Urgent, complicated four cornered relationship, how to save the person I love??

It's hard to say about feelings. I think you should know how to care for her first, you should always guard her, shout at her, she wants a divorce, she will always be in a bad mood, comfort her more, tell some jokes to make her laugh. By the way, you try not to wrap her too tightly, or she will get bored.

Not only do you have to love her, but you also have to take care of her son as if he were your own son, she will always be the first in your heart, and her son will be the second, and you will be the third. You should be a little more domineering when appropriate, but bring out a warm feeling in the domineering. Don't always say sweet words, which will make others feel hypocritical, and show that it is best to show with actions.

Okay, that's pretty much it, I'm just confiding in my heart, I don't know if it's useful to you. I advise you that feelings cannot be forced, even if they are reluctant, they are not happy. Since you love the wrong person, then love again, don't be indifferent to love because of this (my heart, it's all my own thoughts, don't lose face.)

Good horses don't eat back grass, this is what I want to say to girls, people like you who don't know how to cherish it, people who deserve to love you give up on you!

It's not that you don't have a heart, it's that your character can't give him happiness, let her go, what a good girl, she won't give up after yelling at her, if you want to repay her, you can only fulfill her.

Go with the flow, lighten it up, you don't necessarily have to get someone who loves her. It's nice to be a friend. If you're really good, she'll know, don't worry.

I didn't say anything, the upstairs one said it very clearly.

However, remember one sentence, have you given enough of what she wanted?

It's a bit similar to my experience, and I'd like to give you a word"If you have been reluctant, you will not choose to break up"

You better give up, the mountains and seas are all fake, love can't have a little stain, she has, forget it.

If it's fate, time and distance are not a problem. If you don't have a chance, you can't even meet every day. You don't have to worry too much about everything, and you don't have to force it to stay, just let everything go with the flow!

You tell me? That's how I saw it, my girlfriend was going to school in Canada, and we've been annoyed lately. I'm afraid what if we really won't be together in the future

Hey, she said so, what are you still reluctant to do, although I know that you will be sad, but time will dilute everything, you will find better, I sincerely bless you.

What's yours is yours! Don't force it too hard! Let's face it.

Conquer her family.

You can definitely be with her.

The current situation is that the outcome is not up to you!

After listening to your story, I feel that your girlfriend is now in a state of vacillation. First of all, her family will not object, I think you will also have quarrels or unhappy times together, and at this time, the opposition of the family and the concern of her classmates will become very heavy, so you should first talk to your girlfriend to determine what her feelings for you are now, what she said"You're not as good as the man's words"Whether it's sincere or just casual when you're upset. If she is sincere, I think you should also do some retention, because it is not easy to have a relationship for such a long time, even if you don't succeed in retaining it in the end, you will not regret it; On the other hand, judging from her performance, I think she still has feelings for you, for so long, the biggest resistance between you is her parents, you should have communicated with her parents a long time ago, maybe the two old people can't accept you at first, but you should use your sincerity to move them.

Let them see that you are happy together and that you will get better and better in the future. The old people want their children to be good, I think after you do this, the old man's opposition will not be so strong, and I think this is your most fundamental problem, the old man does not agree or oppose, your girlfriend's heart will not be happy, I think this is also the reason why she is shaken (if your relationship is not a problem)So you should work on that.

People will always be touched by sincerity, I wish you happiness, I hope it can help you!

In fact, even she doesn't know herself, she should also be an indecisive girl, she also accepts your love to show that she has feelings for you, for that boy may not have love or like, just because she has been consistent with her for so many years, she should belong to a kind of touching, plus the thoughts of the family, she has only this choice. But she definitely still loves you, after all, your relationship with her is deeper than the relationship with that boy, love for you, touching for that boy, filial piety to your family, so I think as long as you work hard and care more about her and her family, she will be moved by it, so as to return to you.

If she really loves you, she will try to persuade his parents and not leave you so easily, and she tells you that her parents don't agree, so she broke up with you, and this sentence is actually his excuse, I think he is pretending to date you now and accepting your kiss, because he is afraid that he will be unhappy with any boy with him in the future, and then he will come to you again, and it is possible that you will still accept her, or that when you are developed, he will come to you

In fact, maybe you have something wrong with this problem, that is, you didn't treat him very well before, and then you don't know how to cherish it until you lose it

This is a problem that I have personally experienced in the same way as my previous relationship, and I also use the same method: Mom and Dad disagree: which of my boyfriends I broke up with

The twisted melon is not sweet, if she really loves you, she will have a reason to convince her family!~

You don't have to be too sad to hug the Lord. There's a lot of story.

1。It's possible that your girlfriend is out in contact with another boyfriend.

Cause. Because you didn't grasp her well and cared about her.

2。Or maybe she thinks you're not a good fit for her and she decides to leave you for a reason.

Cause. You always beat her?Or always deceive her. And she knows all this.

3。She thinks you've been out there with someone else of the opposite sex and decides to leave.

Cause. A woman who loves you can tolerate you hitting her and scolding her. But I will never tolerate you betraying her.

The landlord forgives you. Let's talk about you. You're not a good man.

I don't mean to say that if you hit her, you're not a good man.

Think for yourself that a man actually used to beat, scold, and cheat.

As you can imagine, you didn't care about her at all at that time.

And when you lose her, you know that the best has always been by your side.

Remembering her when you were most helpless?You are selfish.

The landlord should not think too much. This tree can't stay and the next tree will live.

But remind the landlord to learn the lesson. What is a man called?

Let's take your time to understand for yourself. Don't drink too much. It's not good for the body.

It's not a way for two people to fight together a lot, if they are like this, they just divide it first. It's better than being vindictive later, how uncomfortable it is

It's too much like me, I'm in this situation, and now we maintain this relationship, he feels less like me, but he's reluctant to leave me.

He said he would try to find the feeling again.

I was very excited, but before I knew it, I felt that I could be moved to watch such a thing, after all, there is a boy who is uncomfortable because of your discomfort, and thinks so much about you because he doesn't want to hurt you.

It's much better than those men who don't feel it anymore and just leave and don't care about your feelings.

So if you really can't break up, you can also break up, I also went from the original refusal to break up, to the willingness to break up, I said to stay with you for a while at the end, if you still don't feel it, I won't delay you anymore.

As a result, he told me not to say such things, and he would continue to try to love me.

In fact, every couple will have a dull period, if he has always been so good to me, I believe I will also get tired, but he changed first, I became nervous, and then I also went from being a little indifferent to caring very much.

Everyone has an emotional foundation, it is not easy to understand a person so deeply, don't stick to him too much recently, keep a normal mentality, and gradually get through this time, he will find your good.

What's the situation, let's talk about it together, the experience is too similar, let's experience together.

If it's lost, it's irretrievable.

Landlord, such a girl does not lack anything at all, she really loves you very much, although you feel a little guilty, but things always have to be redeemed, in fact, this is very easy to recover, I have encountered a lot of such things, but I have successfully solved it, to put it bluntly, she loves you very much, but you are not very good to her, the attitude is obviously not as active as she is to you, she feels wronged, although you are telling the truth, but you did not make it clear that caused misunderstanding, the main reason is that you are easy to cause misunderstanding, You didn't sit in a quiet place to pass your heart, she now says that falling in love with someone else is to give herself a reason to leave you, in fact, she doesn't want to leave you, but she is afraid that in the future, she doesn't have a sense of peace of mind.

Now you need a man to take the initiative, in front of her, in front of her, she must be ruthless.

No matter how far a person has gone with you, he will still be separated from you in the end, after all, there are few people who were born at the same time, and people who grow old together not only have the parting in the relationship but also the parting of life and death, if you think so, even if you break up, you will not be so sad, but will wish each other happiness. If we meet one day when we are old, we will have a different taste in our hearts.

Let's give you some confidence: First: If she is really in love with another man, she will not scold you, she will scold you because she still cares about you in her heart!

Second: She says she's going to forget you, which proves she doesn't know how to forget you! Still thinking about you!

Third: She is very sad that you have disappeared in the past few days, she hates you very much, is taking revenge on you, makes you sad too, and loves you!

Fourth: If you really love her, don't fall, love her positively, try to chase her, don't be a little discouraged and give up, it will hurt her even more! Be a man: you're my woman, I won't let you leave me or something!

Fifth: I think that if necessary, don't tell her to go to her, don't say anything, and maybe add a rude kiss to your actions to soften her even more

Leaving that to say for now, I've got you tired enough!

If she loves you, then you are brave enough to buy roses and chase him for 10 kilometers, and then say: Labor and management will chase you for a lifetime.

If she doesn't love you, you're just narcissistic: then you tell her to.

Since there is an opportunity to explain, why not make it clear? Even if she really doesn't want to turn back, at least you've tried, but if you keep indulging yourself like this, it's a bad act.

If you really can't let it go, you should live well, so keep it in the depths of your heart!

Let's use psychological tactics Since she asked you to find a better girl, just find a chirp She I think it works She'll come back to you Because that's how I came here The manager is more like.

Friend! In fact, sometimes losing is also a kind of happiness...Have you ever wondered if it's worth it to be sad and decadent for a woman who can't be contacted for five days and you find someone else, you should be glad that you are not married...But if you really love her, you can make sure that she goes to the place where you confirmed your relationship and has a good talk...Of course, this is just a little bit of my humble opinion, life must be willing, I wish you happiness!

"It's messed up with me, is this love? Why do I feel so confused and helpless? What am I going to do?

It's the same ...... to confess to herIn the end, I chose to remain silent. I'm not afraid. Is it because I thought she agreed, what should I do?

I know that even if I start, I will be separated in the end, after all, I am not mature enough to face love correctly. Rather than a sad end, don't start. "

It was my choice to fall in love with a girl in junior high school. Thinking about it now, there will still be heartache, how can you say that it is impossible without a start. Now that you have started, you have to carry out the love to the end. As long as you grasp the time, learning and face love are in the square inch.

Maybe you will be separated in the end, and you are already scarred, but you are happy because you have loved.

I wish you all happiness forever.

There are still long days to go after studying hard.

This is an irresponsible idea, if you want to be good to her, you should study hard, strive for career success, and make him believe that you are worth relying on

If you know exactly what's going on around you tomorrow.

Let's think about the future.

In a word, do you still have to wait for someone to be successful one day Some people are waiting for you to read your book

On the third day, he proposed to break up, maybe he doesn't love you or has something unspeakable, you should ask clearly, as an outsider, I don't know what to say about you. There really doesn't make any sense to love someone. Although I don't think you think he's worth it, I'm not going to tell you to give up.

Because you won't be able to let it go for a while. Then you use your sincerity to slowly influence him and let him know that you are good. Where sincerity goes, the golden stone is open.

May you succeed!