are together, they must communicate, that kind of communication may not be understood by others, but even if it is a bickering or something, it is the happiest. To make your girlfriend open up, you must learn how to be nice to her, women pay attention to details, and a casual hug or a thoughtful word is enough for her to be beautiful for several days.

Got it? If you have a question, ask, o( o

Let's get married, the friction between the two is a small spice in life, let the love come more violently!!

It's time to get married. That's good.

You don't love her enough, or you don't love her at all! You're just used to it, dependent!

Please think carefully and don't delay the youth of others!

Worry too much, brother! Hurry up and get married, if you have candy to eat, you always want to get a point! Hehe.

It's kind of like a premarital phobia.

Maybe everyone who is going to get married will have some problems like this and that in their hearts.

But you also said that after 5 years, even if you don't love her enough, she doesn't want to leave you, and you also know that maybe she is not the best, but you haven't decided to start over.

Everyone has their own characteristics, marrying their first love, maybe they haven't tried to fall in love with other girls, but it's suitable for themselves, and it should be like this.

Don't worry about it, live a good life with her. I wish you all happiness.

Hehe, actually, you're just overthinking.

I want to open a little, after so many years, haven't you also come over? Just keep your mind at ease.

It's just sentimental.

It doesn't mean you regret it.

You're thinking too much.

What are you crying about? Because she lives badly or because she thinks you're better. If you're doing well with each other, forget about it.

If each other's lives are not good, then end bravely! Don't ruin the happiness you've already gained because you want to create something better! Sometimes you don't have to lose something, think about it!

Now that I'm married, why bother with the past? Now is the time to test your soft-heartedness, you must not be defeated, otherwise it will bring great harm to your current warm family!! Food for thought

You pig. When she cries, you feel distressed, but the one in your family is also married, so what else can you do? To be a man is to understand the importance of responsibility, her crying is no longer something you have to be responsible for, you are still entangled here, this is for you to feel defeated, man, to be honest, you don't have to be responsible for whether she cries or not, if you still can't let go, you are destined not to be happy; Think for yourself.

En decides to !! I don't know if this idiom is written correctly) Don't miss it, it's really sad for your wife to do this

Strong support.

It's just sentimental.

It doesn't mean you regret it.

You're thinking too much.

Strong support.