Ex mother in law, post mother in law, father in law and us for 3 years

I can only tell you that they are not bad, you should be happy, put yourself in the right position, don't always expect too much, say your thoughts without emotion, ask for their opinions in the tone of your elders (but look at what the person says), and you will live happily ever after.

This little sister, in the face of your mood, depends on what you choose, such as the car, the house, the ability of your boyfriend, and his family environment. Then face your own conditions to choose, it is best to choose the ability of your boyfriend, whether you really love each other to consider. FYI, so as not to mislead your youth.

The material aspects are secondary, mainly the relationship between you and your boyfriend. If you don't get married for the house, you can accept your boyfriend's shortcomings, and I don't think it's bad for half a year. You can also start preparing for the wedding first, after all, it will also take a long time, or you can get the certificate first.

If you want to get married, it's easy for both parties to go to the Civil Affairs Bureau to go through the marriage procedures, and you are the ones who are married. If you want to have a car and a house, you can only wait, otherwise you can buy a ready-made one.

I don't know how to understand it, if you are very annoyed with him and think he has a lot of shortcomings, don't rush to get married, try to get along for a while, or marriage is not child's play!

If you really love him, don't think about it so much, since you are still reluctant to part with him, go to him.

It's been a long time, and it doesn't matter if you wait another half a year! As long as you have a good relationship.

Marriage is a matter for the two of you, and your stepmother stands aside.

Then you think about it clearly, this is a lifetime thing.

It's better to communicate more about things at home.

Seeing my mother-in-law so good to me, I am naturally very good to my mother-in-law, I often buy her delicious food, buy clothes and shoes, every time I go shopping, I think of my mother-in-law first, I feel that she is reluctant to wear it, I buy it for her, just two years after marriage, every time I buy something for her, I will show off to my neighbors, which makes me very embarrassed.

Before giving birth, I had some money in my hand, and it costs money everywhere when I have a child, so if you don't help me take care of the child, why should I slander me in front of others, I don't do laundry, the child is crying, I can only coax the child first, it seems that my mother-in-law will never be a mother.

If you have the conditions, try not to live with your in-laws, there are too many things, and the three views are different, there will be more and more contradictions.

If you have the conditions, you really don't want to live together, the three views do not coincide, the living habits are different, and there are many contradictions.

In the end, they will become resentful women, daughters-in-law and in-laws are difficult to get along peacefully, there is always a thorn in their hearts, they don't say it verbally, but they will be suppressed in their hearts, and when they break out, it can seriously lead to divorce.

I think every family is different, some relationships will get better and better, feelings will become deeper and deeper, and some conflicts will intensify, resulting in each other not pleasing to each other in the end.

In the end, it became like a chicken and a chicken, because mother-in-law and daughter-in-law are natural enemies, which is an eternal fact, and the two are often together, and there will definitely be many contradictions.