Why are college students from rural areas so anxious?

Economic development varies widely between regions due to regional development differences, as well as differences in income and education between regions.

Just like in the city and the countryside, there is a world of difference, whether it is in the quality of students, in the training of teachers, it is far inferior to in the countryside.

Therefore, there are not many people who grew up in the countryside, and even fewer are admitted to prestigious universities, which is the so-called "poor families can't produce good children".

For some people, they can break through the inability of poor families to cultivate excellent children, but once they enter the school, they will realize the huge gap between themselves and others, which is a kind of frustration.

Why are most rural students not doing well? That's all there is to it.

In the eyes of most people, being able to get into a good school and get a secure job is a good thing in itself.

For many peasant parents, life is so good now, even if they leave the countryside and no longer live in poverty as before.

However, compared with the children in the city, the development of students from the countryside is regular, but it also has certain limitations.

Sometimes, it takes a while to get used to the new environment.

It's not just that, in a rural university, they have a habit of everything around them, more from themselves, from their families, it's a sadness, but that's the truth.

Parents' attention to academics will also have a certain impact on children's psychology, and rural families are not very concerned about children's education, some rural parents feel that reading is meaningless, reading is a waste of time, it is better to do housework.

They don't realize how important it is to "know life", and under the guidance of their parents, they pay less and less attention to their studies, while in the city, parents attach great importance to their children's studies, and even invest in their children at all costs.

Rural families, on the other hand, are under even greater pressure, even if they can earn a good salary through their own efforts, but their income will be spent on supporting their families, making their lives more difficult.

Therefore, college students who come out of the countryside have to think about a lot of problems, and real life is also an obstacle to their growth. Sometimes, even if they have this idea, they have to think about their own family and not just do it.

In order to have a better future and development, poor students must rely on their own strength.

Although "poor families can't produce good children", it doesn't mean that the poor don't have the possibility of "turning over", but they have little support at home, and if they want to turn things around, they must work their own.

For the yearning and pursuit of college, rural families may have a deeper complex than urban families, because for children from rural families, studying for college is a rare opportunity for them to jump out of the farm, as long as they go to college, they will probably not have to continue to be a farmer like their parents.

With the help of university enrollment expansion and student loan policies, many rural children have the opportunity to go to university, and even those with particularly good grades can go to Beijing to study in Qingbei. For rural people, admission to university is a particularly festive and solemn event, and people often hold a feast to announce it to all their relatives.

Moreover, rural people are also particularly concerned about those children who can be admitted to college, if the college student's family is poor, the villagers will spontaneously send money to help him go to college, and many people can raise enough money to study in college because of the help of the villagers, such as Liu Qiangdong.

However, times have changed, and college students are no longer the pride of the sky, and the change comes from the cessation of the college student package distribution policy. In the past, when you went to college, as long as you graduated, you could be assigned a job, and many of them were still public units, so going to college was equivalent to stepping into the public door, and the second half of your life was basically worry-free, and many units would be divided into houses.

However, with the cessation of the package distribution policy, the employment problem of college students has become more and more severe, and they have to rely on themselves to find a job, and the danger of the market has been exposed, and many people who have studied in college are still difficult to find a suitable job. For urban children, in fact, the pressure on this is relatively small, because even if they have no job for the time being, the family can continue to support them, but rural children cannot.

There are many rural students who go to college, and as soon as they set foot on the door of the university, they have already carried a mission, that is, to finish their studies early, come out to work to earn money to support their families, for rural families, they are the saviors of the family, so once they graduate, it is difficult to find a job, it will be very troublesome.

These people who can't help themselves at home, or even have to help their families, will be particularly anxious in the face of the tide of unemployment, and will feel overwhelmed, they urgently need work to make money, but there are few jobs, there are many job seekers, and jobs are so easy to find.

Because our territory in China is very extensive, so in addition to the city is the rural students, the rural students are also very because of our China's status is very broad, that is to say, in addition to the city is the countryside, the rural students are also very large, that is, the resources will be relatively smooth, at this stage, due to the requirements of social equity, more and more students in the rural areas, but also admitted to the university.

The reality is often very cruel, the vast majority of college students come from rural areas, they have not been able to pass the national examination of the single-plank bridge, and there is no family background to support, so they can only rely on their own hands and feet to crawl and move forward.

About ten years ago, there was a phrase "the streets are full of college students" circulated, and today, ten years later, in addition to the fact that college students are still popular, there are also popular words for fighting famous schools and majors.

Some experts even divided the school into three, six, nine and so on, and said that the level of the university basically determines the trajectory of life.

Going to college may not change your fate, but knowledge can really change your fate, it depends on which knowledge you choose and whether you strive for excellence, otherwise you will not change anything even if you go to a postdoctoral fellowship.

It's not useless to go to college, it depends on what you have learned, whether you have learned well enough, otherwise no matter how good the university is, no matter how good the major, if you mix with the university, the university can also kill you.

Finally, the last word: I just graduated from college, I am still young, and I still have the opportunity to change and learn.

I hope that all college students can have their own careers, and I wish all my brothers and sisters a good future.

With the development of science and technology and the popularization of information technology, living conditions in rural areas are no longer as difficult as in the past. Modern facilities and services have made rural life more convenient and comfortable, such as the Internet and express delivery, which allow young people to enjoy the convenience of the city in the countryside.

With the continuous growth of economic development, more and more employment opportunities have emerged in rural areas, and young people can find jobs they like, and at the same time, they can also help rural economic development. In addition, the per capita cost of living in rural areas is much lower than in urban areas, allowing young people to have more freedom and choice.

Although there are many advantages to returning to rural life, for young people living in the city, adapting to the rural lifestyle also requires certain psychological and life adjustments. As well as relatively limited resources in work, social networking, culture, etc., they also need to be mentally prepared and change their living habits.

Overall, it is feasible to choose to return to rural life, but there are new challenges and opportunities to face. Young people can find more value and opportunities from this, and make greater contributions to the development and construction of the rural area.

1.No future.

If you don't have a good college graduate, or have a skill, working outside, you can generally only choose some simple and low-level jobs, basically in the factory or some service industry, many people feel that they have been doing this, there is no room for appreciation, and they can't learn their own skills, and they are getting more and more confused after a long time. A few years later, I will also reach the age of marriage, and the pressure to buy a house will also come, so many people will choose to return home at this time to develop, after all, sooner or later they will come back, hoping to stabilize as soon as possible.

2.High overhead.

The salary in the city is higher, but the corresponding cost of living is also much higher, renting, daily consumption, it can be said that any aspect is every year will have a corresponding **, if the young people who have reached the age of marriage, to consider the marriage or poor Hu wedding bride price to buy a house, and even in the future there are children all added together, only with their own ability there is no way to cope with the high prices in the city, it is difficult to save money.

The house in the city is several times that of my hometown, and it is difficult to realize the dream of buying a house and settling down with my own ability. And the house in my hometown is cheap, and of course the pressure is much less. If you can't save any money in the city all the time, it is equivalent to wasting time, it is better to go back to the countryside as soon as possible to find some work, at least the expenses will be much less.

The respondent had studied in Haidian, Beijing since childhood, and had no clear understanding of the gap between rural and urban educational resources and other resources, so he did not realize that his privilege to study at Tsinghua University depended largely on Beijing's educational resources.

It wasn't until today, when I participated in a volunteer teaching activity in rural Sichuan, that the respondent realized that the educational resources in different regions are very different, so he came to ask this question.

We all know that the gap between rich and poor in different social classes is huge and difficult to balance. If there is no mobility between classes, i.e., class solidification, then the gap between rich and poor will only increase further under the Matthew effect (cf. today's United States).

The most effective way to promote inter-class mobility, provide upward channels for rural people, and prevent class solidification is the college entrance examination. My parents were both admitted to prestigious schools from rural areas and worked in large enterprises, which is a typical example of class change.

Therefore, it is undoubtedly a good opportunity for rural children to enter university through the college entrance examination, both for personal development and for the improvement of family life.

However, as a result of the enrichment of educational resources, it is becoming more and more difficult for rural children to enter prestigious schools through the college entrance examination, and this problem needs to be solved.

There are several main reasons: there are not many factories in Nongkong Xuncun Village, and there are few employment opportunities; Farm work is hard and the income is not very high; The young men have gone out, and they have no company when they go back; Wait a minute.

The biggest obstacle is actually face. A traditional notion that it seems that returning to the countryside is unproductive. When we were children, the most we listened to were:

Read more and read it later. This is not difficult to understand, if parents are in the countryside and know that it is hard to make money in the countryside, they do not fight for this status and have no dignity. But times have changed, and the way of agricultural production and labor has changed a lot compared with before, and there are many ways to create wealth in the countryside.

In reality, many people are not doing well in Beijing, Shanghai and Guangzhou, but they don't dare to go back at all, why? It's too stressful to go back, there is no time to give you a breather, Chinese are very face-heavy, especially after reading, it seems that only working outside is to mix well, and only when you go back can you have dignity.

In fact, this concept should be changed, college students and young people should return to the countryside, use their new thinking to go back to farming, go back to farms, and use the Internet and technology to engage in careers. Remember the last time I went home, I chatted with an uncle, and they were also able to accept these things, the same thing, people with knowledge do really differently.

Of course, whether in the city or in the countryside, you need to sweat and work hard, if you want to be relaxed and rich, you don't have such a good thing.

Going to college is a life-changing way out, but the advantages over other ways are becoming less and less obvious.

In fact, going to university is more of a new possibility for rural students, if they can't go to college normally, then the vast majority of students will go with the crowd to work or learn a trade after junior high school.

This has nothing to do with whether learning is good or bad, anyway, everyone eats and wears the same, and parents are unlikely to have the idea of chicken babies. Even if the child is better than others, he does not value this very much.

Most students graduate from junior high school at the age of 14-15, while in rural areas, it is generally not easy to get married early, and it is generally not easy to drag on to over 25 years old, unless they are going to school outside or something, it is difficult to find the other half of their choice.

Rural parents generally have a sense of responsibility to work for their children, thinking that they can save money for their children as soon as possible to build a house, buy a car, start a family and take care of their children, and everything will come naturally.

If they get along well with each other, then they will get married in a year or two, then their parents will complete a major mission, and then they will look forward to having a baby as soon as possible to see their children, and they can more or less help their children's lives.

But once you go to college, regardless of the quality of the school and major, even if the child is good enough, there is a high probability that you can only stay in the big city, after all, it is unlikely that there will be a suitable job in your hometown.

College students in our country have been free from allocation and housing for decades, even if there are some units with generous treatment and the like, the young couple have to pay a down payment to buy items to enrich their small family.

But most young people are in their twenties after graduation, and with hard expenses such as renting a house and eating, they can't afford to lose much money all year round.

Chinese attach more importance to starting a family and starting a business, and feel that after getting married, you have to live in your own house to feel at ease, but the house price is the same, and will not consider some special circumstances of your individual.

The fathers who faced the loess with their backs to the sky, the so-called "six wallets", could not save a few dollars after their hard work all their lives, and it was difficult to meet the standard of down payment even if they smashed the pot and sold iron.

Correspondingly, the coffin of the father's generation was hollowed out, and the ancestral house where he lived for most of his life changed hands since then.

I finally bought a small square meter house, and suddenly squeezed into three generations of grandparents, uprooted from home, the price is expensive, the life is unfamiliar with the place and the work is tired, and no one is comfortable.

For the children of peasant families who fly out of the poor nest, the class jump in the eyes of outsiders brings a heavier burden to the family. Although there are some talents who can settle in big cities through their own efforts, this is a minority after all, and most people's dreams still require the sacrifice and dedication of their loved ones.