I refused to live with my boyfriend, he was a little unhappy, and what would he think if I refused l

I'm a man. I can only tell you. If you don't want to. You have to be sure if your man really loves you.

If only physiologically necessary. But you are also willing to give it to him. I promise you'll regret it. It's too late to wait until the day you regret it. So you still don't give. After cohabitation, there are many contradictions. When there are many contradictions, they will be separated.

So do you still want to be sure that he loves you? Is it really love you? Time is the best proof.

In the end, do I think you really love him?

If you don't like it, leave immediately. In the end, it's you who will hurt you.

Bonus points. Hee-hee — just kidding!

If he is in love with you just to live together to solve his physical needs, then it is better to leave him, if you are still good to you after refusal, and there is no change in feelings, then it is about the same, if it is cold, leave him immediately.

This is normal! If he loves you, he just won't be happy at the time! The back will still be the same for you! Physiological needs are everyone's own! Can't get it when you need it! You'll be upset!

You may be right to reject him, for example, if you don't know him well enough, or because you feel that he can't enter your inner world.

I was rejected, and I was inevitably a little disappointed

If he says anything excessive, I don't need to say anything about how to do it.

It's right to reject him, it's normal for him to be angry now, but it's better not to give it! I will give it when I get married, and I won't necessarily marry him in the future.

Boys who don't know how to cherish and respect girls don't want to.

You don't have to break up, you can communicate well, exchange ideas, and the problem can be solved. In fact, cohabitation is not necessary before marriage. If you don't want to, say no.

People who choose to live together before marriage understand that the most common problems in marriage are the inadaptability of the living habits of both parties, the second is the inadaptability of the personalities of both parties, and the third is the boredom of a long time. Premarital cohabitation can reduce the probability of the first two problems, but it cannot avoid the occurrence of the third problem, so premarital cohabitation is just a test of whether it is suitable to live together.

In either case, the other person has such an idea, and then you change the compromise and go together, and you don't think it's worth much. It will also bring a lot of passivity to you later in life, as you will compromise again and again. If you get married, you will be even more miserable because the contradictions that come with infinite compromise and trivial life can make you stressed.

I think most people get divorced not because of infidelity and other issues of principle, but more because of trivial contradictions. So be careful! Men must respect a woman's sexual autonomy, especially before marriage.

Otherwise, sex will become the only motivation for him to be with you, and for the woman, a happy married life will be lost.

Premarital cohabitation is just a process for two people to get acquainted with each other. Most of the people who can choose to live together before marriage are rational, because their purpose is to test whether they are suitable for living with their other half, so as to avoid marrying the wrong person and resolve conflicts. Only people who can really control their body and mind, know how to give up and cherish, can really live a good life, which needs to be treated rationally, and it is easier to be happy when you are not afraid of losing.

In my opinion, premarital cohabitation can reduce marital conflicts, but reducing does not mean completely avoiding them, so the risk of divorce still exists, but it is much less, so I hope everyone looks at this matter rationally. After all, marriage is not the same as love.

No, you must make it clear to the other party carefully, and make the other party aware that if you live together, it may lead to a worse and worse relationship between the two people, and there may be a particularly serious conflict.

It's up to you to feel it, if you don't like it, you can tell him, if you tell him that he still wants to go his own way and want to live with you, I think it's okay to break up because he doesn't respect you.

It is not right to break up with the other person because the other person did not do what you wanted and he wants to force you to live with him.

Most couples, after dating for a while, will always talk about cohabitation. There will be many reasons to live together, such as: living together can save rent; Living together allows you to get to know each other better; Living together can make the relationship between two people better.

My boyfriend who has been with me for two months wants to live with me, should I refuse? I think it can be analyzed from the following two aspects:

(1) Ask him what is the reason for cohabitation?

The boyfriend has already proposed to live together, so you can ask him directly what is the reason for cohabitation? Look at how he is; See if he is true and reliable; Let's see if he has any plans for your life after you live together. If he is very perfunctory, or does not satisfy you very much, then consider not cohabiting for a while.

On the contrary, if he is sincere and has a certain plan for your cohabitation life, then you can consider cohabitation.

Be sure to follow your heart, don't do things you don't like, even in relationships, and don't force yourself casually.

(2) What is the root cause of cohabitation?

The question of cohabitation bothers you a lot, and there must be some factors. You can try to ask yourself what is the root of your struggles? Find this root cause, and communicate with your boyfriend to solve this root cause, then the question of cohabitation or non-living will not bother you.

Therefore, when you are entangled in a problem, you can often choose to communicate directly with the other party and solve the problem, so that you will not be troubled by this problem.

The above is what I think: my boyfriend who has been with me for two months wants to live with me, should I refuse his two suggestions. In fact, the focus is on the communication between the two!

It should be denied. Because the two of you have only been together for two months, there is no need to live with each other, you should decisively refuse, and you must protect yourself as a girl.

I think your boyfriend is pretentious, don't want such a man, you still have to figure out whether to continue to be together, because after you are at home with a husband and children, he will definitely give you a good look.

He still has a temper, why, living together before marriage is to bury a thunder in the marriage, break up, I don't know that men who respect women are scum.

This kind of person can also have a girlfriend, or vice president, a proper Bai Fumei. I don't know what this brother thinks, the ancestral grave is smoking. It is recommended that you be independent, the social status does not match, he is still your subordinate, who knows what he is thinking, is Lin sick enough for you to be vigilant.

Then consider breaking up, in fact, the two of you are not suitable, you are a very self-motivated person, he is the kind of person who can get by with what he encounters, and he is completely two kinds of people who hate each other.

Whatever he does, as long as you don't want to do things in your heart, just because he has a temper and agrees, your boyfriend can't get used to it.

Your boyfriend has a temper tantrum, just to take advantage of you, not to love you, and if he loves you, he should respect your decision.

It's better not to live with your boyfriend, you've been together for five years, and it's better to live together when you're married. Don't quit your job for your boyfriend, you must have your own career.

If you don't agree to his request, there's no need to live together, and if you break up with him, your boyfriend will panic. Because your job is earned by your hard work step by step, and your boyfriend's behavior is selfish and selfish, and you want to get something for nothing, this kind of man is not worth it.