Wanted to find someone to help me, about my parents.

Let's be honest, it's impossible to make sense for people like your parents, who are the kind of people who are so ingrained that it's a waste of effort to convince them.

You have to believe that you're right, just study hard, and if you graduate with honors from college, and you ask to go abroad, they're going to have nothing to say.

Or don't expect them to find a way to trick your dad out of a sum of money and take you away, and if you mix well abroad, they have nothing to say.

The end is justified by the means, because the end is the right thing to do!

But this trick is too risky, you don't have to use it yourself.

You can first find an intermediary to apply or something, according to your statement, you have a lot of cash, find an intermediary to prepare in all aspects, spend some money to apply for a place in a foreign high school, take the admission letter to talk to your parents, it's really not okay to be coquettish, you have to emphasize the importance of self-ideals and independence with them all day long, you must be very assertive and firm, say that you are not afraid of hardships or something, so that they feel that you have grown up and can make your own decisions.

I'm now applying to study abroad at university, although my mother proposed it, but she asked me to persuade my father myself, the above are the methods she taught me, mainly to let my parents see your determination and independence, I tried, after the mobile phone data and data, I talked to my father about the benefits and development of foreign education (I want to study psychology, but also can only develop a better major abroad), before and after talking about it three or four times, my father was still made sense. If your parents are in business, you can coax them that you can help them develop their company abroad in the future.

However, on the other hand, there is no need to go abroad to study in high school, because the primary basic education in China is still possible, and it is good to go out of college.

What's the rush now, when you get in, I think he'll give you the money. Your task now is to study well.

The post-90s generation is gradually entering the year of establishment. It is gradually taking shape in all walks of life. I have been studying all the way from a small place to the present, and the classmates I know are really from rural areas where birds don't poop to their homes near Tiananmen Square.

Can this difference in origin really be made up?

I think it's almost impossible.

My friends in Beijing have three apartments in Beijing, with assets of at least tens of millions. She is used to the life of a little princess, and she chooses her own work. Everyone in the family has found a good job, as long as you are willing to go, there must be a good job, and you don't have to worry about it at all.

In addition, I have classmates who come from the bottom of the rural area and start their own business in Shenzhen. After graduating from college, he has been working hard for six or seven years, and he has a small asset of 2 million. The problem of houses and cars has been solved, but then there is the problem that parents in rural areas do not have medical insurance and social security, and there are children who are born soon.

It is equivalent to saying that it took the youngest ten years to invest in it all, and the burden is very heavy. And after the age of 30, the physical damage caused by frequent socializing will gradually be revealed.

Someone has always had a parent to help, someone has to start raising a parent.

The difference is really big.

I guess it's been around since ancient times.

It's just that everyone thinks that the college entrance examination seems to be able to change fate and life. It's as if life is a fair game.

Actually, no, classes exist. Classes have always existed.

For only children, there are parents who have not paid medical insurance and social security in rural areas, and now they can only buy commercial insurance, and they can only buy consumer insurance for critical illnesses. The word filial piety becomes a bit heavy.

How can the gap between people and people be so big?

The gap between hard work and non-effort is so big, as a result, I have already relied on my own efforts to start a family, buy a house and buy a car, and I have to continue to face these problems.

Society is really unfair.

I think I'll do my best to help my family, and if my family doesn't help, who else will help? I just have to do what I can and have a clear conscience.

When the family encounters difficulties, they should take the initiative to help, and if they have difficulties in the future, their families will continue to help you, and the heart will be heart-to-heart, heart to heart, and the family will get along in harmony.

I attach importance to family affection, whether it is my mother-in-law's family or my mother's family, as long as the family is in difficulty, I will try to help, the first ten years, my mother-in-law's nephew bought a house and asked me to borrow, I did not hesitate to go to the bank to transfer my more than 200,000 deposits to him, to help him solve his urgent needs, my nephew is very grateful to me, now the house price has risen four times to do a pickpocket, as long as the family and relatives open to me, I can help, it is not easy to become a family, it is fate, I cherish it.

Between people, treat each other with sincerity, sincere pay has a good return, some people will say, pay may not necessarily have a good return, I believe, sincere pay, how much will influence people, for the family to dedicate more, ask for less, each other with a grateful heart, each other are happy. For the help of family members, if it is within the scope of their own ability and within the scope of the law, of course, they must help. I think that's what my dad and his siblings did, and they set a good example for me, and I should learn from them.

My dad has five siblings, and my dad always says that because we are siblings, we should help each other. I think yes, their parents gave them the same life, so that they can become brothers and sisters, it already shows their relationship, in addition to their parents, they are the closest family, if even the closest people are not willing to help, then who will be willing to help them! The only person they can trust should be the person closest to them.

So Hu Gai thought that my family is like this, when someone needs help, everyone will do their best to help, no matter what they encounter, they should understand that there are their relatives by their side, they are never alone.

1.Listen and support: Give them a safe space to talk about their feelings and concerns. It is important to listen sincerely, not to criticize or judge, but to express understanding and support.

2.Encourage professional help: Depression is a clinical disorder that requires professional help. Encourage them to seek help from a counsellor or psychiatrist, and provide help and support to find the right professional.

3.Companionship and care: Depression often makes people feel lonely and disinterested, so companionship and care are very important. Engage in some activities with them that they enjoy or just spend time with them through some sad moments.

4.Encourage participation in an active lifestyle: Help them develop healthy lifestyle habits, such as a regular routine, moderate exercise, and a balanced diet. The state encourages them to participate in meaningful activities such as hobbies, social activities, and artistic creation.

5.Provide practical help: Sometimes, depression can lead to a decrease in an individual's ability and motivation, and we can provide some practical help, such as helping them with life's tasks, providing material support, or finding other viable solutions.

It is important to understand that we cannot ** others alone, but we can be their supporters and companions. If we find that they are suicidal or their condition continues to deteriorate, it is important to seek professional help and support in a timely manner.

As a family, of course, you should be able to help when it is legal. Family, which is a person who is related by blood, usually refers to parents and siblings. Arguably the closest and closest group of people in the world to you.

We live in the world, and we will always encounter all kinds of difficulties, which cannot be solved by ourselves. So we need the help of family and friends. But friends don't necessarily help you unconditionally, and they will have all kinds of concerns.

At this time, family is your last support. In difficult times, the family should support each other, help each other, and never give up.

Of course, if you can help your family, you should also help correctly under the premise of legality. For example, in reality, there are cases where someone who commits a crime and is unwilling to bear legal responsibility, and his family helps him abscond in fear of crime. This kind of behavior is very wrong, and his family thinks that it is good for him to help him escape the punishment of the law, but they don't know that running away makes him never realize his mistakes, and will only go further and further down the wrong road.

In this case, the family should not help him escape, but should persuade him to take the initiative to surrender and cooperate.

In my opinion, as long as it does not violate the law and moral norms, we should be able to help the things that can make the family better.

The family is neatly organized.

If you are financially better, send some money over, this is the most realistic.

If you are really sad or afraid of regret, you can discuss with your family about repeating the third year of junior high school, otherwise you will feel uncomfortable when you think of it in the future, if the family does not agree, but you have fought for it, there will be no regrets, but the premise of these is that you really want to read a book for yourself, in order to go to the future in your heart, otherwise there will be the same result if you repeat it again.

Please test yourself with a few questions:

1 Do you have any specialties of your own?

2 Are you able to excel in your current course?

3 Do you have the ability to change as things come your way?

After I receive your answer, I will give you a more scientific analysis.

Don't be too inferior, it's a good moment! Instead of regretting not being at the beginning, as long as you learn the current one ( °u° ) one book or two books make no difference! Being professional and strong is king!

I think that a family should still be able to help if they have the conditions and can do it, and the reason why I hold this view is mainly based on the following reasons.

First of all, their family is related to their own blood relationship, but also regret that Zen Wang has the closest emotional relationship with the most intimate people, when their family encounters difficulties, they should still try their best to help each other get out of trouble, because in their own growth process, their own family members also give themselves a lot of care and help, even if they do not take these into account, but as long as they have this ability, we should also be able to help if we can, because only in this way can we make our hearts truly down-to-earth and calm.

Of course, for family members, although they can help, but there are also certain conditions and prerequisites, first of all, they really have the ability to help their family members get out of trouble, if they do not have this condition and ability, then not only can they not help the other party, but will make their family members more worried, and on the other hand, for some family members, especially their own peers or juniors, if they do not develop the habit of relying on themselves, but always count on relying on the help of others to survive. So in this case, I personally think that we should not help them, or should cultivate their self-reliance, because it is impossible for anyone to rely on others to survive for a lifetime, and they have no obligation to help each other for a lifetime, even if the other party is their own family.

I think since it's a family, if I can help, I should help my brother. But in reality, this is not the case, because some people are really not suitable for doing this, so it is best to analyze it according to the situation. If you have the ability, you can do it, and if you don't have the ability, it is okay to give spiritual encouragement.

Your family is the closest person, when your family encounters difficulties, you should still try your best to help each other get out of trouble, because in the process of growing up, your family also gives you a lot of care and help, even if you don't take these into account, but as long as you have the ability, we should also be able to help.

Because only in this way can you make your heart truly down-to-earth and calm. For family members, although they can help, but there are certain conditions and prerequisites, first of all, they really have the ability to help their families get out of trouble, if they do not have this condition and ability, then they will not be able to help each other if they do not change, but will make their families more worried.

For some family members, especially their peers or juniors, if they do not develop to rely on themselves, but always rely on the help of others to survive, then in this case, I personally think that they should not help them, or should cultivate their self-reliance, because it is impossible for anyone to rely on others to survive for a lifetime, and they have no obligation to help each other for a lifetime, even if the other party is their own family.