What should I do if I am married and don t want to go to work and sleep at home when I am in my thir

Then take a break for a while, and when the burnout period is over, you will want to go to work.

You should improve yourself, so you have to have confidence in yourself, so get rid of this problem of sleeping at home, and persistence is victory.

Under normal circumstances, I don't want to go to work, because I am too tired, because the company atmosphere is not good, because I have a bad relationship with my leaders and colleagues, because the salary is too low, because I am too far away from home, and because the leader deliberately makes trouble for myself...Depending on the reason you have, find the cause and start to solve it.

You are a very irresponsible husband, since you are married, you have to take on the responsibility of supporting the family, how can you say that you don't want to go to work and don't go to work? Everyone wants to lie down and not work, waiting for Yilai to open their mouths....But if you think about it like this, can you still live your life? When you are married, you must have dedication and responsibility, so that you will not forget your husband.

You may need to take a break, and after you have recuperated your spirits, you will be better able to devote yourself to your work.

No one wants to go to work, they are motivated only when they are under pressure, they don't give him food, they don't give him drink, they don't give anything, and they automatically go to work.

You're not right, your 30s are the time to make money. Can't be idle at home.

Congratulations, you've become a scrap. Fortunately, you have the capital to gnaw on the old, or have a good wife, which is your blessing. But good fortune will not last forever, please cherish yourself.

I don't know if you have children, can you sleep for a lifetime? People still have to eat, if you don't work, then you have food, if you don't work, what about your wife and children, you have to live and go to school, so how can the money come from?

If the family conditions are good, who is willing to work hard, just because we have no conditions, so we should work hard to make money.

Brother, has your wife been working outside the home before? How many years? What is her life like in her mother's house?

Have you learned? Judging by your description, it is very similar to the situation we are in now. At the age of fifteen or sixteen, he rarely stayed at home when he went to school, and after graduation, his wife worked outside for four or five years, and the salary was not bad.

Stay at home and stay at home You say this just to find a reason to continue to be lazy, right, I'll give it to you.

Wait for the wife to mention divorce.

Then a person starves to death at home.

Habits are formed, which means that you are already inert. The more you do that. The more I sleep, the more I don't want to go to work for a long time, and I don't want to go to work.

If you are a man, you have to take on your responsibilities and take care of the family. Thirty years old. What are you doing?

Is it consuming your life? That's when you should take on your manly responsibilities. Otherwise, a family will be broken up because of your mentality.

The more you stay at home, the less you want to go out to work. This way you will form a habit. Lazy habits.

Why bother, even if you find a lower salary, at least reduce it for the family. A little burden. Otherwise, it will go on like this.

Who wants to follow you? I'm not afraid that you don't have money, I'm afraid that you don't have a sense of responsibility and responsibility. A man does it all.

Is that still called a man?

Not being aware of their responsibilities and being clear about their family responsibilities.

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This kind of person has no sense of responsibility in his heart, and his peers are already married and have children. And he's still being raised by his parents. Ordinary people will feel embarrassed and embarrassed, but this kind of person will not, he will only think that this is what his parents should do for him, maybe his parents have not educated them since they were young, but this cannot be a reason for them to indulge themselves like this.

It is said that men stand at thirty, and this age should be the age of hard work, working hard for life, working hard for dreams, and working hard for family. In fact, most of these people are boys, so the word Ma Bao Male or giant baby appeared. These people look like they're thirty years old, but they're still not grown up, and they're still like children at heart.

Or that their hearts are fragile, fragile and can't afford a little frustration. Although they are adults, they do not take on the role of an adult, and they do not take on the responsibilities of an adult. In their minds, they are afraid of taking responsibility, and because they are afraid of these responsibilities, they will not learn to take on the responsibilities of these adults.

Many times they are very selfish, thinking only about themselves in what they do, and only thinking about their big mood and pros and cons. In fact, everyone has a hard time, and if you live a carefree life, someone must have borne these hardships for you. Ma Bao Nan can only really grow up when he realizes that these responsibilities are on his body.

Not wanting to go to work at the age of 30 is a terrible thing, which shows that your parents are almost old age, but they can't stop and fight for you.

The city routine is deep, and I want to go back to the countryside. That's what they think in their hearts. The society is too realistic, they hide themselves under the wings of their parents and enjoy their own small life, anyway, sooner or later, their parents still have to give themselves food and buy clothes for themselves.

Nowadays, there are more and more young people who like to take the family to gnaw at the old. Many people play games at home, chat online, and sleep in addition to eating. Parents work outside all day, and when they come home, they have to cook for their children in their thirties.

There is a relative's son who is like this, and now he is 32 years old, and he has not worked properly since he graduated, and he goes to work today and does not go to work tomorrow, and his job has changed a lot. The temper is still very short-tempered, and he doesn't look for a girlfriend, he just stays at home, or goes out to rent a house by himself, and when he has no money, he goes home and asks his parents.

Recently, playing games and smoking at home every day, making the room smoky, as soon as I asked him how his work was, he said that he was training, auditing, in short, he couldn't officially go to work. The family found a job for money, he said that he made little money and had a slow upside, and then he resigned without saying a word to his family.

Now I wear shorts and play games at home all day, and I was always confused for a while, and when I went to the hospital for an examination, I said that this young man should exercise, and he can't stay like this, otherwise he will get sick.

Everyone also thinks that 32 years old is also a good age, hurry up and struggle for a few years, find a good daughter-in-law, and use money to buy a house in the family. When the time comes, it will be complete to have a child, but people don't listen, they feel that it is too tiring to support a family, and now it is good for their parents to raise themselves.

For this kind of person, I feel very terrible and very sad.

The scary thing is that there are such people in this world?! According to the thinking of normal people, if you have hands and feet, you can study, or when you are an adult and don't want to study, you should come out to work in society. Let's not talk about how good you want to mix, how decent you are, at the very least, you have to work first, and support yourself first.

When you are an adult, you should be obliged to come out to work, support yourself, and support your parents in the future! A person in his 30s doesn't even go to work, stays at home, eats and waits for death?! Gnawing at home, and it is a young and strong period for a man like 30 years old, it is the best period to work hard and create a career.

If there really is such a person, I really think it is very scary!

And such people generally have no sense of responsibility, are not self-motivated, and are not responsible! His psychology is also very fragile, and he doesn't want to work hard in person. It's really a very sad person.

I'm like this, I'm thirty years old, and I don't have a proper job, I'm idle, I have nothing to do, and it's a shame to rely on my parents.

Obviously, he didn't want to go in the world at all, and he was forcibly pressed to take half of his "human" life.

This is the reason why life is too stressful, if you enlighten him well, give him hope, and he can be reinvigorated.

I woke up in the morning and slept very well, and I slept well these days, because I had become a brute, thinking about nothing, not thinking about the future, not wanting to live and die, and of course not thinking about work, and it was difficult for people who didn't want to sleep well. I don't want to work, because I'm too lazy to look for it, I have to do a resume, I have to run around, interviews, I feel tired when I think about it, I don't want to fall in love and get married, because I have to date, watch movies, send flowers and gifts on holidays, and I am even more tired when I get married, and I'm too lazy to a certain extent, so to speak, I don't care about anything, I don't have any interest in anything. Surfing the Internet, being in a daze, sleeping, and taking medicine are the rhythm of my life.

You're still not stressed, and you're slowly getting better.

Even if you go to serve the dishes, you can't make your wife and children suffer, uncle, not everyone can survive.

Rely on your own ability to think about it, if you want to go on like this, or fight again, even if you continue to struggle, there is still no money, and no one should blame you.

I am known as the first lazy man in the world, you still have money in your family, and my family is poor jingle.

You can learn makeup and beauty care.

You can buy stinky tofu snacks. The cost is small, and the profit is big.

Anyway, it's very difficult, I'm in a similar situation to you, and I'm only ready to be a nanny, and the confinement lady needs to live in someone else's house and is not used to it, so it's better to try it out on an hourly basis! I don't know how housekeeping service is charged?

Socio-cultural issues are not an issue now.

You can learn the techniques of TCM physiotherapy, and now there are many folk TCM physiotherapy teachers. Works great. You can think about it.

You can learn embroidery, and sell it after embroidery.

Help out at a restaurant near your home.

Beauty makeup is very popular now, or it's good to open your own ** or something.

Small business, or learn beauty,

Go to **, learn to swipe orders, dozens of dollars a day is good, it is time-consuming, nothing else.

It is recommended that you. The babysitter was a nice touch!

If the family conditions allow, I think it is good to open a small supermarket, and it is easy to take care of the children.

Excavators. There is no charge for a one-month trial session.

It's better to find a place to go to it, women don't have to make a lot of money, it's good to have insurance in the future.

Manual processing and something to do at home.

10 years is a threshold, it is normal to have burnout, if the work brings you fun and a sense of accomplishment, you enjoy it, you can naturally be like ten years a day, but if you are burnout, it is okay to slow down or even stop and take a break. It is advisable to take a break for a while, adjust your mentality, think clearly about the direction you want to go next, and then get back on the road.

If you don't go to work and don't deal with people, it's more boring and annoying. If you are tired from work, you can put down your work first, take a break, go to the place you want to go near you, get along with people, and chat with friends who are compatible with you. A thirty-year-old woman with a flower, her life can be full and happy!

If you don't get married, find a rich man to marry, and if you do, you have to work hard.