What should I do if I miss my first love?

First love is not love, but a feeling hidden deep in the heart. There is a kind of thing, the more you can't get it, the more you want to take it for yourself, in fact, when you really get it, you will find that what he can't forget is not her, it's just a kind of unwillingness of his own. Have a good mentality, try to think about your future plans, now that you have a child, think more for your child, put all your mind on the child, and don't think about anything.

It's best not to contact again, let him pass the past things, break the thread, and in the end it will hurt not only you, but also your family.

First love is the first love in life, everyone will have a deep memory, often remember, this is a natural reaction, when you think about it. Whether the first love is painful, it is a valuable experience and spiritual wealth on the road of our growth, you must not mistake yourself for often thinking that you often want to love her in the past, and want to be with her, that is, sorry for your wife, this is an illusion, in fact, it is a simple memory reaction, you don't need to feel guilty, you don't want to be angry about your first love is not "perfect", this is unfair to everyone, and there is no need! Think about it if you were really together now, would you really be happy?

Let him pass the past.

The last thing I want to praise you is that you can recognize your mistakes and ask for help here, which shows that you are still as upright, pure, and responsible as you were when you first fell in love, and it also shows that you have adjusted yourself and have taken a solid step towards a normal family life, come on! I wish you a happy family.

My advice to you is:

Don't give yourself too many reasons.

Look at your description. I think you want to give yourself an answer that can take care of both aspects, not to lose your family, and to be able to take a break from the outside.

Friend. I can understand that you have feelings for your ex-girlfriend.

Or you were together at the time and you didn't possess her, I can understand that.

But you're married and have a baby now.

How can you be so irresponsible.

When the break continues, you will suffer from it, and you have seen the butterfly effect.

Think about the future situation where your wives will be separated if this development continues.

When the time comes, it will be even more difficult to recover.

How to say it, this is all in the past, don't be a lover, it's okay to contact occasionally, otherwise it will destroy the two families, the previous one has passed after all, no matter who betrayed whom, it's all over, it's not better to love your wife and children well, why think about an impossible thing!

In fact, many times we live very contradictory, if you don't want to hurt your family, then don't use an ambiguous tone to chat when contacting each other, because it is easy to make people suspicious, and it is even more reasonable and unclear. We may love many people in our lives, and we can't forget many people, so don't forget them. Occasional contact is also allowed!

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No matter how much you think about the things that have passed, it will not come to fruition, so it is better to grasp the present and cherish the people in front of you. I understand your feelings, indeed, first love is an unforgettable thing, and everyone will not easily forget. It's not a fault.

But you can bury it in your heart, as a precipitation, as a memorial. It is a kind of fate for two people to be together, and only if you miss the wrong person, you can meet the right person. You have a happy family, which is equivalent to owning the whole world.

Those ethereal things are gone, just pass. Maybe it's best to go with the flow, time can change everything.

Time will forget everything, so why should you bother yourself? If you look at the girls we chased together in those years, you will understand a lot, a lot...

Since you have chosen the current position, you should let go of the previous relationship, and the brother should think about it.

The man has to pick it up and put it down.

It's good to have some ambiguity in life.

Unforgettable first love often happens in men, and it is not uncommon for women to be troubled by this longing for a long time, so what to do? <>

01Keep yourself busy.

If you feel like your first love really should be forgotten, a good way to do that is to keep yourself busy. Find something you enjoy doing. Arrange your life to the full.

Work hard and let the work fill yourself. You can also travel with good friends. In short, let yourself not have free time to think about him, keep yourself busy, work hard, and make yourself excellent.

02 Confide. Another way is to talk about this longing and find a trustworthy good friend, a girlfriend, a friend who is good at listening. Speak to them.

This will alleviate a lot of unbearable thoughts. Let your suppressed emotions be released well, so that you don't feel so uncomfortable.

03Find new feelings.

If you want to forget quickly, don't think about hanging yourself from a tree all the time, but look ahead. Try to find the next love, maybe the next one is better. You can try to go on a blind date and try to meet new girls.

Maybe you'll meet a better love. Don't dwell on the thoughts of the past and let the new expectations offset the past loves.

04 It's not good to look for him.

In order to forget the first thought, if you really want to forget, you can try to think about his badness, his bad temper, his disrespect, his ugly big lips, his short and tasteless. In short, deliberately thinking about his shortcomings and thinking about his badness will make you miss him less much.

05 Believe that time is the best medicine.

When a relationship has to end, forgetting is an inevitable experience. Believe that time is the best medicine. Everything pales in the face of time. He used to think about it day and night, but in the passage of time, he became blurred and became unimportant.

06Don't forget for the sake of forgetting.

I used to love before, and now I'm breaking up. It doesn't have to be forgotten, it can be seen as a very good memory. The beauty that I have experienced is left in my heart, which is a precious experience and a precious wealth in life.

Life that has been hurt, loved, and tasted is meaningful. So, don't forget and let it be! Have fun.

The past must always let go, don't seal yourself in the past world, and don't hurt the people around you because of fruitless feelings.

Always thinking about your first love, and can't be disturbed, you should learn to let go and give up this relationship. Get in touch with friends of the opposite sex. Try to move on to your next relationship.

Because it's not good for yourself either. Now that the other party has let go, he doesn't have to torture himself anymore.

First of all, you should keep yourself busy, work hard, work hard, and keep your life compact, so that you don't have extra time to think about these emotional problems. Secondly, you can make yourself better, and get in touch with more excellent people and better things, so that you will not just be immersed in the past feelings and cannot extricate yourself. In the end, I believe that time will make you forget him slowly, and you don't need to be particularly deliberate to forget.

I think the best way is to take the initiative to contact the other party, and if there is a condition to get back together, you must get back together.

In fact, after a long time, this is just an obsession, a kind of unwillingness, since there is no possibility for two people, don't interfere too much with each other's lives to make yourself very good, just live a good life.

Leave it to time, one day you will forget, the saddest level in life is love,

Keep yourself busy, as the saying goes, time is the best antidote, you can give this kind of longing to time, you can also find a friend to talk to, and the words buried in your heart are also a way to solve it.

I think you should let go of this relationship and try a new relationship, so that you can get yourself out of this situation.

Then you can consider being friends with him, so that you can always keep an eye on his current situation and not feel embarrassed.

1. Calmly face reality. Frankly admit that you can't forget your first love, and accept your first love calmly.

Second, grasp the principle. Have your own principles that can't affect your first love, and they can't affect your life.

3. Don't regret it. The road back is not the way it used to be.

Fourth, take on the responsibility of the bridge. Remember that it was all in the past, God closed a window for you, but the elimination of mold also opened a door for you.