Will you be poor or rich with your children?

From the birth of the child, the parents do not give the child special treatment, and put him in the same ordinary living environment as children of the same age, and the child who grows up in this environment can learn to live independently earlier, so as to adapt to this highly competitive society earlier. Children who grow up in a difficult environment are more aware of human suffering than children who grow up in affluent environments, they are good at understanding the emotions of others, they are more loving, sympathetic and friendly, and babies can integrate into other people's circles more quickly and have more like-minded friends. Most of the rich people live a life of clothes to stretch their hands and food to open their mouths, and they <>

thinks that the conditions at home are very good, and there is no need to do anything for the family and society; Poor children are different, they do not have much material wealth themselves, and they must work hard to realize their dreams. In the process of chasing their dreams, they need to put in a lot of effort, and their sense of responsibility is gradually increasing.

I feel poor.

1. Material aspects.

There are many people who think that children are rich and well, and being rich here does not mean that the more money given, the better, but within the range that parents can accept, try to meet the needs of children.

This is because when children are young, they still have no understanding of money, and they do not have a specific concept of wealth. For these children, as long as it is something that brings them happiness, it is good, and it may be that something cheaper is no different from something more expensive in the eyes of the child. So at this time, if the child wants something, but the parents do not buy it, it is likely to make the child feel that the parents do not care for him much, and it will also have some impact on the child's psychology.

Therefore, for children to be rich, it is not that the sails should meet the children's requirements, but that some of them can be satisfied within their own tolerance. Of course, this will also be easy to illuminate the child's personality is more pampered, maybe they think they want what they want, so parents must be filial piety to this degree, you can set some goals for the child, let the child complete and then give the child some rewards.

2. Spiritual.

Everyone is happiest only in childhood, so at this time, we still have to do our best to make our children live well, at least not to let children be inferior to others at the beginning. At the same time, enriching children is not necessarily to be used in materials, but also to enrich children mentally, you can buy more books for children, or a kind of educational toys. Of course, you can also often take your children to the library or science and technology museum, at least to broaden your children's horizons.

In this way, it is still relatively useful to enrich the child mentally.

At the same time, no matter what the education method is, the most fundamental thing is to cultivate the child, so after deciding the method of educating the child, we must guide the child to the good side of this method, and try to avoid the child going to the bad side of these methods. Therefore, the role of parents in this is also very important, not only parents, but also people who guide children well, so no matter how busy they are, they must care about their children, after all, when children are young, parents can directly affect them.

Children should be rich. From an early age, we should cultivate children's persistence, cultivate children's interests and hobbies, and let children have skills, so that children will be more confident and more productive in the future.

Abundance. In this way, children will be more excellent, more cheerful, more confident, and full of enthusiasm for life.

Should the child be poor or rich? This is a classic family education problem, many parents think that boys should be poor, but some children who have been raised by their parents have slapped them in the face. So, what are the characteristics of children who have been raised in poverty?

When you were a child, were you often told by your parents that your family was poor?

1. The child clearly wants something, but he is afraid to say it.

In the supermarket, some children go over to take delicious food when they see it, and parents dare to say whether they buy it or not. But some children obviously like that thing very much, but they don't dare to ask for it, and they think it's too expensive to buy it.

We parents often feel that our children are very sensible in doing so. However, this is actually the inferiority complex in the child's heart. Because the child has low self-esteem, he thinks he doesn't deserve something better.

Even if such a child grows up, he is not willing to invest in himself, and he is often very good to others, but very harsh on himself, how can he live a happy life?

Second, as long as the child uses the money, he will be careful.

When children buy things, they should like it, and they generally don't pay too much attention to the price, because many children don't have a strong concept of money. However, there are also children who have been instilled by their parents more about the importance of money since childhood, and they will be very sensitive when it comes to spending money.

Some children know how old they can choose discounted products in the mall to buy, and they seem to have more eyes on them, but in fact, they are indeed lost too much by the idea of "saving".

3. Children like to be greedy and cheap, and they seem to be very shrewd.

Some children show a particularly shrewd and calculating ability from an early age, such as exchanging their worthless stationery with classmates for more expensive things, or liking to ask others for things, and they are especially satisfied when they get them.

Such shrewdness of children is not a sign of intelligence, but a preference for taking advantage. I like to take advantage of it at a young age, and it will probably be more difficult to communicate with people when I grow up, after all, no one wants to be friends with such a person.

Money is not everything, and it is impossible to do without money. We parents should give our children the correct concept of money, so that they can learn to use money as a tool correctly, so that it can serve us well, instead of being swayed by money.

Whether poor or rich, raising a child requires careful attention to the child's growth and development, and provides the necessary love, care and support. At the same time, different parenting styles will also have different effects on children's development.

Both poor and rich have their advantages and disadvantages. Poverty raising emphasizes the child's self-reliance and self-management ability, because in a difficult living environment, the child needs to learn to live independently and deal with difficulties. Fuyang pays more attention to the all-round development of children, provides better material and educational conditions, provides more opportunities and resources for children, and helps them better realize the value of self-filial piety.

However, whether it is poor or rich, it is necessary to avoid extremes and carry out appropriate education and cultivation according to the child's personality and needs. At the same time, the family and social environment will also affect the growth of children, so it is necessary for parents and society to work together to provide a good environment for children to grow up.

In short, raising a baby is not simply a matter of being rich or poor, but it is necessary to comprehensively consider the child's personality, needs and environment, provide appropriate education and support, and help the child grow into an independent, confident, responsible and socially responsible adult.

Raising poor children will make it very difficult for everyone in this society, and only learning can change their destiny.

It is okay to raise the child normally according to their own living conditions, so that the child understands his living conditions.

Enriching the spirit and being poor in the material, I think this is the best way to educate.

Personally, I'm in favor of enrichment.

There is no standard answer to the question of whether to raise a baby poor or rich, and the most important thing is to choose according to the specific situation and personal situation.

1.Focus on the needs of children: Whether they are poor or rich, the most important thing is to consider the actual needs of children and give them a healthy, happy and all-round growth environment.

2.The advantages of poor blind and quiet raising: poor raising can make children more independent and self-reliant, exercise adaptability, cultivate the awareness of buried potato saving and pragmatic spirit, etc., which is conducive to cultivating children to become a resilient and resilient person.

3.Advantages of Fuyang: Fuyang can provide children with a more favorable environment and more opportunities, can give children more energy and time to develop their own interests and hobbies, and is conducive to cultivating children's talent and innovative spirit.

Whether it is poor or rich, parents need to implement correct guidance for their children, and let children form correct values through the education and influence of parents.

At the same time, as parents, they should also plan their family income and expenditure within a controllable range to maintain the family's economic stability. The most important thing is to give your child warmth, patience, care and love, so that your child can feel the love of their parents.

I think children should be rich. Because rich children, their vision is better, and they have a good ability to learn knowledge, there will be no serious deviations in the process of learning and growth, and they have their own good learning style.

Children should be nurtured, because this parenting style can make children's horizons broader, and in the process of growing up, they can receive the right way of education, so that children can form good living habits and physique, and their learning ability is more excellent.

Children should neither be rich nor poor, they should truthfully tell the family's economic situation and raise them normally, otherwise the child is prone to inferiority or arrogance. ，