I 16 years old male recently locked myself at home due to some frustration, whether I am mentally

This can happen to anyone.

So first of all, you need to be clear that locking yourself in your home does not necessarily mean that you are mentally ill.

Frustration is something that everyone experiences, and there's nothing about it, sort it out.

Think about what could have been changed in each passing pass, and why it hadn't changed.

What should be done if the same situation arises in the future.

If you keep it in your heart or on paper, you will give yourself a good account.

And you should also congratulate you on a valuable asset.

In fact, no matter how much other people think, they can't hurt you, and if you get hurt because of this, you are hurting yourself.

When the sun rises tomorrow, it's a fresh start.

The cotton team is frustrated, and we must learn to say goodbye to yesterday.

Find someone you trust the most and tell him what is on your mind, grooming is the best remedy) Good luck!

In an ancient saying, it is a heart disease that requires heart medicine. If you are locked up at home like this, no one will say anything, and who will be able to help you solve it?Only by opening the heart can we solve all the problems in our hearts.

You can talk to a counselor.

Running away from this problem may not be the best solution.

Hurry up and get out, or the consequences will be serious.

People who avoid problems are cowards and have to be brave enough to face failures and setbacks, but a short period of frozen setbacks can calm people down. You must know that the problem will not disappear by itself, you still have to stand up and solve it yourself, and the so-called bell solution still needs to be tied to the bell. Self-implying that he wants to come out and deal with the problem.

We are all just ordinary people, and we can't do everything to satisfy others, as long as we have a clear conscience, so we don't have to care too much about other people's eyes. In fact, if you think about it carefully, there are really not many people who are paying attention to themselves, so you don't have to live too tired, happiness is the most important thing. It's good to get praise, if this becomes an obstacle for you to communicate with others, then you need to change, when you are alone, you can let your heart slowly precipitate, think more about your own ** need to improve, and how to humbly ask others.

Friendship will not be waiting, it is earned, take the initiative to chat with classmates, if you are embarrassed, you can pretend to ask him questions, the more times you will naturally become familiar with it. Also, put on your killer ——— smile to make you appear more accessible and people will come to you to play.

In the end, let the past go with the wind, people always have to look forward, leave good memories, and erase the traces of unpleasantness. Hope this helps you and I wish you happiness! Come on! I believe that a better tomorrow awaits us.

Pretty girls are also classified.

Some are angels, some are devils

And you should belong to the category of big ladies.

Because you're in the growth phase.

Psychological problems cannot be solved in a few words on the Internet, so according to the upstairs, it is to see a psychiatrist.

Actually, it's not that there is any mental illness.

It's that you've encountered a hurdle in your growth.

Some more mature opinions and suggestions are needed.

Hurry up and figure it out before you can move on to the next stage, ok?

If you have time, you can go to a psychiatrist to talk, or talk to me, I am willing to be your friend, but don't think I'm an old antique, you and I are just the opposite, you have a sense of superiority since childhood, I have been very inferior since I was a child, we have one thing in common, that is, I care too much about other people's opinions, you look down on others, I am afraid that others look down on me, but a little bit I am better, I have a lot of friends.

It's psychological.

I used to be like this, but I wasn't as powerful as you, I also had an inferiority complex in my heart, and I couldn't see it on the surface, but now I'm married, and my husband is a very talkative person, and under his influence, I'm basically normal now.

This is a heart disease, accumulated since childhood. It's hard to change.

There's no problem, everybody has been like you, you need to adjust, make a short stop, look at the direction and goal, and be prepared for everything.

This is a process of growth, everyone has such a period, doubt life, doubt yourself, stick to your own choice, and you will always find the sky that belongs to you.

Don't have self-confidence? Are you afraid that you won't be able to do well? I will too.

Then I would say to myself, "I can't die," and even if I die, it's one thing, and what I'm afraid of is that I have to be arrogant and domineering to do it. See how it turns out Laugh. Everyone is themselves, into ?

Fail? It's nothing more than bringing life closer to you. I wish you to find yourself soon!

It is very normal for girls to feel this way at such an age. It's valuable that you can recognize your own shortcomings.

Everyone has a mature process, in this process, you will constantly find some of your own shortcomings and shortcomings, and then strive to adjust and improve. Your experience, your knowledge, and your understanding will continue to develop and progress over time, and as long as you consciously improve yourself, you will continue to mature.

What is maturation? It's calm.

Yu Qiuyu explained maturity like this:

Maturity is a bright but not dazzling brilliance, a mellow but not tired sound, a kind of calmness that no longer needs to be observed by others, a kind of atmosphere that finally stops complaining to the surroundings, a smile that ignores the commotion, a kind of indifference that washes away the extreme, a kind of thickness that does not need to be spoken, a height that can see far but is not steep.

Although many people have a lot of complaints about Yu Qiuyu, his words are very correct. Don't you think?

Your problem is really not a big deal. Every adolescent girl encounters it. Striving to be "calm" is "calm" from the heart, not pretending. If a person has a big heart, he will definitely become an excellent mature person.

May you become a wise and mature girl soon.

People with low self-esteem always focus on the strengths of others and their own shortcomings, and often turn a blind eye to their own strengths and easily tolerate the shortcomings of others.

People with low self-esteem in relationships tend to pass on this feeling to the person they are interacting with because of their embarrassment and discomfort, making each other embarrassed and uncomfortable, thus aggravating their inferiority complex.

Then there's your jealousy at work, always trying to make yourself the most perfect and the best to be comfortable, you know, it's impossible for anyone.

A person survives in the world, just like a tree and a grass, no one is more noble than anyone and who is inferior to another, the storm comes, the tree will be uprooted and the grass can keep its voice, many people you think are excellent, there are many unknown defects, why torture yourself with the advantages of others?

As an adult, you can tell you with certainty that most of the people you think are excellent in school will become ordinary people when you become an adult, and then you will feel very funny - how can your knowledge be so narrow when you were a child, and there are only a few extraordinary people in the whole world?

I remember when I was 16 years old and in my first year of high school, I was a bit like you, I'm embarrassed to talk to boys, but I am very compatible with girls of any personality, and girls feel very dependent on me.

And, walking on the street, I often feel, ah, this girl is so beautiful, that girl is really cheerful, but I have never felt inferior, maybe in the moment of my emotion, I am praising others, and at the same time I will compare myself a little, but every time I will smile very happily, because, I believe, although they are beautiful, but my heart is more beautiful

Moreover, such thoughts will be more profound when you grow up to 18 years old and after the age of 20, and people who know how to appreciate themselves will be appreciated by others and will enjoy life well Moreover, there will be a detached mentality, so that no matter what you experience or setbacks, you will deal with it with a calm and calm attitude.

Believe me, you are beautiful right now and will become more and more beautiful, the kind of beauty that radiates from the inside out, natural, free and easy, and a beauty that no one else can replicate Got it?

Also, don't worry about the shyness of boys, I think it's all your own psychology, it's enough to socialize with classmates and friends of the opposite sex normally, and infect the people around you with your enthusiasm and vitality, don't care about other people's eyes, show your beauty without hesitation, and boys will take the initiative to talk to you

In fact, everyone plays a different role in life, but each of us is the protagonist of the play, because what we are acting in is not a play, so don't look down on yourself, and don't want to hide behind others to be someone else's supporting role, give yourself a lot of encouragement, smile in the mirror every day, and cheer yourself So that one day you will be pleasantly surprised to find that I already have so many audiences! Hehe, come on girl

Hello, in fact, you don't have to pay too much attention, just go with the flow.

In addition, girls are not generous to attract people, shy girls are more likeable, this is traditional Chinese culture.

If you want to win the affection of boys, don't be temperamental, be shy, be lively, I think there are a lot of boys who will like you.

Hehe, even though I'm a boy, that's how I came here, as the above said! Be confident first! Don't worry too much about what you're worried about, it's not a psychological problem, you just have to live your own life, because that's who you are!

Don't worry about not talking to boys, they'll take the initiative to find you when you're lively and cute! Remember not to overthink it! Be yourself.

Adjust your mentality, in fact, self-confidence is the most beautiful, each is a landscape, you should not pay attention to the beauty of others, learn to appreciate yourself.

It's not that the boy is talking, it's that he hasn't let go yet.

You're also not big, and you'll get used to it later.

May you become a confident and beautiful girl.

First of all, you need to find your self-confidence. Self-confidence is an important thing. There's always a place where you're better than anyone else. So look forward to these excellent aspects of yourself.

Second, communicate more with friends and classmates.

Finally, be generous and let go of yourself.

To tell you the truth, you're pregnant, just find a boyfriend to talk to.

Avoiding and withdrawing is not a long-term solution, the long-term way is to be bold and find a boyfriend, which is normal.

I wish you a happy growth.

I send you a more philosophical sentence that you can savor carefully:

Sometimes, I think that the so-called happiness is in the eyes of other people, and it's always easy to feel happy and pathetic. ”

This is true for almost everyone.

Everyone has their luck and their misfortunes, and everyone is equal.

Be confident!! Don't always think that others are happy!

16 years old,,If you have time, it's best to read more inspirational books,,Listen more**(it's better to listen less to commercial**),Make friends and classmates that you feel comfortable with,,Go to the library on weekends,,Give yourself confidence,,Imply that you are the best!

The only thing I feel when I see your question is: you're good, really, trust me

When you encounter this situation again, you should think about how I feel about you!!

Hehe, she recognized a brother, do you think it's enviable?

Everyone is different, in fact, I think that lively people are not necessarily the protagonists.

For example, in a party, everyone is dancing, and you think that the person who dances the best is the best, so she who has been sitting in the corner silently drinking red wine, doesn't it attract attention?

Believe in yourself. I'll cheer you up.

What's so great about recognizing an older brother?

I have n sisters when I go to school.

Men generally like to socialize with women, and if they meet more introverted boys, they should be more proactive.

This way you can soar in the minds of others.

I am also 16

I think it's natural to know that they don't envy your quietness and gentleness? Try not to think about what others think.

It's okay to be comfortable yourself.

o(∩_o...Ha ha.

You're still the same as I was when I was 13 years old and didn't dare to talk to girls!

I've studied politics in the first year of junior high school!

After a few years, I gradually got used to it.

If you don't have confidence, it's useless for others to say anything!

Introversion is not bad. There are many reasons for the formation of personality, and it is not directly related to online games. As far as you describe, it may be socially ill.

Too many negative reviews. Everyone has times when they are not perfect, and they don't have to worry too much about others. Find positive aspects for yourself, and I think your questions are very concise.

Unfortunately, the number of words is limited, so you can only click to the end.

Too much psychological pressure. It is recommended to find a group activity that you are interested in first, and gradually become familiar with the way of communicating with people.

Say to yourself ten times a day: "I'm the best" for a month.

Don't be afraid of being noticed, tell yourself that it is your own light; When communicating with others, you force yourself to be just the other person, which is respect for the other person and a confident performance; Others think your words and deeds are funny, that's because you're humorous, come on!