I don t know what to do with my boyfriend. Ask for help.

You didn't say what the situation was, how could you solve it? That's what you want, appreciate your attitude, if he's serious, he should have a minimum of respect, a man who doesn't have concentration, I think you should think about it. It's not a feudal problem, it's because modern people don't care about themselves too much that they have so many grief signatures, **, and premarital sex.

If you show that you hate him like that, you must be a womanizer, it's okay to take a firm stance, a little woman can protect herself, don't be afraid that he will compromise when he gets angry, how many women's futures are buried in the hands of men. He doesn't want you to ask for a lot of people, and he doesn't want me anymore!

Go to the radio station on the radio and spit it out for Kombat ** Go over to the simple we help you get the law or something You look for her to do it There is a program at nine o'clock.

Do you still like him??? If you like it, let him be.,It's normal for boys to be like this.1!!

Now, men and women should be more open, but don't be too old.

Do you like him? Proper contact is also necessary, and you avoid him, which will only make your love end earlier

It's normal for two people to be together, you don't have to run away too much, if you really don't like it, just tell him that the relationship between two people doesn't have to have such a thing to join. Escaping is not a problem, even if you do, then your relationship will slowly cool down! Don't get your feelings to the worst!

What's wrong with you? Be inclusive and communicative in everything.

You still need to go with the flow, others can't help you.

Your boyfriend knows that you are angry and doesn't coax you to reason because:

1. He knows that you are angry, but he thinks the most reasonable way is to be reasonable.

This is the inertia of thinking that is commonly used in our land.

I used to be, and it was serious, it took many years for me to have an epiphany.

I suffered a lot of losses and studied a lot of psychology courses.

Your boyfriend is like this, it's really annoying, everyone is so angry, and he doesn't coax people, he's really a straight man, it's unbearable, it's so annoying.

If he really loves you and is just used to reasoning, it's okay to tell him and then guide him and teach him how to do it.

Because most of his original family, his parents usually use reason to deal with problems.

and his life experience, all of which he encountered that could be solved with reason, or he didn't find anything wrong with this.

But that doesn't prove that this is all right, it's very different.

Because you don't have any other detailed description, I don't know if you are students, or if you have been working, how long you have been working, what occupation, your family situation with him, basic personal experience, or not much experience, etc., I don't know, so I can only say as much as I can.

Because between couples, the first thing to communicate is emotions and emotions, which is obviously that he can't pay attention to your emotions, which must be infuriating.

But now that you know, he can't know your emotions and ask him, so he still can't realize it, so I repeat that if you love him and want the relationship to go on better, tell him in as clear language or words as possible.

For example, I am angry now, because of what I am angry about, what do I need him to do, is to come and comfort me, if he can't comfort, what can I do, if not, I can push my land to him, let him see.

If he loves you too, he will do it.

If you are not willing to change, this is not called change, it is called growth, and if he is not willing to grow, he just doesn't love you.

2. It's just that you think that he knows that you are angry, but in fact he does not know that you are angry.

This seems to be a bit winding, because it is like this, your way of expression, such as the error of the state of the bulging, the difference in life experience between you and him, the level of his receptivity, and so on, will produce errors in the transmission and acceptance of information between you. That's why communication, intimacy needs to be communicated. No matter how happy "Family with Children" is, there are many such conflicts.

3. He knows that you are angry and knows that he can care about your emotions, but he still deliberately reasoned with you.

This is deliberately foolishness, even if you want to be reasonable, you have to calm your emotions first, and then have the opportunity to be reasonable. It's not called reasoning, it's about communicating with you. Once again, I emphasize the importance of communication, as the name suggests, let's take a look at what is said in the text

Communication": Communication, there is a chasm, only need to be dredged. The ditch, on the left is water, which means that you need to pay "three waters":

saliva, sweat, and even tears to "communicate"; The right side is still "hook", the heart knot is still there, and the knot is unsolved.

It shows that he doesn't have your place in his heart, you can give her all of it, but the feelings of two people together are mutual, if you want to, you can, but I feel that sometimes you can change your life for a better time, you must say it. Come on, come on.

You need to be more humble. You have to give in to your boyfriend, or you'll give in to each other. It's going to get farther and farther away. I don't regret it until I lose the other person.

You can't get used to your boyfriend like this, play some tricks, you must make him obedient, otherwise you will suffer in the future.

Your boyfriend is too machismo, and you need to communicate with him well, clearly tell him about the problem, and if it doesn't correct it or it doesn't matter, then please leave. It's responsible for what's best for you.

1.The consequences of being good and being bullied.

Maybe it's because of listening to your boyfriend for a long time, which makes him slowly expand his machismo. Boys will have a little bit of machismo to a greater or lesser extent, and your connivance may have swelled this bad heart a lot.

2.In all seriousness, there may be another possibility. It's that he doesn't love you at all.

I don't have you in my heart, if I like someone and have this person in my heart, I will definitely take the other person's affairs to heart. Like you and waiting for me, it will make you strive to move towards a happy and comfortable feeling in the process of dating her. It is possible that on the way, there will be bumps and contradictions.

But while both parties go through these obstacles, they can feel that the other party cares about your thoughts, and he can take your affairs to heart.

3.If you don't respect you and say something unpleasant, you don't want such a boyfriend. In the course of their relationship, it is a matter of principle for both parties to respect each other.

You haven't married him like this to you, and it's not even worse after you get married. Don't think about the nonsense that the other party will change after getting married. So it is recommended that you think it through as soon as possible.

Of course, you can also give the other person another chance, and if the other person still hasn't changed, then don't. As for how to communicate with the other party, you can communicate with him seriously, solemnly and honestly tell the other party what you are waiting for, so that the other party can realize that you are serious about communicating with him.

If the other person still doesn't take you seriously, then separate. No one can live well in a woman. It is recommended that you be a self-reliant woman.

You're not married, and he's treated you like this, so you should teach him a lesson. You can tell him I'm on call, and you and I ask you to do some work, and you're very reluctant. You ignore me so much, how can I take the rest of my life?

Entrusting it to you. I'll have to think about it. Although you don't have the heart to break up, you have to make it clear to him.

It's not that anyone can't live without anyone.

I think you're reassuring him about it, and he doesn't really care about you. In the final analysis, if you don't love enough, you won't care so much, and you're afraid that you will ask too much for him. Now when he is in love, he has such an attitude.

You'd better divide it early. Otherwise, you can imagine that after getting married, you will do housework while taking care of the children, and let him take a hand, and he will scold you for being hypocritical.

If he doesn't realize he's wrong or continues like this, don't change it. It's a bit of machismo to divide it early. This is the case before you get married, and when you get married, you have a lot of things to do in your family, what should you do?

Personally, I don't think he thinks you are too important at all, and in that case, your choice is nothing more than to break up or continue to suffer like this.

I think you can talk about it and talk about your thoughts, otherwise there will be contradictions after a long time.

The best thing with your boyfriend is to solve it together, if you can't solve it well, there must be a problem, and no one else can help with this thing.

When two people are together, they should help each other and take care of each other, especially boys should care more about girls, because girls are emotional animals and are willing to think cranky! You should give your boyfriend a good lecture on the rules!

It would be best if you could get him to get rid of this problem, but if you haven't changed it after more than a year of getting along, you can't change it. Either you get used to him, if you can't get used to it, talk to him, and if he can't change it, break up.

The time he told me to do whatever I was a horse.

Such men are not suitable to be together. Judging by a few points:

First of all, he puts too much emphasis on etiquette, perhaps too much on etiquette, or it may be to not affect himself. But judging by "you didn't but he still said", the latter is more likely.

Secondly, when you see your parents, you can do whatever you want, but when you see his parents, they emphasize all kinds of things, and they also eat fried chicken, they only care about their own feelings and interests, and they don't empathize or care about the interests of others. ）

Such a person is either immature and does not love you enough (even if he is immature enough, he will care about what your parents think of him), or he is self-centered, selfish and does not love you enough.

If you get married, you will be wronged because of his self-centeredness, and you will only think about yourself in everything, so it is not recommended....

Judging by his performances, he is a very detail-oriented person, and he is telling you this for your own good. Of course, he should also be a sincere person, dare to show his most authentic self in front of your parents, so that it is better than those who behave well in front of you, but behind them there is another look.

From the fact that he took a sip after prescribing the drink, it can be seen that he cares about you very much, and his idea should be that he drank it first to make sure that it is okay before giving it to you. If you still eat and look at you, it is not necessarily that you are afraid of taking more, it should be that you are always observed, so you will feel that he is always looking at you, in fact, such a person is very good.

When two people are together, they must tolerate each other and understand each other more to be happier.

It feels like your boyfriend is asking you the same way he wants of you. He just wants to make you the perfect girl he imagined. In fact, you don't have to think too much, you don't do a good job, maybe he is more clean, but the requirements will be higher.

You can go out with your boyfriend and communicate with him, and you can say that I can do what you ask, and I didn't say that I had ever done that. If you want to do other small things, you just say I don't think it's going to be okayAnd I like to do it more and get used to it a little more comfortably.

He should understand you. You can't say everything at his pace.

Your boyfriend wants to make you the goddess image in his heart with all his heart, but never thinks about his own image. If you do this for a long time, you will be very tired and easily lose your self-worth. It is recommended to have the following:

1.Take the initiative to communicate with him, boldly express your own thoughts, I hope he loves you now, not after the change, it is a good thing for two people to walk hand in hand, but it is not one person who is working hard, but both parties accept each other and move forward together.

2.In daily life, you have to have subjective judgment for his requirements, and distinguish right from wrong in time, you are an adult, and it is good for others to guide you, but you have to have your own ideas and do according to your own ideas.

3.Your own conditions should not be bad, from a woman's point of view, if you really get along and find that each other is not suitable, then it is better to end the relationship, it is easy to make girls sad if they think too much, especially sensitive emotions. You have to believe that there will be better waiting for you.

I hope my advice is helpful to you.

It's normal! If two people have been together for a long time, they will find such and such problems. If you really want to go on for a lifetime, it is time to improve and improve, after all, you will start a family and educate your children, and you must first do your best.

I can't determine what your boyfriend's specific psychology is here, but it's normal, but I have to say that he dislikes you in his heart and even sometimes has disgust, and he also wants to correct you. In short, you can't avoid a cruel fact that two people will get along for a long time, and they will get faint and get sick.

Listen to how you describe it. Your boyfriend seems to be asking you with a standard in his heart. How to say it, that's probably the image of the perfect girlfriend in his heart! He's holding you to such a standard, hoping to make you his ideal perfect girlfriend.