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It's an interesting phenomenon, and it's a sight to be. We are always envious of what others have, envy other people's jobs, envy the new houses bought by friends, envy other people's cars, etc., but ignore the fact that we ourselves are the envy of others. In fact, people are always envious of each other like this.
Some people often fantasize that one day when they wake up, they will become so-and-so. It may be because we are well aware of the shortcomings of our lives, so we will compare those lives that we think are more perfect, and use them as the coordinates of life. In fact, there is no such thing as perfection in this world, and those we envy are also suffering from their dissatisfaction.
The so-called family has a scripture that is difficult to read, and the vain nature of people makes them show their own scenery to others, and who can really see behind the scenery of others? Many times, what you get is what you take, and everything has two sides like a coin, with positive and negative. People, especially women, often like to compare themselves with others, and the result is that "people are more popular than people", in fact, you might as well compare with yourself to see if you are getting better and better, and whether you are getting closer and closer to your desired goal.
Give yourself encouragement from time to time and you will do better. Maybe while you envy others, others are also envying you. Of course, there are people who are indeed worthy of our envy, not entirely because they get more, but because they are good at management.
Envy others because we expect perfection and hope to live better. However, we ignore the fact that everyone's situation is different, and others can never imitate it. However, we can correct our own shortcomings by observing the strengths of others, and instead of looking up to the happiness of others, we should pay attention to the ways in which others manage happiness; Instead of envying the good fortune of others, it is better to learn from the process of other people's efforts.
Stop envying others for what they do, count the grace that God has given you, and you will find that you have more than you don't. And the missing part, although not lovely, is also a part of your life, accept it and treat it kindly, and your life will be much happier and more open-minded. So, there's really no need to envy others.
Keep what you have and think about what you really want, and we will be truly happy!
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Just because a family has a car doesn't have to be rich. But if a family doesn't have a car, it's probably not rich. If a family is rich in terms of money, it will definitely get a car, not to mention how convenient it is to go out and take a taxi, it's all nonsense.
Who doesn't have an old man or a child, it is definitely much more convenient to park a car in your own house than to take a taxi. Wealthy families will definitely buy a car if they have someone in their family who can drive and have a driver's license. Besides, parking a car at home does not affect the usual going out to take a taxi!
Some people live in the city center and rarely go far away, and the frequency of using the car is very small, and it is not easy to park, so they do not have a car. But do you say that the really rich don't have a yard or a parking space? Do you care about the thousands of dollars a year for car maintenance?
It's necessary to park your car in an emergency.
It is very easy for people with money to buy a car, and now it is easy for poor people to buy a car, there are many cars under 100,000 yuan, most of which can meet daily needs, and if you feel the need to buy a car, it is easy for ordinary people to buy it. Those who drive luxury brand new energy vehicles are rich people, who don't care about cost performance, inconvenient charging, and range anxiety. The definition of rich and poor is different in everyone's heart, and people with a bad mentality can't become rich, and the poor spiritually are branded.
The real poor are those who are poor in heart, insatiable and never satisfied. If you are rich, even if you live in a thatched house, you will have tens of millions of mansions, shelter the world's poor people, and the wind and rain will not move like a mountain! Then he is still a rich man, a rich man in spirit.
The car is like a computer, some people need to hail and do not need, buy it if you need it, don't buy it if you don't need it, don't drive a car, buy vegetables and ride a small electric is the most convenient, to all kinds of important things, you don't have to ask for people, you have the funds to solve it, this is the king. No money doesn't hinder others, and the most important thing is to live your own life. As long as people are healthy and work diligently, they will definitely not be too poor.
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If you start to play the scooter and drive a Mercedes-Benz, BMW will be relatively respectful to the owner of the BMW BMW regardless of whether it cancels the trip to the mall to protect the security or the staff, or is more polite and polite, people are so powerful.
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Yes, if you drive a luxury car, others will look at you quietly, because this society is like this, others think that people who drive luxury cars are not Suizu often have the ability to guess the group, so they will look up to it.
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Some people are eager to let the big guy see that he is good at food, because his vanity is relatively high, and he wants others to think that he has money and a sense of accomplishment.
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The more you lack something, the more you show off, some people are afraid that others will not see that they are rich, and some people do not need others to see that they are rich.
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Some people drive luxury cars and can't wait for the big guys to see themselves, because they are too proud, and they want everyone to see that they have luxury cars to compare with others who don't have luxury cars, and some people are afraid that others will see it, that is, they are very modest and not proud.
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Some people think that driving a luxury car is a great thing, so they want others to show off; And some people feel inferior and feel that luxury cars are not worthy of them, so they are afraid that others will see them; These two different behaviors reflect the different psychology and personalities of these two people.
So what kind of mentality is normal to drive a luxury car, neither showing off nor being afraid of being seen, just treat this luxury car as an ordinary car.
It is normal for people to have a sense of pride, and it is normal to have an inferiority complex, but it is normal to not overdo it, if it is excessive, then it is paranoid, and it needs to be restrained.
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Everyone's personality is different, their upbringing is different, and their attitude towards things will of course be different.
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Some people like to show off, and some people like to keep a low profile!
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There are many situations in life, and everyone's personality is independent.
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As the national economy is getting better and better, almost every family has a car of their own, it seems that we have been pursuing a perfect life since we were born, and everyone is yearning for a better life and is also pursuing a better quality of life. With the continuous improvement of the national economic level, there are also many people who have purchased their beloved luxury cars, and today's Audi, BMW, and Mercedes-Benz are not as rare as before, but have been rotten on the street, so what are the advantages of luxury cars that can make people yearn for it so much? What is the gap between luxury cars and ordinary cars?
1) Appearance.
As we all know, there are some luxury cars that have a special design for each tailor-made unique appearance, most of the luxury cars give people the first feeling of high-end domineering, they all have an excellent team of designers. They will provide consumers with their own independent services to highlight their brand characteristics. Therefore, the appearance of ordinary luxury cars will not be bad, and they are also highly recognizable.
2) Interior.
For the interior, the interior of a luxury car is more distinctive. Most luxury cars come in bold colors. Secondly, the seats of luxury cars are mostly wrapped in leather, and their central control decoration is also made of high-grade materials, which is taller than the plastic of ordinary cars.
Not only does it look classier than cheap weaving, but the quality of its use is also impeccable.
3) Body configuration.
In general, luxury cars may see less configuration on the configuration table than ordinary brands, but the cost of luxury cars is much more expensive than that of ordinary cars in terms of individual costs. It is obviously because the ordinary car is used for research and development, manufacturing time and investment is limited, and they will have many more unreasonable places in the body layout and details than luxury cars, on the other hand, luxury cars, their control will be stricter, obviously this will be different in quality.
To sum up, it is obvious that most luxury cars are not vain, but genuine. Therefore, the reason why most car lovers like luxury cars is still reasonable, after all, luxury cars are not only famous, but also because they often coexist with their appearance and strength. Seeing that the distance between luxury cars and ordinary cars is so big, do you want to tighten your wallet and work hard to save money to buy a luxury car?
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I'm the opposite of you, I look down on others, and the better people I have, the more I look down on them. I envy you, because it's the Internet, so I dare to say it, people like you are generally very popular, and I don't have popularity, so in summary, people with good popularity have a great chance of getting ahead! People who envy others have good goals and examples to learn from, and I should learn from you.
Those who can afford to drive luxury cars are the bosses of the company, and if there is something, just ask the secretary and subordinates to do it, so come out in person?