Why is growth no longer black and white, but a reduction in principles, and a blind eye?

There are more than a thousand sides to everything, and it is not black and white, because the momentum of a person is complex, and you can't define him by two personalities, black and white. Since there are some things that you can't manage, and you don't have the right to manage them, then you have to turn a blind eye.

As long as it's not involved, there's no need to care about it. But if someone is hurt, or framed, you can be brave when you meet the bad guys, but this is also on your own.

Because when you grow up, you will find that there is no absolute black and white in this world, and many things are not something you can change, so you can only turn a blind eye to those things that you can't change.

Because after growing up, it is no longer black and white, but the principle is lowered, and one eye is closed, because there is no absolute black and white in this world. So it can only be like this for the sake of life.

Because when you grow up, you will know that there is no simple right or wrong in the world, and many things have different perspectives and different perspectives, and everyone's views are different.

The world is not black and white. When we lower our principles, we acquiesce that everyone has a good side and a bad side. A person is not an absolute good person, nor is he an absolute bad person. That's why I learned to turn a blind eye.

Because the changes in the outside world are very rapid, it is impossible to take care of all aspects, and many things are caused by many factors, what you see is only a superficial performance, without knowing the truth of the matter, don't make more evaluations.

The water is clear, there are no fish, there are edges and corners, and the sharp edge makes us leave too many scars, only by constantly smoothing our edges and corners, can we make others happy, and also make ourselves not hurt.

This world is not black and white, it has a lot of gray areas, many of which you just don't notice, and a person is not an absolute good person and an absolute bad person, they are all contradictory.

Black and white is easy to cause misunderstandings and contradictions, in addition to personal feelings, sometimes you have to contact people for work reasons, and there are other people of the opposite sex.

Nowadays, people's thoughts are not pure, and he makes the relationship between men and women too complicated, so because we have doubts and things, they turn the number of things upside down.

Don't you understand what it means, isn't the relationship between men and women black and white, don't you agree with this point of view? I think that's right.

What do you mean by black and white, let's make the problem clear, okay sisters and brothers.

The relationship between men and women is either white or black, how can it not be black and white, and it should not be white or black.

A person's beauty and ugliness are not all determined by appearance, I feel, the most important thing is the inner beauty, the beauty of the soul, the beauty of virtue and the beauty of the soul, the appearance only accounts for no more than 30%, so the criteria for young people to choose friends or mates must not be too dependent on the appearance to decide, and then the two get along, more to see whether the character, temper, and world view and values of the two people are the same, otherwise the two people together will be very tired, so choose to be cautious, two people together must be because of hobbies, As well as personality and feelings, etc., if you rely solely on appearance, money, status and power together, which will not be happy, so I feel that everyone should not ask which one is good-looking, just with which one, it can only make everyone feel that you are very superficial, come on, work hard to improve your quality and cultivation, so that the other party also feels that it is right to choose you.

People can't be black and white, so what about relationships, can it?

I don't feel that the relationship between men and women is very simple.

1. The meaning of opening your eyes before marriage2. The meaning of opening one eye after marriage3. This sentence is concise and to the point, pointing out the correct path for young people to get married

This sentence has made a profound education on knowing people before marriage and family harmony after marriage. It can be said that the meaning is far-reaching. I also hope that the younger generation can learn more from it. Here, I also wish all families in the world harmony and happiness, a harmonious and happy family, and a prosperous future will be prosperous.

Before marriage, you need to carefully choose the marriage partner, whether it is character or appearance, etc., to find the most suitable for yourself, close one eye after marriage because there will always be friction, you must learn to be tolerant and understanding!

This sentence says that women must keep their eyes open and choose the right person before getting married, and after marriage, there may be a lot of family trivialities, but don't quarrel because of trivial things, but choose to learn to tolerate.

It means that before marriage, you should open your eyes and look at people carefully, so as not to lose your eyes, and after marriage, when you become a family, there will be some bad little problems that will no longer be hidden, but the days will go on, so just close one eye.

1. Gentle, kind and considerate. You can look mediocre, but don't be a scheming, just be kind, this is the minimum requirement for a boy to a girl. But now I feel that there don't seem to be many such girls, at least I have lived for more than 20 years, and there are really only a handful of really gentle, kind and considerate girls I have met.

The reason for this should be caused by the environment of only children, and they are not to blame.

2. Simple. Today's girls are indeed a bit dirty. Well, a girl who is a little dirty is still cute, but don't overdo it, otherwise it's too much.

If a girl can not get dirty, try not to get dirty. Boys make choices between girls who are a little dirty and girls who are not dirty, and they still prefer simple girls who are not dirty. In other words, are there still a few really simple girls?

3. Be able to talk and know how to speak. Speaking is a technical job, although psychologically speaking, girls have gradually been several years higher than boys in emotional intelligence since junior high school, but there are still many girls who are not very good at talking, and chatting with boys to death.

4. Be polite, respect others, and do not attack others. Don't interject what others are saying, don't pour cold water on others, and that's OK. But the reality is that this is not the case.

5. Be able to dress yourself up and know how to match clothes. You don't wear makeup every day, you go shopping without makeup, OK, this is really good, and you are very confident, but the premise of all this is that you are good-looking enough. If your appearance is not high enough, then you should learn more or less makeup and dressing skills.

Because you're a girl. A boy's first impression of a girl is still a face, if the first impression is not good, who cares how kind and considerate you are in your heart?

6, it's girls don't be sloppy, take a bath and change clothes frequently, if you don't have so many clothes, wash them frequently. Don't treat yourself like a boy.

7. Don't be negative. A girl has a sad face every day, negative energy, so who dares to approach.

8. Don't trust others. Others don't believe what they say. So what do you believe? I don't want to talk to you, do you believe it?

9, don't play with feelings, don't use him as a spare tire, be dedicated to feelings, it is said that when a girl only likes a boy, it is the most beautiful.

01, a woman who is not delicate and pretentious.

Women with generous personalities, who are not delicate and unpretentious are more attractive to men. Some girls twist and pinch not decently, and they like to play with postures, this kind of woman is not pleasing to men. You will find that the more you deliberately make that appearance attract attention, the more you will not be ignored.

02, a kind-hearted woman.

Kindness is the most beautiful quality of a woman, and this kind of woman has its own magnetic field. One of her kind actions may have touched a man's heart, a woman like this will not be bad enough, at least there is no doubt about her morality. There is a saying that is very true, the luck of a kind girl is not too bad, and a kind girl has filial piety.

Because of maintaining the most fundamental kindness, it is welcome to go to **.

03, a woman who is sincere and does not deceive.

Whether you are kind or not is not just to describe the character of a man, a woman also needs to be sincere to capture the heart of the other party. When getting along, they always deceive each other insincerely, and this kind of woman will not win the love of men.

04, a mature woman.

When many men fall in love, they say that the other party is immature, and immature girls need to be coaxed to be together, which is inevitably a hard feeling. In life, there is not only love, but also work friends and family affection, and mature women can handle all this properly, and they are even more popular with men.

05, a woman with filial piety.

Men hope that their wives can honor their parents, after marriage, the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is mostly tense, not to say whether it is right or wrong, first of all, to be filial piety and respect, so that the family style of the family is more positive. Men can also have spare energy to work hard for life wholeheartedly. If you worry about the trivial things in life all day long, it will definitely affect your work motivation.

06, the woman of the Gu family.

The women of the Gu family are very responsible, such a woman can give a man a sense of home, can take good care of the children, and can make careful calculations for the family. Such a woman is certainly the first choice for men

Usually, the following types of girls are liked by boys.

1.A girl with good looks. Human beings naturally like beautiful things, and if you are relatively good-looking, it is naturally easy for people to feel love at first sight.

2.A girl who can dress up with makeup. Through clothing matching, let your strengths be reflected, even if your foundation is not good enough, you can still be beautiful under the day after tomorrow.

3.Gentle girl. The girl with a beautiful voice is also very attractive, and when you hear that voice, you want to see her.

4.Talented girls. There are **, girls in art, writing, etc., who can attract boys with your strengths.

In the journey of life, everyone must continue to accumulate experience in order to grow. In this process, it is a mentality of slowly knowing yourself, understanding yourself, and reconciling with yourself.

Many problems are self-convincing, so it is a process of reconciliation with oneself.

The highest level of the relationship between husband and wife is not to turn a blind eye, but to connect two people's hearts, tolerate each other's shortcomings and tolerate each other's shortcomings, communicate very harmoniously, and communicate very happily.

Tolerance and running-in, it is impossible for someone to be born suitable for each other, and there are very few words, learn to tolerate, tolerate his imperfections, learn to run in with each other, and accept the differences between him and you, which is the highest state of the relationship between husband and wife.

It is mutual trust, but they are independent and dependent on each other, and it is a kind of relationship in which they are all complete personalities.

I think it's mutual respect, because all relationships are based on equal respect, and if the relationship between husband and wife can transcend this realm, then they must be comfortable dealing with related issues.

You can close your eyes, because you feel that you can live comfortably, that is, you don't have any worries, and you won't feel sorry for you.

The highest level of the relationship between husband and wife is not to turn a blind eye, but to look at you, he understands what you mean, and has a clear heart.

It's about two people moving forward together and working together. If two people are working towards the same goal, the family atmosphere and environment will develop in a better direction.

I think the highest level is mutual trust, as long as both parties trust each other, then many problems will be solved.

Mutual understanding, because only in this way can we better ensure that both parties live very well.

It's about trusting each other. Because only by trusting each other can we live comfortably and live the happiest.