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It is not difficult to understand the ancients said that amorous is better than ruthless bitterness, feelings are not falling from the sky, of course, you can't forget it, after all, you can walk together to show that there is still a common language, after all, there is still a place worth paying for both parties, indicating that you still have feelings for him, you can only let time dilute the feelings, or find other things to sustenance, it is impossible to forget completely, sometimes a word or a flash in your mind will not help but think of bits and pieces about him, of course, there is a best way is amnesia, But I'm afraid you won't know who you are after amnesia. Of course, feelings are selfish, and women always have a hard time forgetting the first man, not knowing if he is your first man.
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Everyone's emotional answer is different, I don't know how you understand it, and it's unlikely that you will forget it completely. After all, you've been through the same days together. But for a person, the past is gone.
But it's hard to do, cherish the happiness in front of you. Take advantage of the future in front of you!
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Maybe this is the possessiveness of love, although you have a boyfriend now, but you still haven't forgotten your ex-boyfriend, and you still hope that he won't forget you. If you love your current boyfriend very much, I hope you can let go of your ex-boyfriend sooner and come out of his shadow.
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It's normal, and I feel this way all the time. People,There will always be someone who is possessive.,You have it too.,What's more, you still love him.。。 There have been joys and sorrows together, how can you forget it so quickly.
But he's going to have a new girlfriend, so you can slowly accept it. Otherwise, my heart will never get better. Allow time to heal the wound.
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To deliberately forget is to forget. Because I care about whether I still remember, I often remind myself to forget, but in fact, every reminder is to let me remember him at a deeper level. So don't try to forget the person you don't want to forget.
One day, when you don't care if you forget it, you really forget it.
If you can't forget it, bury him and this feeling deep in your own heart, hidden in a place that can't even be reached by the smoke of the city. That's a beautiful place in your heart......What do you think it will be to give up, is it so easy to give up someone, and is it still called true love? Love will make you happy, and thinking of her "him" will be very happy and powerful.
But you know how you'll feel when you don't get her? Do you feel that the sky is falling, people are tired, and your heart is tired? I'm sure you've encountered it, because I've also encountered it now, in trouble, in pain.
I can understand your feelings. I want to love so much, I give love, but she wants you to give up on her, I said I will, but is it really okay? When I was lonely, when I was lonely, I quietly thought of her, her voice, and every word she said, it was so unforgettable and heart-wrenching.
I really want to love, but I get a lot of pain, and my body and mind are haggard. Is this called abandonment? Therefore, it is impossible to abandon a person you really love, you can only cry and remind yourself that you want to forget, to escape, although you don't want to, you are very unwilling, but what else can you do besides escaping?
I'm like that now, and I can understand your mood somewhat. If you want to let go, I think the best thing to do is to change your focus. Turn your attention to something else.
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True love is not expressed in words, it comes from the heart, when you fall in love with someone, your whole heart will be attracted by the person you love, fascinated by him (her), concerned for him (her), I hope you can see him (her) every minute, when you can't see him, you will always think of him (her), when you see you will be excited, your heart will beat faster, when you are together, you will feel very warm and safe, and he (her) will be in love, you will look forward to using all your love to bring him (her) the greatest happiness, And you get another kind of happiness in the process! I often think of him (her) and am happy, I mind him (her) very much, I care about him (her) very much, and I have happiness with him (her).
Believe in yourself As long as there is love, happiness will definitely exist
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Happiness will not wait for you all the time, the people who love you and the people you love are not ready to appear, please learn to cherish them.
When a person who loves you deeply changes for you, it is because he loves you, and when you meet someone, he puts away his stubborn temper for you; And because he loves you, he turns your interest into his interest when ......Or because he loves you.
There is no reason to like someone, and there is no regret to give.
They all think it's worth it, as long as they can be with the people they love.
In fact, we all have some such people around us, but (you. I. He hasn't discovered that the person who knows you best will always be by your side to protect you and not let you have a trace of grievances; People who truly love you may not say many things that love you, but they will do many things that love you.
If you find someone like this around you, please cherish .......
Please remember! The stars that can't be picked are always the brightest, and the small fish that slip away are always the most beautiful. The missed movie is always the best, and the lost lover always understands you best.
In this world, everyone has someone they want to find, and once they miss it, they won't come back.
If you fall in love, don't give up easily. It's awkward, maybe you regret it for a while; But you give up, and it may make you regret it for the rest of your life. A life that has experienced love is beautiful, and love that cannot stand the test is not profound.
Beautiful love enriches life, and love that has passed the test is perfect.
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First of all, I want to say that no matter how sweet or painful memories you have had with your boyfriend before, these are all in the past, what you need to do is to be brave and firm to let go of this relationship and choose to face your future life, because whether it is beautiful or painful, it has become a thing of the past, and you should not always think about it, which will also affect your investment in the next relationship.
The reason why you think of your previous boyfriend is because he played a very special role in this period of time in your past, giving you a lot of unforgettable things in your memory, deeply affecting you, if you want you to forget, forget this person who has a weight in your heart, very sincerely tell you, it is not very easy. But it cannot be said that it must not be done.
I have a few small methods, such as you can distract yourself through the attention diversion method, such as: hang out with friends more, find more fun things to do, read more humorous books and magazines to relax yourself, and of course you can also let yourself watch more comedy movies to relax. Listen**, remember not to be sad, and you can go out more often, when you see the great mountains and rivers of the outside world, you will definitely feel very small.
And the boyfriend will also become a small dot in your life history, the road of life is too long, each of us will experience something that we think we will never forget, or can't do, but when you really face it, you will find that you can do it. So you must give yourself enough time and space, believe that you can do it, don't deliberately, and don't be difficult for yourself.
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After a breakup, we always like to ask:
How can I tease him to forget him? I wanted to forget him, but I just couldn't. ”
If you can't forget him, don't forget him.
Why so painfully forget someone? Time will naturally make you forget him.
Now, I ask you not to think about a big stupid pink elephant.
Excuse me, what do you have in mind?
You immediately think of a big pink stupid elephant.
The harder you try to forget, the more you can't forget.
It is a matter of course to still love him and not forget him, and there is no need to feel ashamed.
Some people can't forget, but they deceive themselves and say:
I've forgotten about him. ”
However, as long as others mention him, she can't control herself.
One day, you'll forget about him.
True forgetting doesn't take effort.
One day, you took a shower from the bathroom, twisted the record player to listen to your favorite **, you suddenly remembered, you once loved someone, ah, it turns out that you loved this person, that seems to be a Buddha is a very distant thing, you have not felt it at all.
Without. That's forgetting.
One day, when someone mentions so-and-so, you suddenly remember that you once loved this person, but now you don't remember.
To sell this dust is to forget.
If time can't make you forget those you shouldn't remember, what's the point of the years we've lost?
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It's hard, it's hard (it's not possible), even if you forget it's a thing for a while, you will remember it again at some point. Time can be diluted, but it cannot be forgotten. Deliberately forget, will remember deeper, so don't deliberately forget, since you want to forget him (her), it means that he (she) has left traces in your heart should be relatively deep, since some things have existed, and have paid so rich emotions for it, why forget it.
There are many things that you want to forget, just to run away. And there are some things that really need to be relieved, and only facing them can make a difference. We flee to another world, grab other people, immerse ourselves in other things, but that past is still there.
It's better to calm down, recall the beginning and the past, count the steps with that person, and then tell yourself that gains and losses are meaningless, a result will not negate all the previous burns, and if we have been happy, even if we get more pain, it will not be meaningless for ourselves. Everything can be faced, so that we can be calm and face the future life.
I will still remember that it is only because it is a part of life, life is perfect because it is imperfect, and we can grow because of pain, which sounds exaggerated, but only when I come over and look back will I understand.
Don't forget, face it bravely, and cherish this experience in life.
Wish: I wish you happiness in the future! *-
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Hello landlord! The Maple Wither team will be happy to answer your questions!
Friend; If he doesn't love you, please don't lose confidence, because it's not that you're not good, but that he doesn't understand your sincerity to him;
If they don't love you, or if you break up. Love will still leave a trace in the heart; Therefore, love is beautiful, hate is ugly, we don't need to hate someone, we are still very good friends after a breakup, we should bless each other, care for each other, and be considerate of each other!
Therefore, there is no one who is right or wrong in the relationship, only who does not know how to cherish whom, that is, who does not know how to cherish love.
If they don't love you, they lose a person who loves them, and you lose a person who doesn't love you, but you get a chance to live and love again! Therefore, give up the people who don't belong to you, so that you can find the people who really know how to love your clan! People who know how to be considerate of you!
People who know how to take care of you! So giving up is another pursuit!
Feelings are the attitudes of two people, and they are not something that can be decided by one person; Therefore, love is not absolutely eternal for anyone, but only that there is this hope for each other; You love him deeply at this time, maybe he may be separated later because of discord, and in the same way, he is just a little earlier than you, so when he doesn't love you, you have to know how to give up and don't complain!
The red dust is faint, life is like smoke, all the dust is destined in the dark, whether it is joy or sorrow, it is to go through, to experience, we must understand; I'm lucky; Lost, my life; Calmly pass and negotiate acceptance;
Life is like a dream, a dream is like life, only know how to cherish, tolerate, understand, humble... can truly have a tranquility, a plainness, a true feeling, and can accommodate a smile covered with dust and frost. It will also make your beautiful love eternal...
May those who love you love you more; The person you love understands you better!
I sincerely wish you all the best! Good luck! Career success! Happiness and joy!
I hope mine satisfies you! Thank you!
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