There are fewer and fewer friends studying Buddhism. What to do?

It should be that you have a problem studying Buddhism, because if you are really studying Buddhism as you are doing the Dharma, it should be more and more good karma, and friends are more and more like to be close to you. The following points need to be noted.

1.Unless a friend asks you about the Dharma, don't talk to another friend about the Dharma.

2.The Dharma is in the world, and it is not separated from the Dharma in the world. To learn Buddhism, you must understand the sophistication of people, and the customs that should be observed must be observed, such as friends who have marriage and education, and take the initiative to pay after eating. Communicate with friends more, and take the initiative to help friends when they are in difficulty.

3.Don't care about people when you study Buddhism, and especially don't criticize others with the Dharma. And don't talk about other people's faults, unless it's a particularly good friend with whom you have a close relationship.

4.Learn to speak and not speak too straight. Think about the person and the feelings of others when you speak.

5.It's not about having many friends, it's about really having the same temperament as you. For general relations, it is enough to fulfill the general etiquette. Don't expect everyone to be good friends with you.

Cultivation is a kind of business that is far away from the hustle and bustle. The Buddha once practiced alone in the snow-capped mountains for 6 years, and many eminent monks and patriarchs also practiced alone in the mountains. In order to achieve a career, one must be able to enjoy loneliness and loneliness, and this is true of the worldly law, and the same is true of the worldly law.

If you give up your practice and invite your friends to drink and eat meat, of course, you will have a lot of friends, but this situation is contrary to practicing and becoming a Buddha.

If the other party is also a student of Buddhism, he will feel that he will be too late to meet each other; If you are not a student of Buddhism, you will only incur the disgust of others if you open your mouth and say that you are a Buddha with your mouth closed to cause and effect!

This situation shows that you really haven't studied Buddhism. To truly study Buddhism, we must first cultivate a normal mind, blend in with the public, and follow the public, which is the foundation of learning Buddhism.

There are a lot of friends who study Buddhism, they are very low-key, but you don't know, you just have to be yourself, both inside and outside, Amitabha.

Slowly, I will meet a lot of friends who are also studying Buddhism, and these friends will be easier to make friends with.

It's all fate. Studying Buddhism, young people can't calm down. When you get older, you will be interested.

What is the purpose of studying Buddhism?

Are you studying Buddhism? Leaving you are friends.

There are always like-minded Taoist friends.

There are 108,000 afflictions in the world, and there are 108,000 ways to practice! Similarly, if you study Buddhism and go to the Pure Land, is there really a "shortcut" on the road to learning Buddhism that can quickly prove the Buddha's fruits?

Obviously, there is!

When following the great monks, they often reveal such a "heavenly opportunity": "If you insist on chanting the Buddha's name every day, you can see the Dharma!" ”

Could it be that chanting the Buddha's name is so effective?

If in terms of the "practicality" of learning Buddhism, chanting the Buddha's name is the easiest way to learn Buddhism, don't you know the words? Then you must be able to recite the Buddha's name; You don't understand the scriptures, and the chanting of the Buddha's name is not so obscure.

Therefore, chanting the Buddha number seems to have become another popular way for some fellow practitioners to learn the Dharma!

In fact, the main "function" of chanting the Buddha number is to persuade people to learn to let go!

If you can persevere, as time goes by, your heart will naturally recall the merits and compassion of the Buddha and Bodhisattva, and there will be such an experience: at first you chanted the Buddha name in your heart, but occasionally you are too empty, and with the restraint on yourself, you will slowly recite the Buddha name in your mouth and heart, and the mercy of the Buddha and Bodhisattva will appear in your mind, and finally you will begin to learn to "be able to die", let go of your attachment to the Dharma, and begin to really sink your heart, remembering the merits of the Buddha and Bodhisattva to save all people!

The main thing is that the utilitarian is too heavy, sometimes it is counterproductive, I didn't calm down to study, there are too many things in the past, the six roots of the Buddha are pure, there is no dispute with the world, it is really too difficult to sit down, but the more I think about it, the more annoying it is, you can cultivate the mind, just as a kind of training and a kind of cultivation. So there is no need to worry.

I don't understand this, the longer you study Buddhism, the more troubles you have, do you understand?