The girl was chased, but now does not want to establish a relationship.

She should be slowly getting used to being with you, falling in love with you for a long time, and then agreeing to be in a relationship with you, since she didn't reject you, then she won't have no liking for you at all, it's just that you like her, and she also needs time to sublimate to the same as you to like you. Anyway, no matter the outcome, I think it's already a kind of happiness for you to be with the person you like, hehe

Maybe she's looking at you, maybe she doesn't like you at all, but she enjoys the bliss of being pursued, and women like to be pursued.

I think for women, don't spoil too much, or you will become a woman in the future, you will have to spoil her for the rest of your life, and if you don't care about her feelings, she will be willful, then you will have to suffer.

I don't think you can show that you love her too much, so that she will have the upper hand, and you will be passive, and continue to care for her as if she were a friend, and then feel that she is a little dependent on you, and suddenly not contact her for a few days.

First of all, you should carefully understand her situation, such as: family background, life experience, work status, friendships, and the characteristics of the people around her, and then comprehensively analyze what kind of personality she is, deduce her general way and method of dealing with problems, and then judge the reasons for her current attitude towards you, and then formulate targeted methods.

From what you have said, you have a chance of success. Go for it!

Why don't you be too proactive before you confirm the relationship when chasing a girl, what is the reason for this? Let me give you my own opinion.

1. Distance

First of all, before chasing a girl without confirming the relationship, don't be too active, because you need distance at this time, if you get too close, it may cause the other party to be disgusted, the reason is that the other party has not confirmed the relationship with you, there may be other suitors, she has other options, at this time if you are too close, it may affect the relationship with other suitors, so you must keep your distance, this is the best choice.

2. Respect

Secondly, why do you say that before chasing a girl and not confirming the relationship, don't take the initiative because you have to respect, because when you don't confirm the relationship, you are too active will make the other party feel that you don't respect her, and there are many situations in this initiative, for example, many things are suddenly sent to the other party, or when the relationship is not confirmed, you take the initiative to take the other party's hand and hug the other party's shoulder, at this time it is disrespectful to her, and it is likely to be disgusted.

3. Fantasy

Finally, if you don't confirm the relationship, don't do too many things, because after you do too many things, the woman will feel that you can think of everything, you have done it, so there is no room for fantasy, in fact, this is still quite important, whether a girl wants to confirm the relationship with you, first of all, depends on whether he likes you, and secondly, he is full of illusions about the future, if he has no illusions about the future, then he may actually fail.

Therefore, before chasing a girl and not confirming the relationship, don't be too active are the above three reasons, so for the girl you like, if you keep your distance from the other party, respect the other party and let the other party have illusions, so that the girl will consider the possibility of being with you. But if you have no distance and no respect for the girl, let alone let the other person have illusions about you, then the relationship is likely to end before it has even begun.

The tone of this sentence actually means that in the pursuit of love, you must master the proportions, don't take too initiative, let the other party look down on yourself, so that you can control yourself and think that you like each other. In the world of love, the person who can't help but hide his emotions, take the initiative to confess, and take the initiative to pursue is often already at a disadvantage. When you are too positive, you will give the other party a false impression, or be mismisled, thinking that you attach great importance to the other party, which will lead to the other party having other thoughts.

But to look at this problem dialectically, and different people, different situations may take different methods, not to say that the initiative is necessarily wrong, to specific problems specific analysis, if the other party has no good impression of themselves, but they are love at first sight for the other party, this time is not to take the initiative is not good, because a little carelessness may be taken by others first, then it will be too late to regret.

But between two people who are evenly matched, one party is too active, which will cause the other party to lose the initiative in the subsequent relationship, because whoever loves more in the love world will lose.

Girls need a sense of ritual, and if you take action without confirming the relationship, it will not only make the girl disgusted with you, but also make your action meaningless, because the other party doesn't take your contribution seriously at all.

The pursuit of girls must first establish a relationship, and then use practical actions to pay, which is also a process of doing things, so the pursuit of girls also requires a certain amount of thought, and sometimes stupidly paying actions will not have too good results.

Because if you are too proactive, this girl will think that you are frivolous. You haven't confirmed the relationship yet, you are so proactive, you are too positive, and you will appear very passive after confirming the relationship.

Because girls are like this, the tighter you chase, the more they want to catch up, so don't be too proactive before confirming the relationship.

Before you have a relationship, being too proactive will make the girl feel that you don't respect her, which will reduce your success rate.

Because boys like challenging things, they like to pursue things that are not easy to get, and if they are too active, boys are not challenging.

If you are too proactive, the other party will think that you are a prodigal son, they will think that you are very scary, and they will become wary of you.

I think you should still choose to be with each other, because the other party is pursuing you, so you should still give yourself a chance, but also give each other a chance, and then the two of you should be together, and then try to date.

This shows that he is not fully mentally prepared. I don't know much about this guy.

You should think about whether you are nervous when you see him, whether you will be very happy, whether you are particularly happy when you are with him, if this is the case, it means that you also like him. Then don't hesitate to be with him at this time, but if you don't feel this way, then you have to stay for a while and then take a look.

I chased it for a long time, but I didn't agree or refuse. This in itself is playing hazy. Among them, there are the following possibilities: talk about changing branches.

1. I don't have feelings for you, but I still enjoy the satisfaction and vanity that you continue to pursue. As you know, being pursued is a very happy thing. It is possible to get great vanity psychologically, in front of friends.

2. I'm not very satisfied with you, and you're not the standard in her heart, but I think you can still intersect and exist as a spare tire. This kind of woman may answer you in the future, but if you meet the prince charming in her heart, it will be a matter of minutes to abandon you.

3. It feels like you're not bad, maybe for some reason, you don't want to be in a relationship right now. It just doesn't promise or refuse you, and hangs you. See how long you can pursue her. I like to play ambiguous and hazy with you.

No matter what happens, you should let go and start over. Because human life is so short and fragile. Maybe a turn is a lifetime. Maybe a mistake is a stranger.