Parents need to understand that children are not our private property, how to avoid controlling chil

As a parent, it is necessary to recognize the regularity of your child's growth.

This is the method or principle of not controlling and indulging children!

In fact, the education of parents to their children is a process from control to non-control. Sometimes, we should control our children because they are not mature enough.

So, instead of avoiding controlling the child, we are controlling it properly until the child can spread his wings and fly on his own!

1.The stages are different.

A child is nothing more than a small baby at birth.

They can't even turn over, and at this time, the parents' care for their children is almost comprehensive!

The child's eating, drinking, and Lazar must be taken care of! But as the child grows, he will gradually gain abilities.

It's like he had to feed at first, but gradually he was able to eat on his own.

Children grow up gradually, and at different stages of growth, there are non-stop rules, follow the rules, and gradually let go, which is the basis for not controlling children.

2.Let go, don't think you just let it go.

Letting go of your child doesn't mean just leaving it alone.

It's like when a child just starts to walk, knowing that he will fall, so it is not right to just let go and let him fall.

It should be silently watched behind him, and protective measures should be designed in advance.

We should let the child take the initiative to let him try when he is within his ability, and inform him of the problems and possible setbacks.

Educate him about setbacks when he encounters them, and encourage them when he lacks courage.

3.Mental construction.

Children are destined to leave home and fly to the wider skies.

And this departure is a slow process, and for parents, the child who used to rely on his parents for food will gradually grow up.

They will have their own thoughts, their own way of doing things.

This is a pain in the face for parents, as if someone has taken your treasure.

So, proper psychological construction is a must! Keep telling yourself that your goal is to raise your child better.

First of all, we must understand this truth, and we must always remind ourselves that we must respect the child's choice, let him complete his things independently, and try not to force him to choose any major, or force him to get married and have children.

First of all, parents must understand that children need to have their own private space and need to have their own thoughts, views and opinions. Second, parents should devote most of their minds to work so that this kind of controlling thinking about their children does not become more and more intense.

You have to control your thoughts, you have to learn how to be a parent, and you have to be relaxed with your children.

If we don't believe in it and practice it, then the actual effect of parent-child education is obvious, as long as we never "can't do it", only we "don't want to do it".

To put it simply, no one is born knowing everything, but also through life and practice accumulation precipitation, promotion, so in parent-child education, both parents and children are an unemployed, especially parents must try not to say "I understand the truth, but can't do it" when teaching children, because this sentence from the heart is a lack of self-confidence, everyone has not tried to change and how to understand it will be "unable to do" The most important change in teaching children is to let practice replace "I understand the truth", how difficult and hard it is to educate children, and not to let cultural education not start, and then it is already doomed!

How to replace "I understand everything" with practice? Personally, I think that the mentality is the most critical, such as doing good deeds and doing good deeds, and firmly believe that the original intention between people is to do good deeds and do good deeds.

In fact, the popularity of parent-child education in real life is also the same, the mentality of parents can directly determine the effect of children doing a thing, if we want to replace practice with "I understand the truth" to achieve good results in cultural education, then we must bring a smile to life education, why must it be a smile. In the relationship between the nearest student and the nearest student, these serious and rigid expressions are originally a sense of alienation, and long-term living in this environment is also very easy to feel depressed and depressed.

Regarding children's parent-child education, hoping for a son to become a talent and a son to become a dragon has always been a deep-seated expectation, but under the concept of the starting line, more and more cultural education has gradually changed its taste, what kind of clothes and meals children eat in the morning, and even come back on time to go out to study is also planned to be spotless, but how does this "housekeeper" image make children think? They are at the mercy of puppets like puppets, without their own thinking, let alone their own space for scale.

Loving children is the instinct of every parent, but too strong than the east and west, self-righteous "housekeeper" brand image, may "force the child away" from our own side, the child is not our own legal property do not try to manipulate the child, do not try to do the child's "let the handshake housekeeper" is to release the casual attention to the child, from now on, from this moment on, learn to let the child do his own things to determine and personally operate, if we have been to be the child's "housekeeper", How can a child complete the change and put his own brilliance on hold?

Don't let your child live according to his own ideas, don't control his children's joys and sorrows, control his children's preferences, and don't be too aggressive.

I think we should not try to control children, we should learn to respect children, understand children, and how many children will interact and communicate with each other, which will be more conducive to children's later development and changes. Changrang.

Everyone is an individual, and so are their own children. Everyone has independent thoughts and opinions, and we must argue and adapt to human nature, and we can control it arbitrarily, otherwise things will be reversed.

First of all, the use of a child's property by a parent may violate laws and regulations, especially if the use of a child's property without the child's consent may be considered an act of encroachment and may lead to legal risks.

Secondly, the use of a child's property by a parent may affect the security of the child's property, especially if the parent does not have good financial management skills, or if there is insufficient moderation, it may cause the child's property to be lost or damaged.

Finally, parents should protect the legitimate rights and interests of their children, who are the most vulnerable group in the family and need their attention and protection.

Therefore, it is recommended that parents do not use their children's wealth, but should use other means to ensure the normal operation of the family and the growth of their children.

The specific recommendations are as follows:

1.Household income as the primary support**. Parents should rely on their own income and struggles to continuously improve their income level to ensure the normal life of the family and the growth of their children, such as housework sharing, family financial planning, etc.

2.Cultivate children's good financial intelligence. Parents should help their children improve their financial quotient, let them realize the importance of wealth and the correct concept of financial management, and start their financial planning and investment plan as early as possible.

3.Build a security guard. Parents can ensure the safety of their children's property and proper management by establishing a special children** and supervision mechanism, and can also guide their children in financial management and financial management step by step. Sideways.

In the long run, we should help children establish correct financial awareness, guide them to learn and master financial knowledge, maintain their property safety and interests, let them become independent people, and create greater wealth potential for the family.

In general, parents are not allowed to use their minor children's property. There are three main reasons for this:

1.Protection of property rights and interests of minors: Minors have the same property rights and interests as adults in law and enjoy legal protection. If parents use the property of their minor children without authorization, it will harm the property rights and interests of the children and violate the law.

2.Parents are only guardians of minor children: Although parents are guardians of minor children, this does not mean that they have access to their children's property.

Guardians shall manage minors' assets in accordance with law, and preserve minors' rights and interests, rather than using minors' assets for personal gain.

3.The law clearly stipulates: the Civil Code of the People's Republic of China stipulates:

The property of minors shall be sold and managed by their legally-designated persons" (763). Parents, as the legal ** persons of minors, must comply with the provisions of the law in their management of the property of minors, and must not infringe upon the rights and interests of minors.

To sum up, parents cannot use their minor children's property without authorization, and must manage it in accordance with the law to protect the property rights and interests of minor children. If parents need to use the property of their minor children, they should obtain the approval of the relevant departments and do so in strict accordance with the law.

In many countries, parents can manage and supervise the property of their minor children. This means that they have the right to use the child's property to pay for the child's day-to-day expenses and other related expenses.

However, in specific circumstances, parents may exceed their authority and misuse their children's property.

Here are some of the situations in which parents can use their minor children's property:

1.Manage the child's property: In some cases, the child may inherit or acquire property, such as a house, **, **, etc.

In this case, the parents can act as guardians or legal representatives to manage the child's property. This includes handling your child's investments, paying bills, and managing bank accounts.

2.Cover the child's living expenses: Parents need to provide their children with necessities and daily expenses, such as food, lodging, medical care, and education. In this case, the parents can use the child's property to pay for these expenses.

3.Safeguarding the welfare of their children: Parents are responsible for ensuring the health and safety of their children. If a child needs emergency medical treatment** or other support, parents can use their child's property to pay for these expenses.

4.Academic needs: If a child needs books, computers, research materials, or other educational resources, parents can use their child's property to purchase these resources.

However, parents must be aware that it is their responsibility to ensure that their children's property is managed properly and that laws and regulations are followed. Parents should not treat their children's property as their own, nor should they go beyond their power and abuse their children's property. If parents misuse their children's property, they may face legal consequences.

In short, parents can use their minor children's property, but it must be used within a reasonable range, such as managing the child's property, paying for the child's living expenses, and ensuring the child's welfare and academic needs. Parents must comply with laws and regulations and must not go beyond their own authority and misuse their children's property.

Whether parents can move the assets of their minor children's jujube needs to be judged on a case-by-case basis

1.Parents should not use the assets if they are the child's own income or inheritance, and the adult child has the mental and financial capacity to manage the assets independently. This part of the assets belongs to the child's private property and should be managed by the child himself or with the assistance of a guardian.

2.If the asset is donated by the parents, it is a legal gift asset of the minor, and the consent of the legal guardian is also required as a parent. Even if the assets are donated to minors, it does not mean that the parents are completely inspired to lose their control, but they should not be misappropriated without authorization.

3.If the family still needs to rely on the asset, it is within a certain range of common assets, and the parents can use it, but they should maintain appropriate control under the supervision of the legal guardian and shall not encroach on it privately. The interests of minors should also be considered when using it, and the necessary living expenses should be retained.

4.In either case, the assets of the parents over the minor children can only be reasonably disposed of or used under the supervision and management of the legal guardian, and must not be misappropriated without permission. If it is necessary to dispose of a large amount of assets, it should also be approved through a statutory guardianship procedure.

In summary, parents, as guardians, are responsible for the custody and management of their minor children's assets. However, it is not possible to dominate or encroach on it without limit. The assets should be reasonably managed and used according to the nature, use and purpose of the assets, safeguard the interests of minors, and accept the supervision and restrictions of the legal guardianship procedures.

If it is necessary to approve a large amount of assets, it is also subject to the approval of the statutory guardianship procedure. This is to check and balance the power of guardians and protect the property rights and interests of minors.

Parents should fulfill their responsibilities for asset management, abide by relevant laws and regulations, and not abuse their power or control power due to law, and protect the interests of their children. It is also the cornerstone of the stability and trust of the family's property.