I m going back to my hometown, but it s annoying

Neither career nor money, in fact, it is not suitable for falling in love, because today you should make yourself more concentrated, work harder, and make your life better.

Everyone's life is not smooth sailing, and those who look very glamorous have their troubles behind them. None of them are easy to be human, so try to allow yourself to think about the good aspects of life and not the negative energy. Like you, I also have a lot of helplessness, and the above is my experience.

Everyone will feel very upset about things that can be achieved without working hard, so try to find a way to go back and see, and then come back to work in a full state of mind. Otherwise, both ends will be delayed, and neither will be done well.

Hey, as long as people live, they must have more or less troubles, don't look for troubles, adjust your mentality, and look down on things, so you won't have so troubled things!

Isn't it obvious to refuse if you don't return the confession and go offline, if you don't have money, you will earn money, do what you can, and treat your illness.

Slowly, it will be fine, no one was born with a golden soup spoon, the money is slowly turning, the girlfriend is slowly looking, and life needs to go step by step.

It is true that people live for others in the world, so they must be patient.

When a person has a successful career and can give him a sense of security, the right person will also appear.

Take your time and don't rush.

Love yourself and find your own self-confidence.

The temperature in the office is above zero, the temperature at home is below zero, and the family relationship is not harmonious.

In the eyes of others, I am a person who works hard, because I am always the first to arrive at the company and the last to leave the company. In the eyes of my colleagues, I am a model worker who can give up my time for work, but only I know that I work so hard just to be able to stay in the office for a while. Many people say that the office is cold and unforgiving, but for me, the office is more warm than home.

My relationship with my wife is not good, and if we don't have anything special, we basically don't say a few words a year.

I also feel that our marriage is deformed, two people have no emotional communication with the writer, like strangers, staying in the same room, and feeling uncomfortable every time. If the temperature of the office is comfortable zero, then the temperature at home is definitely below freezing, which makes people feel chilled every minute. That's why I don't want to go home, home is no longer a warm presence for me, and staying at home only makes me feel uncomfortable.

Understand, that's the most important thing. Communicate calmly with your parents and don't start by saying that you don't know me. Think more from your parents' point of view first, and you will understand.

If they still can't communicate with you, then I suggest that you can tell them what you think in a letter and tell them that you understand them and ask them to understand you. I've done this and it works great.

However, with the development of society, people's minds, especially young people, will gradually open up, and some conservative teachings will become pedantic. But parents love their children, and parents hope that their children will not follow their own old paths and not make the same mistakes as themselves, so they tell us not to do this or that. and pinned their unfulfilled wishes on us, let us learn this and that, and become xx talents.

But many things are also they don't understand, the so-called people are soft-spoken, if you want your parents to believe in your point of view, you must first stand up, don't think crookedly, Liwei means that you put forward more opinions in ordinary small things, whether your parents listen to you or not, you have to say it, and then let time prove your right. Be self-reliant about yourself so that you will be trusted by your parents. Your parents don't understand you because you never explained your actions reasonably, and they don't understand you because they think you don't have the ability to distinguish between right and wrong.

Of course, don't think that your parents' views are wrong, you still have a lot to learn in life.

What you have to do is not to start directly with communication, which is basically equivalent to a conversation with a gap of more than 20 years, and they don't understand you and don't understand.

Start with your parents' thoughts, find some examples that are in-depth and can reflect that their thoughts are different from the times, so that they can understand that their thoughts and paths may not be suitable for this era and you. You have to make your parents understand that you have your own path, that you are not a tool for them to continue and satisfy themselves for not doing this. This path requires their support and understanding, not left and right (provided that you are mature enough to avoid or avoid detours).

If the parents are not very stubborn types.

Exercise your own way of life, make yourself mature, mature enough to be able to deal with many problems in your own way and more appropriately. This kind of side makes parents see too much, and they will naturally feel that although your opinion is different from theirs, it is reasonable for you.

If the parents are the kind of people who are quite stubborn and old-fashioned.

Then use coaxing to make them happy on the surface, parents can't be by your side 24 hours a day, you have a lot of time to practice your ideas. In this way, there will be no delay, and it is wrong to deceive, but this is not a deception, it is a way.

If the parents are very motivated types.

Then make yourself better. Let them have a strong love for you, so that most of the time they will be more willing to listen to your point of view and be more willing to care about your troubles. Learn to make trade-offs, don't just advance or retreat, so that parents can also maintain their sense of superiority, and the mood is naturally good.

I think these suggestions may be useful for you, growing up is a long time, but when you grow up, you will feel that there are many regrets in the growth period, in order to not regret in the future, grasp your present.

I used to be rarely with my family, and I didn't care. Temper!

Just get along with your family for a while@!!

We live in this complex, impetuous and materialistic society, and we will inevitably have such and such troubles and exhaustion, which may be life!! So we should think about it, how can we be happy if there are no troubles??? It's just that when you are worried, you must learn to self-regulate and learn to release your boredom and tired emotions!!

It is recommended that you go out for a trip and change to a new environment, which is easy to let yourself jump out of the original environment and circle, easy to release your mind, easy to open your mind, and naturally calm down when thinking about problems;

2. Find good friends to get together, drink and chat, and vent your depressed mood through alcohol, which is also a way of catharsis;

3. Find an exercise to do and persist for a period of time, so that your heart can temporarily forget everything, immerse yourself in sports, and divert your attention, so that it is easier for you to see your own situation more clearly and make correct judgments;

4. Of course, you can also find someone who no one shouts loudly, which may also release your mood;

Of course, everyone's situation is different, and I hope you can find a good adjustment method according to your own situation!!

Finally, I wish you a happy !!

If you want to go home, you can go back, and you can't go back on vacation.

Then go home, home is your haven. Home is your best home, even if you fail outside, it doesn't matter, after resting and recuperating at home, then go out to work hard, I believe you can succeed.