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Objectively speaking, you are both adults, and you should not ask each other's parents to give you anything, as for what your parents voluntarily give, it is another matter, so you should not be angry that his parents did not pay off the mortgage for you, and no one has the obligation to raise their children and help them support the family, as for the economic problems between the two of you, it is that he divides the money who earns too clearly, this is his problem, because since you are married, you are all working together for this family, if you want to divide it so clearly, why get married, It's better to fall in love for a lifetime, so that the finances must be independent, I don't know if he is a fan of money or he doesn't love you as much as you think, because it is impossible to be heartbroken to spend money on the person you love under the premise of having the financial ability, just like you will not be stingy to buy anything for him, I think the big problem is these two points, as for whether it can be solved, it depends on your ability.
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Most marriages are like this.
Unless your husband is very capable and can earn a lot of money. Otherwise, there will definitely be quarrels with firewood, rice, oil and salt!
Many men don't know that firewood, rice, oil, and salt are expensive. Like my dad.
He used to say to my mother, "Where did you save all your money?" If you want to use it, it's gone. ”
He also doesn't want to think about how much he spends on smoking and drinking, and how much does it cost to pay for utilities? How much does it cost to raise two children?
My mom's salary was higher than my dad's, but she ended up being higher than my dad. Because, if you don't earn more, it's not a question of whether you have saved money, but whether you can use it. Chinese men, alas, it's really hard to say!
It's often a shame!
I think if you don't have children, you can consider returning your salary card to your husband and letting him live with him. Cold treatment for a while. In this way, he will seriously consider how much money he can save in a month.
Don't be afraid to stay away. If you want to change your current state, you have to put yourself to death and come back to life.
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In fact, these are all small episodes in life, don't worry too much, don't care too much, everything is together because of love.
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Earn more by yourself, all problems are solved, and women don't have to rely on men.
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The first floor is such a man, haha. So excited.
But I want to ask the downstairs owner how you met before marriage. Getting married not ready? Didn't communicate before marriage?
Since they are all planning to get married, they are still quarreling about these things, and there are many of them, and it is too late to say this, what to do if this is not easy to say, good luck.
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Listen to me!! Give him a slap in the face!! By the way, you weren't like this before!! Shedding tears!! I am making up one more sentence!! I like you before!! He must feel sorry for you!! Feel it!!
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Won't you be considerate of him?
Why do you say he's not?
Nor do I take a mirror to look at myself.
What do you look like?
Your boyfriend is really unlucky to marry you.
He asked for his salary card back, and you forced him to do so.
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It's too normal to live a life, don't make a fuss.
Implement the AA system.
Cryogenic treatment. Worst: Separated.
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Find a suitable time and place to talk.
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Every family has a scripture that is difficult to read, hey, why use money to talk about feelings.
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The first floor is your husband, so excited.
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