Should the child be poor or rich? Why?

Rich raising, because poor raising can easily make children have an inferiority complex, feel inferior, and easy to be introverted.

I always hear the elders say that the poor raise their sons and rich daughters, so that the children raised can become more talented and start a family when they grow up. But in fact, this is not absolute, educating children is not measured by the amount of money, we should pay more attention to the child's inside, understand what the child thinks, see how the child distinguishes between right and wrong, good and evil, point out their shortcomings, praise their advantages, in short, the child's education is a very profound knowledge, parents are open to explore this knowledge.

Before raising children, let's first understand the traditional education methods in our country.

For boys, no matter whether the family conditions at home are good or bad, parents are more harsh on boys, control their pocket money, inhibit their playful nature, and let them understand how difficult life is earlier, which is what parents often call "poor sons". On the contrary, if you give your son more pocket money, they will spend more money, using the money to surf the Internet, drink and smoke, etc., and when he reaches the age when he should start a family, it is difficult for him to develop the nature of taking care of the family.

In contrast, parents will be more doting on their daughters than boys, so that girls know that they are going to marry a more successful man in the future, and they must be willing to spend money on themselves and be good to themselves, because the traditional idea in our country is that women are afraid of marrying the wrong man, and girls do not need to have much ability, as long as they marry a good man, they will have no worries about food and clothing in the future. Personally, I don't think this is true, both men and women should support themselves and get the life they want with their own hands.

In today's society, educating children should not take the education methods of the older generation to educate their children, and should not copy and copy, but should take the essence and eliminate the dross. We should not restrain our children's nature too much, nor indulge them, the most important thing for us as parents is to teach them how to distinguish between right and wrong, good and evil, beautiful and ugly, we must teach them how to make correct judgments, this is the most important thing.

There is a saying that poor boys, rich girls, poor boys let him learn to be independent and strong. Rich girls can make girls not feel inferior and be confident and cheerful.

I think children should be poor. Because poor children will be more self-motivated, and everything will be completed by their own efforts.

Whether poor or rich, raising a child requires careful attention to the child's growth and development, and provides the necessary love, care and support. At the same time, different parenting styles will also have different effects on children's development.

Both poor and rich have their advantages and disadvantages. Poverty raising emphasizes the child's self-reliance and self-management ability, because in a difficult living environment, the child needs to learn to live independently and deal with difficulties. Fuyang pays more attention to the all-round development of children, provides better material and educational conditions, provides more opportunities and resources for children, and helps them better realize the value of self-filial piety.

However, whether it is poor or rich, it is necessary to avoid extremes and carry out appropriate education and cultivation according to the child's personality and needs. At the same time, the family and social environment will also affect the growth of children, so it is necessary for parents and society to work together to provide a good environment for children to grow up.

In short, raising a baby is not simply a matter of being rich or poor, but it is necessary to comprehensively consider the child's personality, needs and environment, provide appropriate education and support, and help the child grow into an independent, confident, responsible and socially responsible adult.

Should the child be poor or rich? This is a classic family education problem, many parents think that boys should be poor, but some children who have been raised by their parents have slapped them in the face. So, what are the characteristics of children who have been raised in poverty?

When you were a child, were you often told by your parents that your family was poor?

1. The child clearly wants something, but he is afraid to say it.

In the supermarket, some children go over to take delicious food when they see it, and parents dare to say whether they buy it or not. But some children obviously like that thing very much, but they don't dare to ask for it, and they think it's too expensive to buy it.

We parents often feel that our children are very sensible in doing so. However, this is actually the inferiority complex in the child's heart. Because the child has low self-esteem, he thinks he doesn't deserve something better.

Even if such a child grows up, he is not willing to invest in himself, and he is often very good to others, but very harsh on himself, how can he live a happy life?

Second, as long as the child uses the money, he will be careful.

When children buy things, they should like it, and they generally don't pay too much attention to the price, because many children don't have a strong concept of money. However, there are also children who have been instilled by their parents more about the importance of money since childhood, and they will be very sensitive when it comes to spending money.

Some children know how old they can choose discounted products in the mall to buy, and they seem to have more eyes on them, but in fact, they are indeed lost too much by the idea of "saving".

3. Children like to be greedy and cheap, and they seem to be very shrewd.

Some children show a particularly shrewd and calculating ability from an early age, such as exchanging their worthless stationery with classmates for more expensive things, or liking to ask others for things, and they are especially satisfied when they get them.

Such shrewdness of children is not a sign of intelligence, but a preference for taking advantage. I like to take advantage of it at a young age, and it will probably be more difficult to communicate with people when I grow up, after all, no one wants to be friends with such a person.

Money is not everything, and it is impossible to do without money. We parents should give our children the correct concept of money, so that they can learn to use money as a tool correctly, so that it can serve us well, instead of being swayed by money.

Personally, I'm in favor of enrichment.

There is no standard answer to the question of whether to raise a baby poor or rich, and the most important thing is to choose according to the specific situation and personal situation.

1.Focus on the needs of children: Whether they are poor or rich, the most important thing is to consider the actual needs of children and give them a healthy, happy and all-round growth environment.

2.The advantages of poor blind and quiet raising: poor raising can make children more independent and self-reliant, exercise adaptability, cultivate the awareness of buried potato saving and pragmatic spirit, etc., which is conducive to cultivating children to become a resilient and resilient person.

3.Advantages of Fuyang: Fuyang can provide children with a more favorable environment and more opportunities, can give children more energy and time to develop their own interests and hobbies, and is conducive to cultivating children's talent and innovative spirit.

Whether it is poor or rich, parents need to implement correct guidance for their children, and let children form correct values through the education and influence of parents.

At the same time, as parents, they should also plan their family income and expenditure within a controllable range to maintain the family's economic stability. The most important thing is to give your child warmth, patience, care and love, so that your child can feel the love of their parents.

I feel poor.

1. Material aspects.

There are many people who think that children are rich and well, and being rich here does not mean that the more money given, the better, but within the range that parents can accept, try to meet the needs of children.

This is because when children are young, they still have no understanding of money, and they do not have a specific concept of wealth. For these children, as long as it is something that brings them happiness, it is good, and it may be that something cheaper is no different from something more expensive in the eyes of the child. So at this time, if the child wants something, but the parents do not buy it, it is likely to make the child feel that the parents do not care for him much, and it will also have some impact on the child's psychology.

Therefore, for children to be rich, it is not that the sails should meet the children's requirements, but that some of them can be satisfied within their own tolerance. Of course, this will also be easy to illuminate the child's personality is more pampered, maybe they think they want what they want, so parents must be filial piety to this degree, you can set some goals for the child, let the child complete and then give the child some rewards.

2. Spiritual.

Everyone is happiest only in childhood, so at this time, we still have to do our best to make our children live well, at least not to let children be inferior to others at the beginning. At the same time, enriching children is not necessarily to be used in materials, but also to enrich children mentally, you can buy more books for children, or a kind of educational toys. Of course, you can also often take your children to the library or science and technology museum, at least to broaden your children's horizons.

In this way, it is still relatively useful to enrich the child mentally.

At the same time, no matter what the education method is, the most fundamental thing is to cultivate the child, so after deciding the method of educating the child, we must guide the child to the good side of this method, and try to avoid the child going to the bad side of these methods. Therefore, the role of parents in this is also very important, not only parents, but also people who guide children well, so no matter how busy they are, they must care about their children, after all, when children are young, parents can directly affect them.

I think whether it is poor or rich, it is necessary to decide according to the actual situation, in fact, it is not important to be poor and rich, what really matters is that as a parent, how do you transmit a correct concept to your child, do not follow a thought of others casually, because each of our children's character and character are different, we will make up for what we lack, don't say that looking at other people's this good, that good, we let him follow to learn, that is not right.

If the conditions in our house are obviously very good, but if the child has to wear tattered clothes and eat chaff vegetables, is this good for him? Definitely not. I think we should educate them more on moral character, and let them grow into people with good three views and kindness.

Don't say that because your family conditions are better, you spoil your children recklessly, there is nothing wrong with spoiling children, but you can't spoil excessively, because excessive spoiling is harm.

I think that's the case, in terms of the habits of life, you should be poor, because if you share it, give him a lot of money, he will spend it indiscriminately after a long time, and it will make him learn badly, and he will always deal with some young people in society, then it is easy to fall into the abyss of sin. But in terms of education, we must be rich, because we must let him have a good posture and a good outlook on life, so that he can get better play in the society in the future, and will make his life go more smoothly.

Of course, spending more money is a good thing, but spending money indiscriminately for children, it is easy for them to have a sense of superiority, among their peers, they may always feel that they are amazing, I can get what you want without effort, so why should I work hard? After a long time, it will make your children lazy and lazy, and they will not work hard, which is not good at all.

Personally, I think it should be poor, because it allows boys to learn to be independent earlier, which is helpful for children's development.

I think boys should be poor because it allows them to learn to be independent and autonomous earlier.

I think children should be rich, and in this way, children will not be deceived by others for a little benefit when they grow up.

I think that as long as you do your best to raise your children, it doesn't matter whether you are poor or rich, as long as your children are safe.

Children should choose to be rich, the biggest difference is that if you choose to be rich, you will invest a lot of money, and the child will become particularly confident.

Rich children for children he will dare to spend money to increase their own value, they are more long-term in some investments, more willing to spend money, and poor children will consider the item when spending money or not practical, will not spend at will.

We must be rich, the children we cultivate are completely different, first of all, the personality is completely different, the personality is also completely different, and the views and views on the same thing are completely different.

I think it's just suitable, if you are poor, your child will be too inferior, and if you are rich, your child will become wasteful and don't know how to be modest.

It should be rich, the difference is that if you choose to be poor, it is particularly easy to cause children to have low self-esteem.