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Parents have different attitudes towards their children's love. Like our parents, most of them are happier. If we were boys, our parents would be very pleased.
I feel that my son is out of breath, and I can be regarded as having found a girlfriend. But if it's a girl, her parents will ask the boy more strictly. I will also ask the boy's family and the boy's attitude towards him.
These practices are relatively normal, because boys are different from girls. If he has a son in his family, then his parents will not worry much when he falls in love.
But if her family is a daughter, then when she falls in love, the family will be very worried. Because there will be a new member in the boy's family, but the girl's family is her own daughter who is leaving home. Therefore, we also need to understand these different attitudes of parents.
Because my parents are the people who love me the most, no matter what I do, my parents will be very supportive. But when he is faced with a lifelong event, his parents will definitely be very cautious. It also helps us to think through and doesn't want us to make the wrong decision.
Otherwise, it will be delayed for a lifetime.
I also hope that you must be very careful when choosing your marriage partner. You must not say that you can marry someone else casually. If you don't know the person, not only later in your married life.
Inside, I am not happy. will also make their parents worry about themselves. So when you're young, you can actually fall in love more.
Because only then will you be able to find someone who is truly right for you. When you meet someone who is very suitable for you, you can also make the most correct judgment. When your parents give you advice, you must listen very carefully.
Don't bother your parents, because our parents are all for our good. And as a person who has come before, the experience that my parents have given us is also reasonable.
However, for some younger people, it is better not to fall in love. Because their main task is to study, and after they study well, there are more opportunities to fall in love. If you delay your studies because of falling in love, then it is also a very bad thing.
If parents find out that their children are in early love. At this time, I also hope that their parents can give them the right guidance. Don't say that because your child is in love, you will immediately abuse them.
It is necessary to explain to them clearly and analyze the pros and cons. Otherwise, not only will they not listen, but they will also rebel.
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My parents' first reaction was to be very happy that their son finally had a partner. Because I am not handsome, I am very average-looking, so they are afraid that I will not find a match.
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Parents knew that their daughters had different reactions after falling in love, and my parents' first reaction at that time was to be happy. They said that I had grown up and knew that I was in love, and that I was going to be a big girl.
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My parents' first reaction at that time was to ask his name, what kind of work he does, what kind of home is **, how long have you been together, how he treats you, etc., in short, it is like investigating the household registration.
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There was no big reaction, after all, I can get married at my age, but I am just a little curious about each other, and my parents hope that they can find someone who can run a good family together in the future.
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My parents were shocked at first, then they went back to normal, and nothing else.
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I was surprised. Because my mom always thought I was ugly and lazy, and no one would take a fancy to me, so I was surprised.
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My mother's first reaction was to ask him how old he was, where he lived, how he looked, and whether he was tall, while my father's first reaction was that he felt that his own daughter had grown up and was already getting married.
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My parents are very happy, because they are older now, and they will have a headache if they don't fall in love, so they must be happy when they encounter such a thing.
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I was very surprised, because I was usually very wooden, and they didn't expect to have a boyfriend, and they were going to introduce me to it.
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In fact, there is no big reaction, mainly because the age has also arrived, and the parents think it is a relatively normal situation.
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Early love in high school. Originally, my academic performance was very good, because I chatted with him until midnight every day, secretly saved money to buy a mobile phone, and did a lot of crazy things that caused my academic performance to plummet. So the parents found out and objected.
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My parents' first reaction was flat because they thought I was old enough to fall in love.
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My parents' first reaction was to be very surprised, and I thought it was a little incredible, and I felt as if it wasn't their own.
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My parents were very surprised at the time, thinking that I had finally found a partner, and such an approach really made me very sad.
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The first reaction will be very bland, and then I will ask each other about the specific situation, as well as the time when the two people have known each other, and then I will also ask the other party if they are good to me.
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My parents were very calm at the time, and then carefully inquired about the other party's family character, and finally expressed their understanding, telling me to protect myself, and the family is the strongest backing.
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My parents were overjoyed when they found out that I was in love, and they were happier than me.
No problem......You can get married, ......Yes! I thought they would ask a bunch of things, but I didn't expect to be so open-minded.
But some of my classmates weren't so lucky. For example, since Xiao Gang's mother knew that he had a partner, his mother picked him up on the way home from school every day, to prevent Xiao Gang and his girlfriend from going to the grove under the pretext of self-study, or to send her home.
I also have a buddy, and his parents' first reaction to learning that he has found a girlfriend is also very happy, saying that he has finally found a partner. However, why do you use the word finally, my classmates are so unhappy, as if they are very bad.
After another buddy of mine told his parents about his dealing, his mother's reaction was so violent that she was directly furious: Are you going to Beijing to fall in love or go to graduate school?! I don't think you can pass this study! There is no future either! My classmate was embarrassed.
In fact, after my parents learned that we were in love, they were generally very happy, and the reason why they had so many different performances was that each parent considered the problem from a different angle, but anyway, they all wanted us to have a good start on the issue of love.
At the same time, parents also hope that we can fall in love well, because in their hearts, love is a thing that can not be treated sloppily, can not be sloppy, can not be abandoned, in their hearts, their own baby is delicate, important, other people's baby is as delicate and important, now they are only children, which family of children is not delicate.
To be honest, I can understand the thinking of my parents' generation, although it is a little conservative, but it is indeed the most correct, I will definitely come according to my parents' requirements, treat my girlfriend well, work hard to develop, and I will definitely marry her home in the future.
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They are very happy, they are very happy that the child can find the other half of the love, and they prefer to see the child stupidly happy because of love.
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I'm happy for me, but I'm also asking what kind of person my boyfriend is, hoping that I can take him home and show them.
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My mom was so happy and kept asking me what kind of person my boyfriend was, how long we'd been together, and so on. Dad was a little upset and thought my boyfriend had snatched his daughter.
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Of course I'm happy, I met the right person at the right age, and my parents also wanted to find someone to take care of me for them, so of course I'm happy to know that this person has appeared.
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If I was in junior high school or high school, my parents would have beaten me up and said I didn't want to be aggressive, but if I was an adult, my parents would be very happy.
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My parents were very angry when they found out that I was in love, and they were worried that falling in love would affect my studies, so they kept preventing me from falling in love.
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A little happy and a little worried. Happy because he thinks that his child has grown up and talked about friends, and he is worried that he doesn't know if the friends he talks about are good or not, and whether they are suitable or not.
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I was very excited, first breathed a sigh of relief, and then said: Even if someone is willing to want you, we are really afraid that you will smash your hands. After that, I called the seven aunts and eight aunts to announce the good news.
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It would be very happy, and then all kinds of inquiries and inquiries about the other party's information, and finally I hoped that I could take her home to have a meal or something.
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In fact, their reaction was not very intense, but they still happily asked me about the other party's situation, and when would they like to take it home for dinner, see what kind of person it is, and check on me.
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Every single oneParents treat this matter differentlySome parents are more open-minded, and many parents know that their children are in love, and their first reaction must be very surprised. MeMom and Dad's first reaction was to be very surprised, and then very happy。It is also very happy to say that their own daughter has finally grown up.
Every time I go out with my boyfriend, they will sue me, you are a girl, pay attention to your image. My mom quietly asked me who he was, and I still didn't say it after all, and it was very embarrassing to find it if I couldn't find it.
1.Parents do the wrong thing
Many parents are furious when they hear that their children are in early love, and they are eager to beat their children up, especially without any notice, they must be very angry. The first thing many parents find out is to confiscate their mobile phones and prevent them from having any contact. This approach is always wrong and will deepen the gap between parents and children, and adolescent children are easily angry, and when they are angry, what they will do is something that many people don't know.
2.Have a good mindset
This matter is not a bad thing for children. At this time, the child has already learned how to interact with the opposite sex normally, and there is no need to worry about marriage in the future. It's not terrible that early love is coming, parents should treat the problem of their children's early love in the right way, which can be treated as a good thing.
There is nothing wrong with puppy love itself, and this is the time to give the child a correct way to guide it. <>
3.After the university knew
When I fell in love after college, my parents must have been very happy when they found out. No matter what kind of person you plan to bring home to your parents, be sure to check their tone in advance and beware of firestorms. Parents respect their children very much, as long as the child likes it, the parents will definitely not stop it.
Every parent knows that it is better to demolish ten temples than to destroy a marriage. What's more, every family fire hopes that their children will live very happily, and after going to college, they will definitely not stop it. Children will also be advised to look for more partners.
Do exercises for the rest of your life. <>
If the age is reached, the parents will be happy to know that their son is in love. My father shouldn't have reacted much, but my mother should think it's a big deal. It will definitely be stopped at first, if it is still young, it will delay learning.
Many fathers want their children to get married and have children, but it's just a matter of age. Getting married is also a very difficult thing, and any action of the parents must be very surprised, this must be a unified expression.
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Parents have a variety of reactions after knowing that their children are in love, and my parents are very surprised when they know that I am in love, and they can't see that there is usually no sound at all, but they are in love, and my parents are still super surprised.
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My parents are still the more open-minded kind, knowing that I have a super calm expression when I fall in love, my mother also gossiped and asked me if I look good, the ** people in the family, working in ** and the like.
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My parents' reaction was not as big as I imagined, but they calmly instructed me to understand and take care of others, they are all children whose parents have managed to pull up, and don't let people be wronged.
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Our parents were more open-minded, didn't ask too many detailed questions, told me to protect myself, and then have time to take it home and see, that's all.
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My parents kept a curious look on their faces, and they were also very curious about each other's identities and family backgrounds, and then they would ask some details about them.
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My parents were in favor of me falling in love, and they would be surprised and happy if they found out, but my parents were more open-minded and supportive of my relationship.
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My parents' expressions were that they were staring at me with their mouths wide open, and after a while, they started asking about my boyfriend, and they would be very anxious, and they would tell me a lot.
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My parents were very nervous at first, they kept asking about my boyfriend's work and family, etc., and they were very worried about me.
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