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Updated on psychology 2024-07-11
36 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    In fact, you don't need to deliberately please you.

    You just find some topics that she is interested in, get to know her from the side, and you will naturally get along well after having a common language.

    Relationships are cultivated in this way, but don't be too deliberate to cater to each other.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    Get in touch with her more.,Start with ordinary friends.,It's better.。。 Don't rush to confess

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    It's okay to ask her out to play.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    You have to see if she is interesting to you, tooIf you feel that you are calling each other, and you have some contact, and you have obviously received hints from the other party, you can choose to confess.

    But if you don't know each other and don't know each other, it's too abrupt to confess. In general, girls may be out of a sense of protection and refuse. So it's best to inquire about her through various channels first, find a way to contact her, send text messages to chat about QQ and the like, and then invite her out to eat or play with her, but remember to keep a proper distance, reflect the gentlemanly and considerate of the boy, and also observe her reaction and think more about her needs.

    If she explicitly declines your invitation, don't be stalking, and if she shows a hint of uncertainty, you can help her overcome her uncertainty and ultimately achieve the purpose of the invitation.

    Then I usually care more about her, praise her more!(But also pay attention to the wording of praise, not too cliché or too fake, try to be sincere) Girls are auditory animals, so the most favorite thing to listen to is the praise of boys.

    Be a good listener and give her support and help when appropriate. Remember every word she says.

    If you can do these little things well, she will definitely be tempted!

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Try to get closer slowly first and see if she is interesting to you If it is not interesting, then it will be in vain First test little by little When you confirm that she is also interesting to you, send her something practical or something and then slowly tell her Some girls don't like it Too directly to say that they like the feeling of being separated I like you and don't dare to say that I always want to be with you Okay, don't say more, good luck.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    First of all, you should know whether the girl has a good impression of you, if not, I advise you to wait, be patient with her, and wait until you are a little sure before you shoot, so that the effect of pushing the boat down the river may be better, if you are rejected The relationship between two people will become very rigid, this is a point, If you are sure in your heart, you should boldly explain to her that you should find an appropriate time, in fact, it is not deliberately to say anything, Sometimes girls stammer when they see a boy confessing, and maybe they think you're very innocent and don't have any bad thoughts. Go with the flow, good luck

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    How old are you! Say it! Otherwise, I can't say!

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Confession or something, the most useless.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    It depends on what she likes to do what she likes.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Since ancient times, confession has been more white", although it is a big reason to score, but confession is still needed, and people who fall in love gradually need a new idea. Many confessions are rejected, not because of how much you can make the other person offended, but because of the wrong way of confession, which makes them disgusted. Girls are so weird, they will laugh at fifty steps and laugh at a hundred steps, and they will hate the house and Wu, so your confession method is disgusting, so I'm tired of it.

    Confession is not a hot brain, just say "I like you so much", you must not do this before confessing, not only will it not be successful, but it will also make the girl bored.

    I didn't receive a hint from the establishment of the girl

    Confession is the last rush, and the two of you have indeed formed a relationship, and you can clearly feel it. In such a situation, the pass rate of your confession can be much greater. Originally, the girl became very cold in the usual small talk with you, but she still insisted on going her own way and wanted to gamble, so of course the result was not good.

    Confess in a public place

    This kind of situation is more common during college, consider the downstairs of the dormitory, surround a group of people, put up speakers, and shout at the throat. Is that messy? In fact, girls will be disgusted with such methods, and in most cases, girls will agree just to save your face, and then talk about clear separation later.

    Don't really use such a vulgar approach.

    Don't do a good job of foreshadowing

    You see that there will always be such a picture in the play, where the boy will hide the diamond ring in the birthday cake or red wine, so that the girl will be surprised, which is a kind of foreshadowing. Confession also has to have a foreshadowing, such as in what kind of love and atmosphere, for example, how to express it without looking stiff, this is all to think about, you don't have to say it face-to-face, dry, not smooth at all.

    The joy of early overdraft

    No matter how confident you are, don't show your pleasure until the last minute. In life, these things that we usually think are very masterful can end up unexpected. And the greater the hope, the greater the disappointment, and the more pain you can suffer after failure.

    In addition, some people have already made it known when they are about to confess, so there are no surprises to talk about.

    Didn't think about dealing with the aftermath

    No matter how confident you are, you need to think about what will not work, and everything is about "doing your best and preparing for the worst". If it doesn't work out, what can you do in a guess? You have to think clearly first, how to say it after failure is not easy for you to be embarrassed, draw a point for yourself that is not bad, and leave a good impression on the girl.

    Two people who love each other are really in love, no matter how you confess, it's just one way, you feel free to say "let's be together without clothes", and the other party will hold your hand. Therefore, no matter how good things like emotions are, it still depends on fate.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Before confessing, never mention other girls to her or compare her to others.

  12. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    If you ask the girl where we are going and what we are going to do when you go out on an appointment, it will make the female student very disgusted. Because girls will want you to ask me out for a loss, and ask me where to go.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    First of all, you don't force the other person to agree to you, or say that some of the words you confess are threatening without any code. There is also Chi Shi, don't let the other party be disgusted with your staring.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Don't feel afraid to face her after failure, let's get along like a friend, if you run away from her because of failure, it will make the girl feel very embarrassed, and you don't need to force it, just get along naturally.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    After the confession failed, I must have felt very uncomfortable. But in order to save face, you must turn a blind eye to this girl, pretend not to be heartbroken at all, and get along with her plainly.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    The mentality should be more subtle, after all, it is a girl who has confessed herself, it is best to stay away, so as not to embarrass each other.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    I think it's normal to confess your failure to a girl, just face it with a normal attitude, get along with him as if you were a friend, and then slowly get to know him.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    After failing to confess to the girl you like, it's good to treat her with a normal heart, be generous, and girls prefer boys who are generous and generous.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    After failing, it's better to have as little direct contact with her as possible, but don't feel that this is a shameful thing, you can also be a friend, maybe there will be a surprise one day.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    You just need to be normal, how you got along before, and how you will get along in the future, but don't get too close.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Two scenarios. First, if there is still hope, keep fighting and stay calm. Second, if there is really little hope, we must resolutely give up and do not have illusions. In short, it is necessary to have basic sanity. If you lose your mind, it's completely finished.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    In response to this problem, my personal opinion is: when you confess your failure to a girl, first of all, we should think about what our shortcomings led to the failure, and we should maintain a friendly attitude towards her when facing her, on the other hand, we can adjust according to the cause of the problem, and meet her requirements and obtain her consent, even if we can't be with her, we should treat her as a friend, treat her with a calm mind in life, treat her as our ordinary friend, even if we can't be a lover, You can also be friends with her.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    You still have to have a positive attitude to face him, because even if it is normal for the other party to reject you, it does not mean that you are bad, it just means that she may have someone in her heart, or that it is not suitable for you.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    A direct goodbye to failure is best.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    Got through the friends and relatives around the girl This is amazing. It can only disgust the girl. Take your time.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    Take it easy. If the girl he likes is very good, the child will slowly impress her.

    If you don't think your brother deserves that girl. It's up to you.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    Well, it depends on the situation, depending on her performance, if it's a special annoying for you, then forget it.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    She's hesitating, she doesn't like you, but she's afraid she'll compromise if you're too good to her. If you want to be with her, continue to be nice to her.

    But I personally suggest that you don't treat her well, if she is with you just because you are good to her, then one day you will not be so good to her There will be a lot of contradictions, and you will still be sad at that time.

    Of course, I wish you happiness!

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    When any girl is being chased, her psychology is very complicated. She may be happy, but she is a little scared, she has an ambivalence about this boy who has broken into her peaceful life, she doesn't mean to. Don't think she's testing you, she's actually struggling with herself, and she's afraid of getting hurt.

    Don't be afraid that your initiative will bring her disgust, if you don't take the initiative, she won't take the initiative, and it will slowly fade away.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    Change your goals, she doesn't like you.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    Two options:

    1. Desperate pursuit, stalking.

    2. Give up. She hasn't found a boyfriend yet, so you still have a chance, but, if she already has a boyfriend, advise you to let it go, after all, it's you who missed it first...

    Girls like duplicity, on the surface they say that they have to study hard, and if you don't listen to advice, you will be very angry, but in the heart they are very sweet and happy.

    Also, chasing girls, the people around her also have to have a good relationship, just like if her roommate had sent you a text message to tell her about her state at the time, you might have already been in and out of the right way, didn't you?

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    Even if it's wrong, I'm just afraid of missing it Insist, if she really wants that ruthlessness, you said I want love, not friendship. Send you a song Don't ask me who I am - Zhao Jianhua.

    Never said who he loved.

    For whom are you haggard.

    Never thought about it right.

    My eyes were full of exhaustion.

    I always feel so tired in the face of myself.

    I also need someone to accompany me.

    Don't break my heart.

    Let me love deep without regrets.

    Actually, I'm not like they say.

    It's so prickly that it's hard to consol.

    The heart of a lover should be free from sin.

    Why do you cry again and again at night?

    Fall asleep with loneliness every day.

    Life is tasteless.

    Don't ask me who I am.

    Please fall in love with me.

    No one can understand my sincerity.

    There aren't many people like me.

    Why bother me.

    Don't ask me who I am.

    Please face me.

    Look at the tears streaming from the corners of my eyes.

    I'm no different from you.

    But my heart is more likely to break.

    I also need someone to accompany me.

    Don't break my heart.

    Let me love deep without regrets.

    Actually, I'm not like they say.

    It's so prickly that it's hard to consol.

    The heart of a lover should be free from sin.

    Why do you cry again and again at night?

    Fall asleep with loneliness every day.

    Life is tasteless.

    Don't ask me who I am.

    Please fall in love with me.

    No one can understand my sincerity.

    There aren't many people like me.

    Why bother me.

    Don't ask me who I am.

    Please face me.

    Look at the tears streaming from the corners of my eyes.

    I'm no different from you.

    But my heart is more likely to break.

    I'm no different from you.

    But my heart is more likely to break.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    It's a bit difficult for you.,I'm also like December 25th Christmas to confess to her.,But after the confession, she deliberately avoided me.,Didn't reject me head-on.,Later, I asked her friend to say that she refused politely.,I still can't imagine what she thinks.。。。 So I advise you, you also have to learn to be indifferent! The two of them are indifferent, maybe there is still a chance!

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    Forget about her! Maybe she doesn't have a relationship with you! Puppy love isn't necessarily a bad thing, it will make you responsible! I don't quite understand what you mean, but I'm telling you, if you didn't do anything wrong, you don't need to regret it!

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    Since it's all like this, why bother with ...... you still have illusionsI've had this experience too, and then I thought that instead of being alone there and suffering, it's better to face him happily and have no contact in time! It's like God played a joke on you, hehe, she doesn't know how to cherish you, so why bother to play......Do you think it's ......?

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    You're in a similar situation to me. Don't give up, stick to it and find a good time to talk to her alone and touch her heart.

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