I m afraid you ll be sad, and I m afraid I ll be uncomfortable

There is no need to worry about someone who is not worthy.

The girl's parents will want their daughter to marry into a family with a certain economic foundation, because they don't want to see their children so tired.

But in fact, this is not the final decision, if your girlfriend likes you enough, if you are motivated enough and good enough to her, I don't think it will be impossible. I have a cousin who fell in love with someone in high school who was not in a very good financial situation, and neither of them had a house. At that time, everyone in my cousin's family was against it, but she married anyway.

Now sometimes my aunt and uncle will see the good in that boy, and they will not cut ties with my cousin from then on, and look down on my cousin-in-law or something.

Then don't say you love her, if you don't work hard for him, you will talk about giving up, even if you work hard, the girl sees it, I believe she will not let go, it all depends on your attitude, don't lose it because of a broken house.

Hey, don't you think that if you know that love is so painful, why bother touching it? Brother, your pain is coming, and you have to be strong and steady.

If you want to be together, you have to work hard, try to convince her mother, move her with sincerity, and don't give up if you like it.

Hey, let's take one step at a time, don't rush to get married.

For love, there is no right or wrong, only when you are deep in the whirlpool of love, you will find that in fact, it is really easy to love one, but it is really difficult to really love someone and not hurt him.

As a confidant of the opposite sex, if you love each other, the degree of mutual understanding between each other is destined to the depth of love, you want to have, bear and be afraid, the other party can't accept it, after saying your feelings, will the other party accept it, if you don't accept it, will it make the other party more uncomfortable. Think about it from another perspective, if I were the current you, I wouldn't tell him right away, what I think now, once I say it, then the current friendship relationship is about to break, and there are two possibilities, one is: he can accept my love and choose to be with me, and start a relationship that evolves from friends to lovers.

The second is: he is very embarrassed, avoiding me every day, and over time, he will no longer pay attention to me, and he has changed from a friend to the most familiar stranger.

Everyone has their own love experience, as you said, he has his own loved person, and can not get up from the quagmire of previous love, there is pain, there is sorrow, but also mixed with happy memories, at this time, he is the most painful, if you want him to cheer up, rely on, not the lost lover from the new back to comfort, but as a friend now, you continue to care, take care, and gradually come out of the previous gloom. The healing process is painful and long, if you love him, please don't tell him, it is enough to support him silently with your love, a man is an animal with strong self-esteem, and in the same way, when he is in pain, he is also the weakest, as the saying goes: there is love and hope, why not try, care more, contact more?

My advice: what you lose, of course, is precious, but don't force it if it doesn't belong to you, as a friend, it's more for the sake of each other, as love, more selfless dedication. This is not absolute, love can tolerate everything, pay, perhaps, there will be a moment of return, only let him understand your good, he will understand that he has been by his side, if you dare not do it, just go with the flow, don't let yourself have regrets, and don't always think about having, in fact, dedication is a kind of selfless possession, do you understand what I mean?

In short, it is to keep his love, and selflessly dedicate it to what he loves, and use love to touch his heart that has been hurt, even if he can't get his love in the end, but there will be no regrets in the end!

This requires shifting the mind to his place and thinking about the relationship with you.

Each of us will meet people in our lives who don't like them but they like us, and we will meet people who are the opposite. Behind the happiness of each of us being pampered, there is a sense of loss that others love but cannot love.

To change or to be changed, you must first read your own heart.

I don't have you in my heart, just friends.

It's not that I'm afraid you'll be upset, it's that I haven't found the right person yet.

Don't care what his psychology is, since it's all separated from you, what does he think? If there is love for you and affection for you, there will be no breakup. If you are separated, you will leave, don't be sticky together, whoever leaves can live.

You have to be independent in your life, but you also have to be independent in your thoughts. If you get hurt, heal yourself. Hypocritical man, just send him one word - get out.

If you have a few more shots, you may not have a chance in the future.

It shows that you may have hurt her in something, you haven't considered her feelings, and you are too reckless and reckless.

People have always had you in their hearts, but you didn't appreciate it, so you broke people's hearts.

I just think you don't love him, you don't care enough about him.

I don't love you at all, give up, and don't bother his life.

It can only show that he is a little nostalgic and wants to leave a friendship.

This guy is a little bit of that, as if he is amazing, tell him that you are not uncommon with him.

Your boyfriend is so good, my boyfriend deleted me in seconds, all kinds of blackmail, home is far away, and I can't get along with each other for old age, it's so heartless.

If you break up, you will break up, don't mention him again, and start your happiness in the future.

Why is he afraid that you will be sad, since he is afraid that you will be sad, why should he break up with you, I think he did a good job, but your feeling of being together with two people must be the most accurate, as a bystander, he is just to guess what he thinks, why do you think he said that.

If he really loves you, he'll delete everything about you, and he probably doesn't really like you.

It means that he has found a new girlfriend, and he doesn't need you anymore.

Lovers can't do it. Friends should be able to.

At first, I was hopeful to see if you would take the initiative to contact him, but after a month, you didn't look back, and he gave up, just out of politeness, I'm really afraid that you will be sad and will propose to break up.

It means that he has found someone to replace you.

He still has you in his heart. Reluctant.

It's still a little reluctant, after all, it's a love affair.

He also has some pictures, you know what you know.

Love, if you don't love together, break up immediately, and when you continue to break up, you will leave disaster.

If you really can't get by, break up, and be decisive, the more reluctant you are, the more you delay her.

Since you are afraid that she will be sad, then you must still love her.