Problems with children s learning attitudes and habits

Sometimes it is not a good thing to be strict, and it is easy to cause disagreements with children. It is recommended to control your emotions more and calm down and communicate with your children. Analyze things with him more often, practice calligraphy or read books when you have time, and find ways to calm him down.

You can encourage your child often, communicate with the teacher about your child's performance in school and family, and work with the teacher to develop your child's confidence. For example, in class, let the teacher praise some of the child's strengths, especially some subtleties, in front of everyone. It's good for his body and mind.

I used to be like this, when the teacher praised me, I would want to be a role model for my classmates, and naturally I would perform well. (Just a 6th grader's thoughts, hope for reference).

The more urgent it is, the more it can't solve the problem, what is the child's personality?

At this time, you should not regard yourself as his parent, but try to make him feel that you are a friend more than the parent, if you succeed, you will find that some of your views on the child will be very different, and you know more about the child, and naturally know what he really thinks, what he wants, so as to prescribe the right medicine, blindly preaching, the child will feel annoyed, at first may listen, but after a long time it will begin to be perfunctory, and the habit is perfunctory, how much you say is equal to not saying.

Usually let him develop good habits.

Ignorant parents! It's really hard for the child......Everything is caused by you, and if you do this, you will ruin your child's life!

Here's how to correct your child's attitude toward learning:

1. Give play to the role of parents as role models. Words are better than examples, and parents' love of learning is the greatest encouragement. Children who grow up in an environment with a strong learning atmosphere often pretend to be oranges and have a strong interest in learning.

Parents and children learn together. Parents can accompany children who have just entered school to read a paragraph to care more about their children's learning, understand their children's homework, and help correct mistakes in a timely manner.

2. Try to improve your child's grades. Improving children's grades is the most important and effective way to cultivate children's interest in learning. Parents should try to improve their children's academic performance, even in a particular subject.

Friends who have used speed reading memory training know that it is very helpful for children's attention, memory, reading ability, thinking, etc., 3. Stimulate children's interest in learning from a certain specialty of the child. Every child has strengths, and parents can take the opportunity to cultivate their interest in learning and perseverance through their children's strengths, strengths and successes, and achieve better results. Taking children to science and technology museums or museums can stimulate children's curiosity and desire for knowledge, enhance children's interest in learning, and <>

4. Parents should praise and encourage their children more, and blame and scold them less. The children have self-esteem, and they are proud when the children's achievements are recognized by everyone.

Parents should not let go of every opportunity worthy of praise, when the child has achieved a little achievement, let him feel the joy of success, let him know how happy success is, so he will do the same next time. This gentle form of praise is easy for children to accept, and children will not lose interest in learning because of a bad grade.

5. Be patient and don't rush for quick success. Parents must be patient when cultivating their children's interest in learning, because the child's mental development is not mature enough and the stability is not enough, so they are more active and playful, so do not be too eager to achieve success to avoid negative effects.

Children's learning attitude and learning habits are really important, only by cultivating children to develop a positive and serious learning attitude and good study habits, can we improve or stimulate the efficiency of their learning, and can also cultivate their excellent character of self-discipline and self-confidence.

Therefore, as a parent, it is very important to master the correct education methods, cultivate children's serious learning attitude and good study habits, and ask professional teachers for advice and communication about the mastery of learning methods.

It is very important to learn more from the teacher, grasp the correct knowledge points, and learn the basics comprehensively.

1.Be serious and humble and ask your teacher for advice.

Ask the teacher for advice, learn knowledge must be serious and modest, carefully grasp every knowledge point, and record what the teacher said, so that you can better grasp the knowledge.

2.When you ask your teacher for advice, you should pay attention to listening.

It is very important for teachers to listen carefully when talking about the content of knowledge, and only by listening carefully to the key points of knowledge can they seriously understand and master knowledge, and it will be very beneficial to the use of knowledge.

3.Pay attention to polite forms of communication.

Communicate with the teacher, learn knowledge must be polite, smiling, humbly ask the teacher for advice and questions, the teacher will feel our attitude of serious and hard work, and the explanation of knowledge will be more serious and meticulous, so that our grasp of knowledge will be better.

4.If you don't understand, ask questions clearly.

For questions that you don't understand, you must ask the teacher questions clearly, so that the teacher can better explain and analyze the relevant knowledge content to us in detail, so that we can better grasp the relevant knowledge and key points.

Therefore, to learn from the teacher, we should not only pay attention to humility and courtesy, but also learn to listen carefully, so that we can master the knowledge, and we will use the knowledge flexibly to achieve better learning results.

If the child's learning attitude is not correct and particularly lazy, parents can take these two measures when educating their children, which are to set learning goals for the children and implement rewards and punishments for the children.

Set learning goals for your child.

Children's poor learning attitude is often related to unclear learning goals, because learning goals are children's learning motivation, and children without clear learning goals will be satisfied with the status quo, let their inertia grow wantonly, and then become very lazy. Therefore, if parents want to change their children's learning attitude and learning status, they must determine learning goals for their children, and they must be goals that children can achieve through hard work, which can bring some challenges to children and stimulate children's learning initiative. Of course, it is best for parents to discuss this learning goal with their child, whether it is a recent test score or class ranking goal, or a classmate who is on the same level as you as a competitor, these short-term goals are more likely to motivate your child, and your child can solve the problem of improper learning attitude as soon as possible.

Implement incentives and punishments for children.

After parents determine the learning goals for their children, they should also formulate a set of corresponding rewards and punishments for filial piety. If the child can achieve the learning goal, he will be rewarded, otherwise, he will be punished. It is best for parents to work with their children to develop this reward and punishment measure, so that the child can have a certain motivational effect, and the child will not have particularly strong negative emotions because of the punishment.

Of course, the purpose of these incentives and punishments is to encourage children to work hard, and if the child still does not meet the learning goals after making efforts, parents can find some reasons to reduce the intensity of punishment, so that the child can be more motivated to move towards the goal.

In order to help children get rid of the lazy learning state, parents should try to increase their children's learning motivation and encourage their children to work hard towards the goal, so as to fully stimulate their children's learning initiative and enthusiasm, and help children steadily improve their academic performance.

1.First of all, it can be seen from his ten or twenty points that the knowledge points in the textbook are not memorized at all, and the physics 15 points and so on may be the scores of multiple-choice questions.

2.After going to high school, the knowledge difficulty is almost 3 times that of junior high school, this is the test of students' efforts, some knowledge points are understood in class, but after class, the questions will not be done, from the first point of analysis, your child should be accompanied by the bureau is not able to keep up with the teacher's progress, and high school time is very tight, for students with poor foundation, it is necessary to pay more effort than ordinary students, for your child, this is basically not done, many knowledge points can not even be solved in class, you need to ask the teacher after class, even if you do this, but his foundation is too poor, and it is not realistic to keep up with the progress.

3.You mentioned that private high schools are expensive, and most of the students in them are [not doing well in the exam but the family has money], as the saying goes: "People gather by like, and things are divided by groups", then the child will definitely be affected by some vices in this environment, which will affect his life.

4.The child is reluctant to go, most of the time because the face is too stupid, adolescent children love face, so we should communicate peacefully with the child and tell him about the benefits of going to a technical school, such as:

The fees are cheap and you can enjoy discounts (different schools, it is recommended to find out for yourself).

You can learn a technology so that you can find a job, but what the country lacks now is a skilled technician.

The first year and a half of technical school is spent on theory, and the second year and a half can be paid to study.

In a technical school, you can accumulate contacts and pave the way for your later life.

In technical schools, students can choose a suitable major according to their hobbies.

After a year and a half of paid study, I have a wealth of theories, and I have more than a year and a half of struggle time than the students in Shanghai High School.

Going to a technical school is not a shame, going to a technical school can only prove that you are not good at reading and studying, but it cannot prove that you are inferior to others in other aspects.

5.You can train him as soon as possible, and he can survive better in the future when he goes out of society.

Believe it, there is still a lot of time in life! As long as you are willing to work hard, you will definitely be able to create a bright starry sky of your own.

1. Parents should not talk about topics that are not conducive to children's learning in front of their children at home; Try not to carry out recreational activities at home so as not to affect or distract your child's attention; When there is a conflict in the family, it is not appropriate to quarrel in front of the child to avoid affecting the child's learning mood.

2. Pay attention to children's psychological feelings. If the child's test results are not satisfactory, the heart must be very sad, at this time parents should be disgusted with the child, do not be sarcastic, sarcastic, should help analyze the reasons for the failure, if it is caused by a bad attitude, then should be severely criticized, educated, if necessary, ask for the teacher's help.

3. Let children have a sense of time and not be passive when doing homework. In this case, it is best for parents to help their children create a schedule to maximize their efficiency in the limited time. In this way, the child will be confident in the goal and do his best to strive for the achievement of the goal.

4. Be realistic about your child's grades. For the child's achievements to make a horizontal and vertical comparison, the praise of the praise, the criticism of the criticism, to avoid the child Qinpei has a wrong understanding of his own achievements, but pay attention to the attitude of communication with the child.

If a child has a problem with his learning attitude, first of all, he must find out what is the reason for his good attitude towards learning? Then he slowly walked to enlighten him and let him know the importance of learning for his future. If he doesn't study, what will his life be like in the future?

Hello! Good children are all accompanied. It is recommended that parents spend more time with their children. Take your kids out for a walk. Spend more time with your child and work their studies.

Correct learning attitude.

Make a study plan for him that is not feasible, develop good study habits, work and rest on time, complete homework in a simple way, and preview and review.

If children do not write their homework seriously, they have not developed good habits, which requires parents to understand the reasons and cultivate the habit of children to complete their homework seriously according to the different reasons. It is important to understand whether the child is not mastering what he has learned, or is playful or lazy. If you don't have what you've learned, you need to help your child study hard.

If you're lazy, tell them the importance of completing their homework conscientiously. If you are playful, you can tell your child to complete their homework carefully before playing.

2. Writing homework can test children's mastery of new knowledge points, if you encounter a problem that you can't do, you should read textbooks and notebooks as soon as possible, sort out knowledge points and problem solving methods, so as to achieve the purpose of checking and filling in the gaps.

3. The age of the child is not very old during this period, so it is necessary to develop some of the child's interest in learning, even if the parents scold, let the child reluctantly sit in front of the desk, at this time the quality of the homework is not very high, through the correct guidance, let the child fall in love with learning, parents can play the power of example, do not play with mobile phones during this period, do not watch TV, accompany the child to read quietly.

4. Parents should urge their children to develop the habit of making homework plans, list all the homework of the day, arrange it to a specific time period to complete, and try to implement it according to the plan, so that there will be no lazy homework state.

5. Don't let your child develop the bad habit of writing homework while watching TV, let the child put all his mind on the homework, and find out a very scientific method to solve those correct answers, when the child has made a little progress, parents should immediately encourage, and don't blindly criticize after encountering setbacks.

6. Writing homework can increase the familiarity with the knowledge points, although the child has mastered the knowledge points and problem-solving methods, but the proficiency of solving the problem is not enough, and the homework is the process of repeated practice, as long as the child takes the homework seriously, it can speed up the speed and accuracy of the problem-solving, and there will be no problem that the exam is too late to do the problem.