Many girls have mental cleanliness, especially emotional cleanliness

In fact, emotional cleanliness is a kind of obsessive-compulsive disorder, this kind of people are often insecure, very afraid of being hurt, so they can't accept the other party's selfishness.

What is Emotional Cleanliness?

Emotional cleanliness refers to the fact that neither physically nor mentally can tolerate the slightest emotional impurity of the other party, such as a man who can't see a woman with other men, and a woman who can't see a man with other women. All in all, they attach great importance to the emotional unity of the two and cannot forgive the betrayal of either party.

**Approach to Emotional Cleanliness:

1. Let go of the past

Letting go of the past is the best way to "emotional cleanliness", because you are too concerned about the past, so you will be prone to "disease", in fact, all this is just your own troubles, as long as you let go of the past, you can meet the future more confidently.

2. Experience feelings

Emotional cleanliness needs to be **, and the quickest way to achieve results is to experience love at first sight or have a romantic encounter, but it is more risky that it is difficult to maintain the efficacy, and it is also possible to **, and even make the cleanliness habit worse. Or have a long-term love, try to get rid of your critical eyes and overly cautious attitude, and then make good use of the ample time to slowly and seriously appreciate the people around you, and let yourself be in the sweetness of love.

Classification of emotional cleanliness:

1. Withdrawn personality

Because of the innate problem of being an only child, he is used to staying alone, lest others be in close contact and lack a sense of security.

2. Single parent injury

Because of the shadow brought by the single-parent family, witnessing the misfortune of the parents, longing for love but afraid of entering into marriage, so they hover between the two or simply stay away from emotion.

3. Perfectionism

Unconsciously will ask their love to be pure and flawless, always able to ripple with a beautiful melody, and not allow any subtle things to destroy the ideal beautiful love.

Many people criticize emotional cleanliness as possessiveness, in fact, love itself is a kind of possession, knead two clay figures into a ball, and then knead them into two, whether they are willing or not, love is deep and difficult to distinguish between you and me.

In fact, I think that emotional cleanliness is not a kind of disgust, a kind of avoidance, but a kind of sadness, a kind of intimacy.

In the end, it is not self-confidence. I'm not sure if I can really cross the past in the other person's heart, I'm not sure if it's the right person, and I'm not sure if I can always hold the hand of my son firmly in the future.

This kind of "emotional cleanliness" must be done together to have the possibility of healing, and neither party is firm enough to identify each other, and it will not succeed. In addition to actively facing up to yourself and then trying to find a solution that suits you, the other half should also be careful, patient, and constantly give positive feedback.

Do unto others as you would have them do to you. First of all, if you do it yourself, you can ask others, if you do it yourself, then I support you, you are right. I'm a man, and I also have a mental cleanliness fetish, which is more serious than yours, and I once loved someone, and it can't be considered love, to be precise, I like it, and then I chatted with her about her past, just because my mental cleanliness really can't stand its past, and finally broke up.

The 4 major constellations with particularly serious mental cleanliness and particularly high requirements for feelings, see if you have been recruited.

There are a lot of people who have a mental cleanliness fetish when it comes to feelings. Caring too much about the other person's past or something, or something else. This is also necessary to make some changes appropriately.

Emotionally and spiritually clean, it means that you are a very particular person, and you are not even allowed to be spiritual, and there is a little bit of dirt.

The so-called mental cleanliness is just a psychological disorder, so at this time, if a person has this kind of mental cleanliness in his feelings, it can only be said to be a reason and excuse, so at this time it must be based on reality.

There is nothing wrong with emotional mental cleanliness, which is normal, and it means that you are a kind person.

First of all, I must be single-minded in my feelings, and I will not like the new and hate the old.

Secondly, it is normal that other people's feelings may not be single-minded. Everyone should be single-minded about their feelings.

I think anyone is going to have a habit of being emotionally clean.

No matter how messy you were in the past, you hope that after being together, you can be the only one for each other.

Go with the flow. Don't be too deliberate. Tolerance is like a flower, exuding a fragrance, even if someone steps on it, it will still leave the fragrance on the sole of that person's shoes.

Tolerance is like a light rain, which gives people a refreshing feeling, and even if the earth is filthy, it will still sprinkle all around it. Tolerance is like a flower umbrella, giving people comfort, the downpour is coming, even if you are drenched in the rain, it will be the "sky" above people's heads. Friends, take a step back and open the sky, and being tolerant of others is equivalent to being tolerant of yourself.

Mental cleanliness?

1. You don't want to accept that others have touched you? Then you'd be hard pressed to find!

2. If someone else has touched it, you are now taking over!

Which are you?

It should be said that there is no room for sand in the eyes, and it is also obsessive-compulsive! I myself am also a person with a spiritual cleanliness, and I still have a degree of mastery in everything, otherwise it will bring trouble to myself!

For example, for a while, I would mind his ex-girlfriend, and I felt that the man had intimate contact with his ex-girlfriend, and suddenly felt disgusted, and I would be disgusted that he touched me! The male ticket is confused, I figured it out and inexplicable! (Women are fickle).

Well, in my life, when I stand in line, I hate that strangers get too close to me, and so on. There's nothing wrong with emotional cleanliness, but you still have to master a scale, if it's too much, it will become a mental illness! Troubles yourself and others!

Look at yourself correctly and rationally, and dredge your heart!

I think it's okay to make two emotional cleanliness, one for yourself and the other for lovers.

First of all, the emotional cleanliness of oneself is more manifested in the seriousness of the relationship. For example, a guy has been chasing you for years, and you finally make up your mind to accept him. Once you accept it, you will identify him, and you plan to go with him for the rest of your life, and your future joys, sorrows and sorrows will be shared with him, and you will enter the marriage hall with him and have children for him.

This is what you think you should be loyal and responsible for.

And for lovers' emotional cleanliness, it refers more to not being able to accept the betrayal of lovers. Let's assume that your relationship with him has always been sweet, and you firmly believe that you will always be so happy. Suddenly one day, you find out that he has betrayed you.

Although he later made all kinds of assurances, and even knelt down and begged, you may have relented, maybe you can forgive him, but you have no way to accept him anymore. His betrayal hurts you like a transparent glue that has been accidentally glued together, no matter how hard you try to restore it, the traces can no longer be erased, and even this part of the transparent glue is completely useless.

All in all, emotional cleanliness is to some extent a reflection of the seriousness of feelings, which is not a bad thing. After all, emotionally, it's good to have a cleanliness fetish, isn't it?

That is, the man cannot see the woman with the other men, and the woman cannot see the man with the other women.

Emotional cleanliness is that the other party cannot have a little contact with the opposite sex, and can not fall in love with someone other than the other party, which will make the other party feel particularly unclean, and even feel particularly disgusting.

Emotional cleanliness is that the other party can only love themselves, and they can't have any ideas about other people at all. If the other person shows a little bit of infidelity, it will make them feel very uncomfortable.

It's that there is such a convenient cleanliness habit for the object's body.,Be sure to ask the other party to be a place.。

Emotional cleanliness is when two people fall in love, unable to accept the intimate contact between the other half and the opposite sex, and unable to accept that the other half has other members of the opposite sex in their hearts.

Even in the process of falling in love, the requirements for the other party are particularly high, and they are not allowed to have some immoral behaviors, and there are certain restrictions on the requirements and standards of the other party.

Generally sensitive character girls love to have a spiritual cleanliness fetish, with the following manifestations636f707962616964757a686964616f31333433616237: Persistent in feelings, paying too much attention to the person they like, demanding emotional loyalty, and strong principle.

1. Persistent in feelings.

This type of person is generally too dedicated and persistent to feelings, once he identifies whom, he can no longer tolerate others in his eyes, and at the same time expects others to be the same as himself, and if once others can't do the same infatuation and dedication as themselves, they will be sad and disappointed, thinking that they have been greatly hurt, so they are heartbroken, and treat feelings like a frightened bird.

2. Pay too much attention to the people you like.

People who are spiritually clean will also care a lot about the people they care about, expecting them to be as unearthly as they are, talking about some elegant things, and once the content of the conversation is out of the white snow, they will feel that he has a trace of vulgar thoughts in his heart, and he feels a little unacceptable.

3. Require emotional loyalty.

Spiritual cleanliness is a requirement for loyalty to the other half, and it is also a requirement for oneself, because a person with a spiritual cleanliness will not allow himself to do dirty things, and of course he cannot tolerate being with someone who does not love him.

4. Strong principle.

They are very principled, and this obsessive-compulsive disorder gives them the principle of looking at things differently from others, and their principles are probably in two contrasts with ordinary people: either they are diametrically opposed, or they are too much.

Girls who are upright, loyal, nostalgic, kind-hearted, and believe in love will have a spiritual cleanliness fetish, and they believe that love should be the most innocent.

If a girl has emotional cleanliness or mental cleanliness, it means that although the girl's personality may be more approachable on the surface, she actually has her own set of guidelines and ways of doing things. And the requirements for feelings are very high, relatively independent, calm personality, good at thinking.

I think girls with a more straightforward and cheerful personality are most likely to have such a cleanliness habit, although they look like they are big on the surface and don't care about anything, but they are actually very refined about feelings.

People with mental cleanliness are the most unbearable, and their other half is not "clean", even if it was a long time ago, it will make them feel very uncomfortable.

They are generally very possessive.

The above is a self-summary, don't spray if you don't like it, thank you).

I have been more sensible since I was a child, I love to think, and I have a spirit of self-reflection.

But the more I grow up and the more I come into contact, I feel that my personality is more self-reflective, and I can't rub the sand in my eyes, and I feel that the people around me are deteriorating.

He is particularly reluctant to be exposed to any bad and negative things, and he is particularly picky in interpersonal communication, and it is easy to look down on others.

On the one hand, I can't get used to seeing the shortcomings of others, and on the other hand, I will feel disappointed when I encounter other people's lack of ideological level or wrong views when communicating with others.

Although I have a good relationship with others and seem to have no obstacles to life, I am often uncomfortable, unhappy in life, and prone to pain.

So far, I don't have an ideal friend.

What can I do?

I also spent a lot of time trying to solve this problem, such as looking at the advantages of others, always convincing myself, but it is still very uncomfortable, and I always feel that life is more comfortable.

I always think that it would be good if everyone understood the reason, got along happily together, and didn't do so much, obviously nothing happened.