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All I can say is that if my parents hadn't done something that was too chilling for me, I would have been kind to them within my power.

Because my parents gave birth to me and raised me, they gave me life and allowed me to see the diversity of the world, and they are the closest people to me in the world.

I have a younger brother, I was nine years old when he was born, I can remember the things, I witnessed how my parents raised my brother step by step from a small newborn baby slowly and hard, how he stayed up all night when he was sick, worked hard to protect him all night, dragged his tired body to work the next day, saw how they took good care of my brother, and was nervous and distressed for a long time when I saw my brother hurt a little bit.

Whenever I see this, I always think that my parents must have brought me up with all my hard work like this, how difficult it is, I must be filial to them when I grow up in the future, even if they are a little biased and ignore me a lot, but I think they must also love me, they have suffered so much in the process of raising me, and I have nothing to repay for this. Of course, we must honor them well, without a trace of worldly utility, because no matter what, we will not be able to repay the nurturing grace of our parents in this life.

I can understand your feelings, you have paid but have not been rewarded by your parents, you are good to your parents, but your parents are not good to you, but from another point of view, when your parents gave birth to you, when they were good to you, how could they ask you in return? Sometimes, giving is not asking for anything in return, but it is really difficult to do it, but this is what love should look like, and asking for something in return is not selfish?

Personally, I think I will still be good to them, after all, no matter how stingy they are, they still raised me so much, every parent loves them very much, maybe they are harsh on us, but they are strict with us, I hope we will not be so big in the future. In short, everything is for your good! In any case, we should be good to them in matters of principle!

If your parents treat you badly in particular, should you still respect them? Respecting the old and loving the young has always been a tangled issue. There are two kinds of elderly people, one at home and one outside.

There are also elderly people in the family who have different views to some extent. Although there are some knots in each other's hearts, they still have to support the elderly. Therefore, this respect is morality, obligation, and necessity. In this case, reducing conflicts with the elderly will be the best way to get along.

Also, the old man outside watched a piece of news yesterday. Three children helped an elderly man who fell on a zebra crossing and was blackmailed after school. There is really no way to respect such an old man.

There are also strange things among the elderly, such as taking care of the elderly on the bus, grabbing the steering wheel, blaming pregnant women for not giving up their seats, etc., which are not respected! As an older person, the first issue is to set an example for children and young people. To be a human being, whether young or old, we must put morality first.

There is no morality at all, and even a lack of nutrients in the soil will not make a good banker. People must be polite in doing things. There is nothing that should be done.

The bus belongs to the public, so we greet the elderly with moral courtesy, thank you! It is the way the first language should be expressed. Otherwise, make the other person feel that the seat should be given to you.

In fact, it should be the person who does not exist in a public place. So, use words to express gratitude and at the same time make people feel comfortable.

Next time, those who need to give up their seats will still maintain pride, carry forward righteousness, and gradually form a good atmosphere in these small things. Most people still have moral character, and some elderly people may have accidents. If you care about the age difference, you can't tell the truth.

You just don't have a little common sense with unreasonable old people, and you don't appreciate the moral character of young people.

In order to create a harmonious atmosphere, every little thing can reflect a person's moral level, and whether there is moral cultivation or not can be reflected through a small thing. I believe that the ethics of the socio-economic development team should keep pace with the times, and I hope that people without ethics will not be as backward as possible. In short, if the elderly don't respect us, we should respect them.

After all, respecting the old and loving the young is a 5,000-year-old fine tradition of the Chinese nation, which needs to be carried forward.

They should be respected. Because even if it's bad for you, it's your parents. And respecting them is first and foremost your own peace of mind, and if you treat them badly, then what's the difference with them. Do what you have to do, and let the rest be!

You don't need to respect them too much, I think you, as their child, just give them a little money, because they treat you badly, and you don't have any moral responsibility.

We should respect them, after all, our parents gave birth to us, but we should also have our own attitude.

Yesterday I went to my cousin's house to play, and I saw that she was chatting with a group of people, and I also gossiped over to listen, but I heard my cousin say that her husband beat his mother at home. I was shocked at the time, because in my eyes, my cousin's temper is very good, at least I have never seen him lose his temper, and I have always felt that my cousin is very blessed to find a husband with such a good temper. However, my cousin's words made me doubt my understanding of my cousin, and I had to redefine the word "good-tempered".

What makes a good temper?

Is being polite to strangers and modest to friends good-tempered? Do acquaintances say that if you have a good temper, you have a good temper?

I don't think so. Whether it's a stranger or a friend, they don't know enough about you, and even your closest friends don't know you completely. Only your parents, who are also your closest people, know you best.

From the time you were born to the time you grew up, no one knew each other better than your parents. So, whether you have a good temper or not, your parents know best. Only if your parents think you have a good temper, then you are really good-tempered.

Speaking of which, I would like to ask: Have you ever had a good temper with your parents?

I think many people have lost their temper with their parents and had arguments with them, and of course I am no exception.

I remember that time, when I came home from school and was about to take a shower, I couldn't find my towel. It was my mother who washed it and put it away when I left the house, but she forgot to put it in **. I became angry for a moment and yelled at my mother.

But my mother didn't say anything, just silently searched for me, and finally found it.

Now that I think about it, I'm ashamed, a towel is just a small thing, and I lost my temper with the person closest to me. There are so many little things like this that I can't remember anymore.

Our parents are the closest people to us, and many times we treat our parents with a bad attitude as our friends, and we lose our temper with them when we are not satisfied with a little thing, and we are so at ease. We have always only cared about our own momentary pleasure, and overconsumed the love of our parents. But I never thought about why our parents put up with our bad temper, and never thought about how our parents felt after our tantrums.

Parents are human beings, and they are sad and sad, but we never know that.

As we get older, our parents are getting older day by day. For so many years, we owe so much to our parents. We should apologize to our parents, apologize for our bad temper with our parents, and apologize for our neglect of our parents.

From now on, restrain your petty temperament, be kind to your parents, don't lose your temper, and don't do anything. Think twice before you do everything and be a really good-natured person.

Maybe I'm really stingy, and I don't feel anything else.

Some time ago, chatting with a friend, he accompanied a younger brother on a trip in Hokkaido. I asked him if he was having fun. He told me that he and his brother were not all the way, so the journey was not very pleasant.

He told me in detail that my brother was pestering his parents to go to Japan to play, and his mother was not at ease, so he invited my friend to follow my brother over.

His younger brother is not from a wealthy family, and he has just entered college and has no ability to make money on his own, but he has the ability to spend money. Let's take a small thing, the price in Japan is very expensive, and a piece of cantaloupe costs about 30 yuan.

A friend asked me, "Can you agree that a child who can't earn money yet, who doesn't blink at home, who doesn't blink just because he's thirsty, refuses to buy water, but eats three slices of cantaloupe in one go?" "This kid, I think of a very impressive sentence:

Your parents are still in the middle of nowhere, but you are showing off your poetry and the distance. There are a lot of people like this around me. Another friend of mine has a very average family condition, but he lives a very "high-class" life.

She thinks the unit lunch is unpalatable, so she goes out to the restaurant at noon every day, and she must order a cup of milk tea for more than ten yuan in the afternoon. When I go out shopping with her, she will always pull me to eat very popular and expensive restaurants. Traveling with her, she has always bought and bought all kinds of food and souvenirs with inflated prices in the scenic spot, and spent money like running water.

The stinky tofu wasn't good, she tasted a piece, spit it out, frowned in disgust, and threw it away.

I didn't dare to persuade her to spend money and not to be too lavish. Every time she tried to persuade her, she squinted unconvinced, brought out two of her famous quotes, and opened her mouth with confidence.

The first sentence, "Girl, be rich", and the second sentence, "When you come out to play, you must be happy, don't care too much about money", it seems that if I persuade her to save appropriately, it seems that I am too stingy and stingy. I thought she must have a good family, until I went to her house one time. She lived in a house on the outskirts of the city, old, damp, narrow and small, and had to climb up a very steep staircase from the first floor to the second floor.

Her grandmother sat at home picking up vegetables in her high school uniform jacket. She asked her grandmother why she didn't go to play cards, and the old man said: I lost dozens of dollars in the past two days, and I am not happy to go today.

I borrowed their bathroom, and my grandmother didn't forget to tell me to use the water in the bucket to wash the mop, don't press the button, the water will be flushed, and it will be a waste of money.

It is such a thrifty old man who gives all the savings he has saved by selling vegetables to his granddaughter and lets her squander it. Having dinner with her parents at noon, her father said that he didn't expect her to make money to support the family, and the little salary she earned would be good for herself to eat and wear.

My dad will never think I'm stingy, he will only give, not take.

Experience only you know, otherwise you are lacking in heart!

Daddy's deformation is rich, and Dad likes this, and he likes to be eccentric, so this is what makes me stingy.

Are you male or female? The man is the father's former enemy, and the female is the lover of the past life.

He's certainly not a good father, and parents are usually very content, and I won't be too little if you give it to me, and it will feel like you've grown up.

Generally, fathers will not dislike their children for being stingy, you can change yourself if you are really stingy.

Parents rarely think their children are stingy, and it is generally a joke to say it once in a while, treat parents well, and don't worry about the elderly.

Don't you even have a hundred dollars?