I m an introverted man and I don t feel too embarrassed to talk to people I don t know.

Don't worry, take your time. I've always been an introvert. Do I want to be an extrovert?

No, I'm proud. Because many of the big stars I admire say that I am a more introverted personality when asked by others, it can be seen that introvert is still a more fashionable word today.

Many introverts want to be more extroverted, because it seems that only extroverts are more suitable for today's society and are more conducive to interacting with others. But in fact, many extroverts also have a lot of dissatisfaction with their personality.

Each personality has its own strengths and weaknesses. Introverts actually have many advantages, such as being conscientious, down-to-earth and steady. Introverts want to be more cheerful, mostly because they are more likely to get along with others and participate in activities more actively, but these are not the "characteristics" of extroverts, they are just accessories of extroverts.

Master the skills of interacting with people, make your enthusiasm bold, and introverts can do the same! So, sometimes it's not.

It is a question of whether personality can be changed, but whether ability can be improved, and I think I don't need to say anything more about the answer to this question at this time.

After the above discussion, I think you may no longer struggle with wanting to change your personality. But you may still be wondering, is your personality set in stone? In fact, we can only say that in a sense, personality can be changed.

For example, a person's personality changes with age or circumstances. But if you want to change your personality in a short period of time, even through psychological ** and counseling, it is not easy.

It can be seen that sometimes we do not need to deliberately change our character, there is no superiority or inferiority in character, as long as we improve our ability and improve our own quality to make up for the shortcomings in some aspect of our character, it is enough to make us impeccable people.

Sit beside them and listen to them while they speak.

At first, you'll be embarrassed to talk, but gradually you'll want to talk to them further.

In fact, your introversion is because of your strangeness, and the way to overcome it is for you to find a compromise to understand others.

I think it's a good way to listen to other people, and it's suitable for you who are introverts, give it a try

First of all, we must figure out why we are socially afraid, on the surface we are afraid of making mistakes and being underestimated, but behind them we are actually not confident. The root cause of lack of self-confidence may be the lack of parental companionship during the growth process, or it may be that the parents are too strict, resulting in their own anxiety and pursuit of perfection. Therefore, it is necessary to sort out the heart, and in severe cases, you can find a doctor or psychological counselor to assist**.

If you want to overcome your social fear, you can usually go to some places with a lot of people and come into contact with people. Also, friends should be cared for and help make new friends. If you want to overcome social fear, you can take it step by step, don't be in a hurry, usually take the initiative to greet friends when you see them, and after a long time, you will form a habit, and then you will slowly overcome it.

Recognize yourself, accept your nervousness and anxiety, and accept the elimination of fear.

In addition, learn to avoid some worries, build self-confidence and reasonable social relationships, actively interact with others, and gradually escape from fear. Exercise more and participate in outdoor group activities. Specifically** should be carried out under the guidance of a professional psychologist, and if necessary, it can be combined with medication**.

It's really not easy for two introverts to get along with each other, because neither of them likes to talk. Don't know what to talk about. At this time, you should find some topics that people are more concerned about or are more interested in.

So that the two of them can communicate. Don't feel embarrassed.

As the saying goes, no one is perfect, introverted boys generally give others the impression of being withdrawn and arrogant, making people feel arrogant, in fact, I understand our kind of people best, just out of inferiority or introverted words, but I am introverted ,..

· I think I, Maslow, am a genius, and I probably felt it very early on, that people are fighting for all kinds of desires, but I didn't know that people's needs were stratified, not only did I not know, but I felt that everyone here didn't know either. The reason why I talk about Maslow's needs theory in my article on avoidant personality is because I want to say one thing, and that is why I say that if there is no such thing as personality...

I still don't have much communication with others, because my personality makes it difficult for me to get along with anyone, even if it's an introvert.

Hello: Maybe it's because introverts don't know what to say, you can try to practice more, talk to others more, and start with people who are close to you.

Summary. I don't know how long you've been with your boyfriend, everyone has their own unique personality traits, some are more extroverted, some are more introverted, and there are no good or bad personalities. Couples only have the character to tolerate and accept each other.

Many people try to change each other after getting married, and as a result, the relationship between husband and wife will go wrong, leading to the possibility of divorce. Therefore, when you fall in love, you find that the other party's personality is particularly unacceptable, and you need to consider whether you are suitable to continue dating.

I'm more introverted, and I don't talk to my boyfriend when I go to his friend's place for dinner, and he always says that I don't talk and I don't fit in! It's all said that it's very introverted and unfamiliar people have nothing to say.

I don't know how long you've been with your boyfriend, everyone has their own unique personality traits, some are more extroverted, some are more introverted, and there are no good or bad personalities. Couples only have the character to tolerate and accept each other. Many people try to change each other after getting married, and as a result, the relationship between husband and wife will go wrong, leading to the possibility of divorce.

Therefore, when you fall in love, you find that the other party's personality is particularly unacceptable, and you need to consider whether you are suitable to continue dating.

Hello, copy.

It's normal for you to have this question, because I'm also in your case, and the words of this situation are in zhi

Psychology is a kind of self-protection, mostly due to the relationship between childhood growth experience, there will be some inferiority complex and lack of some sense of security factors, so we will be very extroverted in front of friends we don't know, because they don't know us deeply, we can chat with them very comfortably.

But after knowing each other for a long time, we will find that it is difficult for us to get along with our own hearts, and we are very worried that we will not be able to do something well, in fact, deep down we will have some inferiority complex, so we will become very introverted.

This is a kind of cause and effect of the experience of growing up, as long as we understand him correctly, recognize the cause of this problem, and then treat it with a positive attitude, we will slowly find a balance in the middle, in fact, there is nothing bad about introversion and extroversion, but we have to find a balance point, make ourselves comfortable, make ourselves comfortable, will make the friends around us feel comfortable.

Because you don't know you don't need to understand your heart deeply, and after you know you, you are afraid that others will understand you, you may have some knots in your heart, in fact, you are resisting the contact between others and you, and it is also a manifestation of distrust of others.

Because everything is unknown, there is no need to think about the past, there is no need to worry about the future.

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People are like this, but it will change after baidu. You look at the one- or two-year-old child is the most obvious, he only likes to talk to acquaintances and play back. This is also answered.

It's because you have scruples in your heart, don't worry too much about talking to strangers, maybe he also wants to know you, saying that the so-called acquaintances are also strangers at first, and the more contact you have, the familiarity. Try hard, you can do it!

You are the opposite of others, the more familiar others are, the more open they are, the less you know you, the more you express yourself