Our parents keep refusing us to marry on the grounds that our girlfriend is short, what should we do

Updated on psychology 2024-07-18
10 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-13

    If you don't have this concern, I hope you will show your parents that you are determined not to marry her. Your parents will slowly understand you and accept her. If you're shaken too, divide it early. This hurts girls too much.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    I am 184 and the other half is 154 (she insists she is 156). My family wasn't happy at first, but it would be nice to stick with it. I have to say that my family is still quite open-minded, and from beginning to end, they only euphemistically expressed their dissatisfaction with her height, and did not stop it.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    Don't quarrel, even if you win now, there will be problems in the future. It feels more reliable subtly, and try not to talk about her in front of your parents when you are on the cusp. When you calm down, you can occasionally lift it and slowly infiltrate.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    The person I love deeply, I will never let go no matter what, in my eyes love is stronger than family affection, and the person who identifies it is not casual to let go. If the woman is willing to stay up with me (a girl's youth is very precious), I will keep going. Wouldn't it be nice for the two of us to live our own lives away from our parents.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    I had a classmate whose mother disagreed with her boyfriend because he was shorter than my classmate. She never quarreled with her mother, just listened, fell in love or talked, and after so many years (about three or four years) listened to her, although her mother still disagreed, but she was not so resolute, and she would almost get the certificate next year.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    My mom used to dislike my girlfriend's height, and after I communicated with her, I found out that it wasn't. So don't give up easily, it's unfair to both you and her. Is the family's opposition why, is it really that she thinks she is short, or is there something else.

    If you really think that being short is the biggest problem, then it's really not a problem, today's children are all growing so tall, and now the society is different, they have to eat everything, and they often go to activities. Hello should communicate well with your parents, and the most important thing now is to reassure your family.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    I've been with my girlfriend for 7 years, since I started high school, and now I just graduated, and our relationship has always been good, and our personalities are also very compatible, and then my parents have been unable to accept her, thinking that she is short (a little more than 1.5 meters), and then feeling that her family is not enough to match the family and so on, all kinds of unreasonable difficulties. In fact, they have quarreled several times before, and they have been delaying with me all the time, and now they want to use this tactic against us, but they just don't see her anyway. Is there any other way than to get the certificate yourself?

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    153 Passing by, he first saw that his parents must wear high heels, and then he wrote a letter to his parents who objected, to the effect that I like her, and that your opinion as a parent is very important to me, and I hope that you also like her, and that the modern living conditions are good, and the genetic factor is getting smaller and smaller. And I'm just going to take this bite, let me divide it and find a small one. If this girl were 165 tall, she wouldn't have taken a fancy to me.

    His parents accepted it temporarily, and I turned on the tail wagging mode, and took the initiative to wash the dishes and ask for warm holiday gifts. They couldn't find anything else wrong and didn't say anything. On his mother's birthday, he gave her an iPad engraved with blessings.

    His father said that he was really envious, and immediately sent one too. After a long time, I finally got recognized.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    If I were you, I love my girlfriend very much, I will marry him, and I don't care if she loves me at the wedding ceremony, time will dilute everything with my parents, and you will always be their son, which can't change.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Don't quarrel. Be honest and say, "I know you're good for me." And: "I hope you believe she's fine." And: "I know what I want" and finally: "She and I will be filial to you all your life in return for the fulfillment of beauty".

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