Is first love real love, and is first love true love?

The first time is always hard to forget, difficult to give up, difficult to give up, all the same!

First love is beautiful and fragile in the eyes of most people, because it is the first time to understand and like a person, and the feeling of heartbeat makes you feel particularly beautiful, but if you want this heartbeat to be maintained, it is affected by many factors, so the first love talks about the last very little, most of them are separated for one reason or another in the process of maintaining this heartbeat, and many of those who stick to the end are couples who fit from appearance to three views and can overcome the influence of other factors.

True love. Because I myself am a person who has not broken up with my first love for almost nine years now, and I have also seen many couples around me who have talked about marriage from their first love, from my love feelings and their experience, I think there are probably the following three reasons for the first love to finally break up:

1. Just being attracted by the other person's appearance.

Many men and women who love for the first time look at each other's appearance, he is so handsome, she is so beautiful is the reason why two people are in love, because for this reason, couples who are in love are easily attracted to other people of the opposite sex who look good, and because of each other's appearance, it will be difficult for each other to stand each other after Feng Sakura walks off the altar, because all kinds of life are more firewood, rice, oil and salt, and beauty cannot be eaten, so it leads to each other can't stand the vulgarity of the other party in reality and break up, so the first love makes people feel so beautiful and so fragile, Shatter with one blow.

It starts with the look. There is too much difference between the second and third views.

Many couples don't feel it when they first fall in love, and after a long time, they find that each other has various problems that make them unbearable, such as the consumption concept of money is very different, some spend money lavishly, some spend money to pick and search, some have different attitudes towards life, some like to get by, and some have high requirements for their own lives, which leads to couples quarreling all day long because of these little things, and the idea of breaking up after a long time comes out. Therefore, it is easy to stick to the first love, and it is because it is too difficult to find someone who is in line with their three views at the beginning, and many people find the right person after many times of love.

The three views do not agree. 3. The time and place are wrong.

Finally, the first love object not only meets their own aesthetics in appearance, but also matches their own aesthetics in three views, often many of them break up because in the process of falling in love, because the time and place of love are not right, such as a friend of mine in college, and her boyfriend talked in college for more than three years, and finally wanted to go back to his hometown because he graduated and looked for a job, but his hometown was not in the same place, and finally ended in a breakup. It's all about graduation season.

First love is beautiful and fragile in the eyes of most people, because it is the first time you understand and like a person, and the feeling of heartbeat makes you feel particularly beautiful, but if you want this heartbeat to be maintained, it is affected by many factors, so the first love talks about the last very little, most of them are separated for one reason or another in the process of maintaining this heartbeat, and many of those who stick to the end are couples who are compatible from appearance to three views and can overcome the influence of other factors.

True love. Because I myself am a person who has not broken up with my first love and has not broken up now, and I have also seen many couples around me who have talked about marriage for their first love, from my love feelings and their experience, I think there are probably the following three reasons for the first love to finally break up:

1. Just being attracted by the other person's appearance.

Many men and women who are in love for the first time look at each other's appearance, he is so handsome, she is so beautiful is the reason why two people fall in love, because for this reason, couples who are in love are easily attracted to other people of the opposite sex who look good, and because of each other's appearance together, it will be difficult for each other to stand each other after they go down the altar, because all kinds of life are more firewood, rice, oil and salt, and beauty cannot be eaten, so it leads to each other not being able to stand the vulgarity of the other party in reality and break up, so the first love makes people feel so beautiful and so fragile, shattered with one blow.

It starts with the look. There is too much difference between the second and third views.

Many couples don't feel it when they first fall in love, and after a long time, they find that each other has various problems that make them unbearable, such as the consumption concept of money is very different, some spend money lavishly, some spend money to pick and search, some have different attitudes towards life, some like to get by, and some have high requirements for their own lives, which leads to couples quarreling all day long because of these little things, and the idea of breaking up after a long time comes out. Therefore, it is easy to stick to the first love, and it is because it is too difficult to find someone who is in line with their three views at the beginning, and many people find the right person after many times of love.

The three views do not agree. 3. The time and place are wrong.

Finally, the first love object not only conforms to their own aesthetics in appearance, but also fits their own couples in terms of three views, often because in the process of falling in love, because the time and place of love are not right and break up, such as a friend of mine in college, and her boyfriend talked in college for more than three years, and finally wanted to go back to his hometown because of graduation and looking for a job, but his hometown was not in the same place, and finally ended in a breakup. It is said that graduation season is breakup season, which is also a bit reasonable. So how difficult it is for first love to last until the end, those cheering ducks who are still holding on like me