Do you have a friendship of more than 10 years, share it!

A good friend for more than 10 years, it is really a very good friend, basically a small level, two people grew up together, it is really not easy for people in their twenties and thirties to have friends for more than 10 years, because the circle of friends is not so wide.

My hair should be known to me before I went to kindergarten, because the two people are not neighbors, but they live very close, often play together, and have been together for nearly 20 years, although the two people go in different directions in life, for example, I continued to choose to go to school, he chose to drop out, basically he did not continue to enter social work in high school, but the relationship between the two people is still very good when they usually meet together, one goes out to eat, one goes out to drink, Or go to an Internet café to play games, after all, after nearly 20 years of getting along, two people know each other's preferences very well, and understand each other's strengths and weaknesses.

People should have some friends who have a good relationship in this life, friends who still exist across time, two people understand, and even say that they know more than each other's parents in some aspects, because two people are usually together, and there may be a certain distance due to changes in life circumstances, because no one can guarantee that friends will always be together, but real friends, even if they meet again after a relatively long period of time after separation, they are still the kind of intimate relationship that they had at the beginning, and this kind of friend is very important. We can share happiness when we are happy, and we can share pain when we are unhappy.

The more I grow up, the more I understand friendship, family affection, and social relationships when I was young.

Including the preciousness of the big environment, because the more you grow up, the more you know the complexity of human nature, and you are careful to make friends, you are in contact little by little, and it takes a long time to be able to know what kind of person the other party is, but when you are young, it is very simple, as long as I have two pieces of sugar to give you a piece, then we are friends, and maybe the change in age will bring about a change in the way we get along.

It's not easy to keep it for 10 years. I don't think I'm a mean person, I don't pick and choose, I never pretend to have a bad signal when I pay for dinner, and I also have some friends who have a good relationship at every stage of my life. But it is often difficult to experience the passage of time and the change of residence, and over time there is nothing to say, and gradually degenerate into friends in the circle of friends, and it is disturbing to look for them when I am on a business trip.

This can be an embarrassment for a small-town youth like me. The location of my school was always changing, I moved around in China, and as soon as I graduated, I left, and my friends stayed in the local area. I finally graduated from graduate school, and finally stayed in the local area to work, but almost all the familiar classmates went to other places, and now I go back to my alma mater, and I don't even find someone to invite me to the cafeteria to swipe my meal card.

It's very helpless. The threshold for friends is sometimes very low, and it is actually okay to see each other, have something to talk about, have some overlapping interests, have a common life circle, etc. But it is very difficult to maintain a long-term friendship, that is, after all the above factors are removed, you can still maintain your appreciation for a person's essence and be willing to contact for a long time, which is actually a great test of people's soul compatibility and luck.