Some parents don t know, what is the wrong way to tease their baby?

Introduction: I believe that every parent loves their baby very much, many parents always like to tease the baby when they get along with the baby, because the baby can not only make the baby happier, but also can be a good way to close the relationship between the baby and the parents, but the way to tease the baby is also varied, it is very important to master a good way, some parents will always use the wrong way when teasing the baby, so what is the wrong way to tease the baby? Next, I will analyze it for you.

This phenomenon, this phenomenon is very common, many parents like to pinch their baby's face, but pinching the baby's face is not good, because the baby's body is very fragile and very sensitive, if you frequently pinch the baby's face, it will hurt the baby's immature tissue, not only will make the baby feel pain, but also is likely to affect the baby's oral and facial structure, so parents in daily life when teasing the baby, do not pinch the baby's face at will.

Many parents always like to say something to scare the baby in daily life, such as throwing the baby out and so on, in fact, this is a very common phenomenon, many parents will always say such things when playing with the baby, but these words are very bad for the naïve baby, after all, the baby is still very naïve, thinking and thinking is not complicated, if parents often say such things, then the baby is likely to take it seriously, not only very sad, And it can also affect your baby's mental health.

When I play with the baby in the past two days, I always like to lift the baby high with both hands, put it down, this phenomenon is very common, many parents like to do this, but this is not healthy for the baby, after all, the baby's body is very sensitive and very fragile, if the parents use too much strength in the process of lifting, then it will hurt the immature baby.

Shaking your child often, treating him as a toy, or teasing him or her during mealtime, touching his intimate parts, or pinching his or her face, are all wrong.

Do not make your child laugh when he or she is eating, as this will cause him to choke. When your child is in a good mood, don't tease your child, otherwise it will hit your child.

The wrong way to tease the baby is to lift the baby high, shake the baby back and forth, fly the plane with his head down, pinch the baby's face, scare the baby, and throw the baby up.

Pinching the baby's face, lifting the baby high, throwing the baby up to play, scaring the baby, shaking the baby, etc. are all wrong ways to tease the baby.

Preamble: There are many parents who like to tease their babies, especially when they are young. Then in addition to the parents, the neighbors may also tease the baby, and when they see the baby crying, they will be happier and find it particularly fun.

There are some mistakes in the way we tease your baby that we must avoid. For children, their hearts are sensitive and fragile, if you say to the child: you are not the mother of the birth and or the baby is particularly high, although the baby is very happy, but it is a very dangerous behavior, parents must pay attention.

I believe that many people have experienced such a thing in the process of growing up, whether it is a neighbor or a parent, they will say: You are not born to your mother, you picked it up from the trash can of Waiqin's noodles. Many babies after hearing such words.

If you cry very sadly, then the adults will laugh very happily, and they will feel that they are teasing the baby in the right way. But it is recommended that as an adult, you must reflect on yourself, because children are very timid. They are more dependent on their parents, if they keep saying such things to their children, then the children will feel very scared in their hearts, whether it is parents or neighbors, you must pay attention.

You can't tease your baby in this way.

When many children are young, they like their parents to lift them high, so they will feel very happy. There are also some people who look at the baby so cute that they will even lift the baby above their head, or throw the baby up and catch it with their hands. Seeing how scared the baby is, these adults will laugh very happily.

I don't think these adults can think of anything at all. Because the child's brain development is not mature, such actions of adults will affect the child's brain development. Moreover, the baby's limbs and organs are very fragile, and if it is not in contact with the baby, it will bring very serious injuries.

1.Throw high.

Many parents believe that babies will very much like the feeling of being thrown by the high slippery notice. In fact, this kind of amusement does not make the baby happy. The baby's mental development is immature, and throwing it high will not only not feel fun, but will feel scared.

If you don't catch the baby, the consequences are really unimaginable.

2.Hold your baby's hands in circles.

The baby's hands are dragged and the body is off the ground and rotates in mid-air, which can easily lead to dislocation of the wrist or elbow joint, which is not conducive to the development of wrist bones. What's more, when the circle stops, the baby will feel dizzy and easily fall on his feet, which can lead to physical injury. Therefore, do not play this game with your baby, so as not to affect your baby's physical and mental development.

Adults like to tease their children, the children of their colleagues, and the children of their friends. Most of today's children are sensible and sensible. So what should we pay attention to?

Friends and parents take the child to play, until the location is going to go, the parents are likely to pee or have to leave because of something to do, which will let the friend help take care of the child, and the friend will tease the child out of fun, "You see your parents are gone, your parents don't need you", so that the child will immediately fall into deep panic, the sensitive child will cry bitterly, and the tenacious child will not believe what someone said, but their eyes have been looking around for the shadow of their parents, and if it really hasn't happened to their parents for a while, they will be very sad and anxious, and they will eventually burst into tears. When a friend teases the child like that, it will cause the child to feel insecure, and will be fearful, which will lead to not good harm.

Some children are naturally timid, not very airy, and usually rarely touch passers-by, they have a certain defensive psychological state against outsiders. If a friend or friend comes to play at home, because they don't know what kind of temperament the child is, they will let the child call them uncle or sister, and tell the child that if you call it, you will not give it if you don't call it. Children with such a temperament are likely to lower their heads and run to their own houses, so parents should inform their children in advance that customers will come to the house today, all of whom are friends and colleagues of their fathers or parents.

At the same time, it is also necessary to inform the customer in advance that the child is more introverted and timid, and you can see that there is no need to tease him.

There are some friends who are very innocent, and they will tease their children, such as drawing dark circles on their faces with a pen, and drawing them on their clothes. If parents notice this kind of situation, they should immediately remind the child that they need to infiltrate it, and imply that the friend does not have to take the child to ruin. Otherwise, although this appearance has reached the innocence of adults, it also brings bad children.

Some friends are born to be fun, especially like to tease children, they often deliberately instigate the relationship between children and parents in front of their children, for example, there is a second child in the family, they will say, dad loves your little brother or sister a little more, and the delicious food is handed over to the younger brothers and sisters, if the children really believe that then the trouble will become bigger, because then they will feel that their parents love their younger brothers and sisters more, and introverted children are likely to silently go back to the house alone and be sad and sad. And a child who is a little more extroverted is likely to immediately run to his parents to ask if this is true.

Introduction: Parents must use the right way when teasing their children and do not let them cry.

If parents want to tease their children, they should look at the emotions of their children that day, and if the children are unhappy, parents should not tease their children. Parents should not lift their children very high, if they lift very high, the child will be very uncomfortable, although parents want to tease their children, but they must use the right way. Don't scare your child when you tease your child, don't tell your child that you will leave your child, your child will be very afraid that your child will think that your parents will really leave you.

When children are young, they are more dependent on their parents, and parents should spend time by their children's side to accompany their children well, so as not to make them feel sad or afraid. Some parents want to tease their children when they see that their children are cute, and then tease their children at the same time, they must not use the wrong way, they must reflect on their behavior, see if they will bring harm to their children, and let their children learn to adjust appropriately. Some children are often unhappy when they are young, don't let the child feel scared, let the child feel comfortable.

Parents must use the right way when teasing their children, if the child cries parents should comfort the child, tell the child that this is a lie to the child, can not let the child have a bad psychology, when accompanying the child Qi Grip, parents must master the correct way. If the child is often unhappy and unhappy when he is young, parents must use a good method to guide the child slowly, help the child to do a good job of reflection, let the child stop fighting, let the child have a good image of the parents, do not tell the child, the child is picked up, at least it will affect the child, and the child will cry very sadly. Some parents are very sad to see their children crying very sadly, at this time they must consider what kind of disgusting way they should treat their children, and do not let their children develop the habit of timidity.

Dig up the child and then catch it, this method of teasing the baby is the wrong one, it may hurt the baby, let the baby hurt, and shake the child, this method of teasing the child is not suitable, shaking the child may make the child's body uncomfortable.

Some parents will often joke about their children, often suppress their own children, and often compare their children with other people's children, and will often hide behind their children to scare their children Lu Juzi, and will often lock their children in a dark room.

1. Say to your mother to eat something in your hand, and then wait for the baby to give it to you, you don't accept it, so that the baby has a feeling of deception; 2. Holding the child up and down rotation, the baby is very high to stop Wang Xing, but if the lifting is a little careless, the fall to the ground regrets;

When we bring our children to play with friends and colleagues' children, don't tell your children that your mom or dad doesn't want you anymore. Or the big and big child may be fine, at most he will reply to you with a word of resistance, or ignore it at all, but some timid and sensitive children will be scared and even cry, thinking that they really don't want themselves. Such children are insecure.

In the future growth, these will have an impact on the child. During the Chinese New Year or when playing together on holidays, adults are accustomed to telling their children to call them aunt or uncle, and they will give candy or red envelopes. Good children will scream timidly, and some children will just ignore it and run away.

Therefore, parents should use more snacks, if their children are afraid of life and timid, they should make it clear to their friends in advance, saying that our children are afraid of life, please do not tease him. It's better than teasing the child and the child crying.

1) Instigating children to do "bad things", parents do not consider whether it is a good thing or a bad thing when they tease their children to do something, just purely to tease children, but just want to say here that our children are still too young, and there is not much self-judgment, when we often tease children, especially this kind of bad things, in the long run, our children will feel that hitting or grabbing things becomes a matter of course, or there is a sense of accomplishment or enthusiasm. (2) Parents who deliberately make trouble, rob their children's things, and make their children unable to do things, need to pay attention to the fact that your behavior has affected a child's sense of accomplishment for one thing, and he can immediately experience the sense of accomplishment brought by his own labor, but because you tease him for a while, the child has a sense of frustration.

Frequently scaring the baby, often slapping the baby, often tickling the baby, or often poking the baby's face, these ways of teasing the baby are all wrong, because these behaviors may make the baby unresponsive.