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You don't want to live forever.
Some men will care, some men won't.
It depends on what you look for in the future.
I think you're all thinking about breaking up now.
Just let it go sooner.
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Break up after living together and start all over again. Or get married and divorce, dragging a child. Which one do you choose.
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Hehe, as long as you don't care, it's okay to face the mirror and encourage yourself for 5 minutes every day Try it.
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If you love you, you will accept it, and if you don't accept it, you won't force it
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I think these things are very normal, there is no need to care about these things, now that it is the 21st century, there is no need to lock yourself in it, just do what you want!
Don't miss the opportunity, it's not coming, and now regret it is still in a hurry! It's hard to say after getting married!
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Frankly, I think some people won't mind, but it will be more difficult to find a good man, after all, I told others that it is 2 hands of goods, and it will be discounted!
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Whether you say it or not, as long as you are a man, you know whether you have it or not, this is a man who naturally knows things!
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Then divide! What should I do, wouldn't it be okay to make up for it.
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At this time, I think it is important to be honest with your husband, who minds such things because you may have lived with other people. You should tell your husband accurately, there are no such circumstances, generally speaking, your husband may know that you have other exes before marriage, so you should be prepared for such things, at least don't hide it, because concealment may further deteriorate the relationship between the two people, in fact, this is not a big deal. Many people may have had many relationships before getting married, so it's normal to live with someone else, and if your husband minds, then leave the choice to himself.
Now I'm going to talk about my personal opinion on this kind of thing.
First, first of all, tell your husband the actual situation.
My husband minds that you have a history of cohabitation with your ex-boyfriend and will definitely ask about some situations, I think you should be honest at this time, if there is some concealment or denial, it may make your husband very uncomfortable. My husband knows that you have these situations and is still married to you, most likely because he wants to hear you say it in person or understand some information, I think these are very normal things, as long as you say it, it may be better.
Second, then explain the situation to your husband and leave the choice to him.
I think that after understanding the situation, I should tell my husband to give him the choice, and he has his own choice whether to divide or stay. We all know that it is not easy to complete a relationship, and it is even more the same after marriage, getting married shows that he accepts some things from you and loves you very much, so I personally think that his final choice should be to accept everything about you, including some previous relationship history.
3. Generally speaking, if your husband is willing to marry you, he must be able to accept some things in the past.
Finally, I want to say that if your husband minds your relationship history very much, then he will never marry you, otherwise he will not only waste money but also delay some of his own things, I think he must have accepted some of your things since he chose to marry you. Mind that having a history of cohabitation is nothing more than a little uncomfortable in your heart, at this time you should talk to him or enlighten him.
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In this case, I think you should have a good chat with your husband, and at the same time tell your husband that the two of you should cherish the good time now, don't affect the marriage of the two people because of the previous events, and give your husband a sense of security in the future, so that your husband feels that he is loved.
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In the face of this situation, you can communicate and communicate with your husband, and then let the other party realize that they were young and ignorant at that time, but the most important thing is the relationship and future of the two people.
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The two of you should get a divorce. This will become a conflict between the two of you, and it will never be reconciled.
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You should tell your boyfriend about this, see what kind of attitude your boyfriend has, this also avoids other problems in the future, if you don't tell now, in the future, when you get married, you will encounter greater trouble, so don't choose to hide it, since he doesn't accept it, then you have to tell him even more, see what kind of attitude he has.
In fact, in today's society, people have been able to accept this fact, because the relationship is not understandable, and since you have chosen to be with each other, there is no need to care so much about the previous things, if you really can't accept it, then choose to break up, so that you don't have to torture each other, and I also think that if you find that your other half does not accept premarital cohabitation, then you have to explain it to the other party in advance, don't hide it, if you get married in the future, You will have a lot of conflicts because of this, so don't tell each other, that will only hurt yourself more.
Today's society is an open society, and when men and women get along, it is inevitable that there will be impulsive behavior, so girls must be honest with each other when they know that their boyfriends do not accept premarital cohabitation, so that you will be less hurt in the future, and I also think that if men really can't accept it, there is no need to compromise, because even if you go down, you will feel very uncomfortable in your heart, and there will be a knot in your heart, so if you don't accept this kind of thing, you don't accept it. Acceptance is acceptance, don't choose patience, that will only make the relationship between the two people a bigger problem, and it will also cause a bad ending in the end.
Feelings are indescribable, so when we encounter this kind of problem, we must communicate in time and solve it in time, so that it is good for both parties, if you always want to hide, always think about going to the future, then you will not reap happiness in the end, so you must have a clear mind, you must know what the other party can't accept, and avoid yourself being hurt more.
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Although he doesn't accept such things, if the two of you really have a certain level of affection, he will accept you. So the key lies in the depth of your relationship. There was no way to change things about you before.
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If something like this happens, you can talk to your boyfriend about it, and if he can accept it, you will get married, and if you can't accept it, you can choose to break up.
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Not accepting premarital cohabitation shows that he respects the marriage, and you should respect his opinion and not force one thing too much.
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I think you can choose to break up in advance, because your boyfriend's behavior is obviously an excessive behavior, and it will also make you feel very inferior.
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You should tell your boyfriend openly and honestly that you have lived with someone else, and if he can accept it, he will continue, and if he can't, he will separate.
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My boyfriend doesn't accept premarital cohabitation, but my sub-boyfriend has lived together. What am I going to do? You have to talk to your boyfriend about it, and he will accept you and understand you.
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This matter cannot be hidden. But you can admit to the fact that you were married to your ex-boyfriend. Conceal that you have lived together.
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You should talk about these things with your boyfriend, if your boyfriend can't accept it, then there is no way.
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In fact, at this time, you should tell your friend that you can't hide anything from him, after all, love requires both parties to be transparent.
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Mind but don't mention it;
Mind but there are also those who will ask you for details;
There's nothing that doesn't mind unless it doesn't like you ; But just mind before you.,It's not that you don't mind that you're still nonsense.,As long as there's a principle,It's up to this boyfriend to think about himself.。。
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I don't know your boyfriend, but you can understand it this way:
It's one thing if he doesn't care, it's another thing if he stabs you in the future because of this.
There are two ways, the complicated one is that you ask him directly, talk to him, confess and let him confess.
The simple thing is to see if he has ever lived with someone else. Although you can't see exactly whether he has a problem in his heart, you can directly stab him when he stabs you in the back
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It's a boy, it's normal, so there's no need for us to take the initiative as girls to ask this kind of question, and my boyfriend may have talked to several ex-girlfriends.
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I think I should tell him that because to avoid conflicts in the future, some people don't mind that their girlfriends live with other people, and this kind of thing should be explained in advance to avoid problems and conflicts.
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It's best not to tell it, because most guys will mind it, and if you do, it will probably affect the relationship between the two of you.
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There is no need to tell the incumbent, there is no need to take the initiative to mention the two of them about this matter, the current relationship is very good, and taking the initiative to say this matter will affect the relationship between the two.
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It's all your right to choose to tell or not to tell, don't worry about it. People must learn to let go of the past and cherish what they have in front of them, as long as you are serious about him now, you are sincere and emotional, and there is no need to dwell on the past.
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I think you should say it in good faith, otherwise he will find out, if he really loves you, he won't care about your past affairs, and it is better for you to say it yourself than to find you.
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There is nothing to hide, the person who really likes you should accept your past, and if he knows about it from someone else in the future, he will feel that you don't trust him very much.
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I don't think there's any need to tell him, because that's just your past, and there's no need to explain it to anyone.
If you care about this very much, it's better to divide it, unless you want to open it. Even if you don't break up now, you will still break up in the future.
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