How did you grow up? Why do you grow?

As I grow older, I slowly experience more and more, encounter a lot of things, and slowly understand a lot of truths, and human feelings, so I grow up little by little, only after experiencing difficulties and setbacks, is the real growth.

This should still be more into the social training, the society can indeed train people from all aspects, such as getting along with friends and strangers or getting along with colleagues, and when dealing with some urgent problems, you can make yourself more stable. The other one should read more books, not only to enrich their horizons, but also to enrich their brains, and not to be out of touch with this society.

It is to go through some things that I thought were unacceptable again and again, to break my own views again and again, or to bring myself closer to the real side of this society again and again, so that I have to grow up and mature my thinking.

Born in sorrow and dying in peace, when you encounter difficulties, you will try your best to survive, and naturally your ability will become stronger and stronger, which is the reason for your own growth.

It's like riding a bicycle when you were a child, there are always times when you fall, then the most important thing is to be able to get up after you fall, and growing up is like this, you will always experience some bad things, and then you will be strong again.

My growth path is not so difficult, I was accompanied by my parents when I was a child, and I still have the support and care of my parents when I grow up, and the love they give me is immeasurable, which makes my growth path feel warm.

As the days passed, I grew older and older, and each year I grew a year older than last year, and it was through this time and experience that I became more mature and more mature.

When I experienced being betrayed by my friends and resigned by my boss, I learned to grow up, and suddenly I recognized the reality of this society, no one is sincere to you, and they are good to you just to take your benefits.

I grew up in a very ordinary family. Maybe this is what most ordinary people have experienced, but I really feel very lucky to want to grow up safely. I'm glad that I have such a long life.

Booth said, "In life, if you can get up from setbacks, then you can turn experience into wealth, and if you can't stand up from setbacks, then the experience of setbacks is a disaster." The choice of disaster or wealth depends entirely on your attitude towards setbacks. ”

About 6 years ago, I encountered a little unfavorable adjustment at work. At that time, I was extremely resentful, and for half a year, I was immersed in negative emotions. It was also a few years ago that I saw a leader who was treated unfairly in the workplace, and as bystanders, many of us complained about it, but what I saw was that the leader calmly accepted the arrangement without waves.

A few days ago, I chatted with a comrade-in-arms in the same regular investment life class, and I learned that he had experienced several things at the same time not long ago that could bring a great blow to ordinary people, and it might take ordinary people a lot of time to recover from it, but what I saw was that he clocked in normally in the circle of friends every day, and there were a lot of things to do, and then after more than a month of feasting, I heard him say lightly, and he has eased up recently.

For the incident that happened to me 6 years ago, I have never been able to understand why people who work hard should be treated unfairly; Later, regarding the situation of a certain leader, I still stubbornly believe that the organization should not let upright and down-to-earth people be wronged; Recently, when I heard about that comrade's experience, I began to rejoice at the major setbacks he was experiencing, and even when he habitually said to me, "I hope you never go through these setbacks," I would have thought about what I would have done if these setbacks had been given to me.

The problem is the same problem, and the individual's perception of it is changing. Now I feel that I was so weak at that time, and the so-called injustice is really just a natural act of personal interests that need to be compromised when there is a conflict between collective interests and individual interests. The leader's choice now also feels that it is a natural choice for an adult to make, life will occasionally throw you a ball with a tricky angle, as a receiver, you catch the ball is a regular action, after catching the ball, and then think about how to deal with this kind of ball next time, about that.

The reason why I feel happy for that comrade-in-arms is because I understand that things like frustration and hardship make some people stronger, and we should not at least resist those things that can make us stronger.

Rich people think differently", there is a very interesting description. If your abilities or personality are in the second level and you encounter a fifth level difficulty, you will feel that this is a big problem. If you've grown to the eighth level, you'll feel like it's a minor problem; And when you reach level 10, you will find that the difficulty at level 5 is not a problem at all.

In life, there will be fewer and fewer problems, and difficulties will not disappear. And if we can commit ourselves to continuous growth, to keep getting bigger, to escalate step by step, then what you will perceive is that the difficulties are becoming less and less, the difficulty of the problems is becoming less and less, and you will feel that life is becoming more and more tolerant of you.

Teacher Xiaolai said that growth is the eternal need; Plagiarism a cat says that making yourself better is the key to solving everything. This is really the most practical advice.

Each of us will experience growth and change in our lives, and over time we will find that what was once indispensable now seems meaningless. Sometimes, however, we get to know something anew because something has changed.

Think back to things I once looked down on, such as personal hygiene, fitness, healthy eating, and studying, but now become an integral part of life. In the past, I had no interest in sports, and I didn't stay at home watching TV and playing games. But later on, I experienced some health issues that made me value exercise and a healthy diet.

Now, I go to the gym every day to work out and keep myself healthy.

In the same way, I used to dislike studying and thought that all the homework in school was boring. But now, I realize the importance of knowledge, and I will keep learning and constantly improving my abilities and skills.

In general, it is said that these things that we once looked down on have become an important part of our lives. This is a sign of our growth, and it is also a natural reflection of the times and the flow of life.

For us, growth is not just about the presence or absence of red envelopes and the increase of age, but at a certain moment we suddenly realize: there is no time to be quiet, but someone is carrying the weight for you. You come to realize that you are not living for yourself, but that you are in awe and responsible for overcoming the rough road of life.

The real growth of a person begins by accepting that his family members are getting old.

When I went back to my grandmother's house last holiday, I was full of joy, and when I entered the door, I shouted that my grandmother was back, and unexpectedly, my grandmother looked at me in confusion and asked, "Girl, who are you looking for?" ”

When I heard this, my first reaction was to laugh, and I leaned into her ear and whispered, "It's my granddaughter back!" "What I didn't expect was that my grandmother fell into deep thought, and it took about half a minute before it dawned on me.

Looking at my grandmother's small rickety figure wandering around the kitchen, I thought - my grandmother, I can't hear the shouting less than 100 meters away from me, and I can't even remember what I look like, is it because I haven't been home for a long time, or is she really a little old?

I think of my parents, and I am afraid that the day they become like this, I will not be enough to shelter them, like a seedling afraid that the tree on which it depends will fall.

Suddenly, I realized that not only was I watching my grandmother grow old, but my parents were slowly watching their parents grow old. They've felt the same way I did, right? However, no matter how uncomfortable they are, they will not tell me this kind of thoughts in their hearts, but will only pretend to be strong and shoulder the burden of the family.

And when will I grow up to be their pillar and share the pressure for them? Growing up at this moment is to begin to accept the fact that your family is slowly aging, and replace your worries with responsibility.

Growing up is to force yourself to mature, realize the importance of the family and the difficulties of your parents, and take the initiative to shoulder the burden of the family; It is also knowing how to change oneself and slowly becoming a better version of oneself; It is also the courage to accept, attach importance to every choice of yourself, and be kind to the little dreams in your heart. Growing up at this moment is to begin to realize the gap between yourself and others, no longer run away, start to use self-discipline to close these distances, and truly enjoy the process of every effort; I began to realize the disadvantages brought about by my own shortcomings, wanted to get rid of some bad habits and some shortcomings, looked forward to a better self, began to realize the small advantages brought by some of my advantages, and hoped that it would not be stolen by the years.

There are things that teach you to grow, and even if it's just a shallow way to leave a mark on your path, it's a precious asset. At least maybe in a certain moment of the Pei people, you understand life, you understand yourself.

Writer Yang Dazhong, Lu Xia Yang Ke said that only after maturity can we harvest growth.

You can't do without toilet paper when you're online. In fact, people rely on a mouth outside, which is interpersonal relationships.

Don't stay online. Go out to work or travel, and learn to talk to people. Relationships are important.

I didn't complain that my parents didn't buy me a car and a house, because a good life needs to be created through our own efforts, so we must have the mentality and wisdom to overcome all difficulties, and constantly improve our abilities, so that we can create a good life that truly belongs to us.

Therefore, only by allowing yourself to continue to grow, can you continue to become brave and confident, work harder to create your own beautiful life form, maintain an optimistic life, love life, love all the good.

1.To grow up, we must insist on self-discipline and exercise.

If you are full of positive yearning for life, learn to start exercising consistently, and insist on exercising for a period of time, you will find that your life has become different, your physique has become better, you have become more serious in talking and doing things, and your focus time has become longer, whether you are working or studying, you will be more efficient, and you will become more and more confident, as long as you start to change yourself, life will develop in a better direction.

2.Introspection and summarization are the foundation of growth.

Learn to calm yourself down completely, think about whether there is anything wrong with dealing with people that day, carefully reflect on and summarize your work is if there are deficiencies, etc., know how to introspect, in order to discover the strengths and weaknesses of your personality faster, to look at yourself objectively, to do self-improvement, a person only clearly understands himself and realizes himself more quickly to become an excellent person.

3.Learning new knowledge can constantly improve oneself.

The most intuitive and effective way of self-growth is to learn new knowledge, you can try to learn a little new knowledge every year, start from scratch, and finally summarize when you can find that you have made great progress, learn new knowledge, not only can make the use of time more effectively, but also can enhance people's self-confidence, as long as you want to learn, you can start to proceed, every day a little progress, we can get closer to a better self.

4.Having hobbies is better when you grow.

Many people will say: interest is just interest, but in fact, interest can effectively improve oneself, the first thing to do is to stick to one's hobbies, such as painting, painting a picture after work, it will not take too much time, of course, you should also take time to learn relevant professional knowledge, and slowly make yourself professional and excellent.

Spiritual growth is a long process, generally handed over to time to polish, if you have to say that there is any quick way, that is setbacks, when you face failure, you can rationally analyze your mistakes, you can understand not only gains and losses, you can allow yourself to be sad, or you can stand up bravely and not give up when you remember your goal, you have really grown.

Of course, no one will deliberately look for setbacks, so you can consider starting from two aspects, on the one hand, list your past setbacks and failures one by one, analyze why you did this at that time, why you failed, what you did after the failure, what you have changed, and now look back on what you should do after the failure, in fact, when you have the courage to face the past failures and analyze them rationally, you have grown.

On the other hand, you can refer to the failure experience of others, remember that the success of others is actually meaningless with you, because everyone is different, he can succeed does not mean that you can, but failure is different, although it is not his failure, you will also fail, but in the face of failure, the behavior of others will give you inspiration, those who overcome will eventually succeed, more people, it is likely to be sluggish, complaining, always saying, if I was how I was, I succeeded. You will find that the faces of those who have failed in life are very similar.

In short, don't be in a hurry, after all, no one can grow up in a day, and it's always good and good luck to have this desire.