What is it like to have a procrastinating husband?

Procrastination is actually laziness, and now many people are not only men, but many people are lazy when they return home.

Due to the pressure of work, when I get home, I always want to lie on the sofa, take out my mobile phone and swipe Weibo and Moments, relax myself, I don't want to cook, I don't want to clean up the house, and I don't want to do housework.

Once there is something in front of you, you will also think about it, don't do it yet, or do it tomorrow, so that procrastination will continue to increase.

Sometimes I even feel that I have procrastination, but my husband's procrastination has almost been controlled by me.

I'm a strong girl, so I have to do what I want to do right away.

My husband has some procrastination, and usually because he is an only child at home, his parents will not let him do anything. It can be regarded as the master of clothes to stretch out his hands and food to open his mouth, but when we live together, we need to tolerate each other, help and support each other, and I can't do all the housework.

Modern society emphasizes equality between men and women, so when there are some housework that needs to be done at home, it is usually two people who divide the labor, I will say to my husband, you do this, I will do that, for example, I will tell him, you do the laundry, I will cook. After eating, I will say to my husband, you go wash the dishes, and then I will mop the floor.

There must always be some division of labor between two people, so that they will be equal. In the past, women were at home, just doing some housework, but they didn't need to go out to work, but now women have to go out to work and come back to share the housework, so it is very tiring, and only two people can share the burden to reduce your burden.

My husband still loves me a lot, so the housework is basically half of one person, and he won't have procrastination in this case.

Hahaha, my dad is this kind of person, and I can often feel my mom's madness. Don't look for this kind of husband, there is no most annoying person, only more annoying.

Only if he is happy to do what he wants to do, he will be happy to do it first, otherwise everything is procrastinated, and he will be satisfied to do it when he finally gets tired of playing with his mobile phone, or he will be satisfied with other things, or you will have to urge yourself desperately, and you will be reluctant to do it. It's really very tiring like this, and sometimes I feel that it's better to do it myself, and those who really have to do it only can be done by him, and you have no choice, either launch your lion's roar to call him out, or you will endure it silently. And this will only fuel his procrastination even more.

This kind of person procrastinates, when he is terminally ill, he can really even put off eating and sleeping. It was hard to wake him up in the morning, and he went off several times and still fell asleep. And often people with procrastination have really not very good self-discipline, and he always lets himself think about many things, regardless of other people's feelings.

Not only do things at home not do well, but it is also difficult to develop greatly in your career. I always feel that it is good to do it at the last minute, but it always fails to complete it as planned because it is too hasty, and good things always fail to come to fruition. And the feeling of powerlessness and emptiness that procrastination brings is also terrible.

Therefore, having a husband with procrastination will not only affect the family's income, but also make you a bag of anger in the family, and you have to do everything yourself. And this also affects the relationship between husband and wife, which will make you very broken and quarrel with him often. And the impact on the child is also very bad.

In the autumn, I want my husband to go back to his hometown to get some new corn back, his hometown is very close to the city where my husband's work unit is located, my husband is home once a week, about three hours by car in the middle, my husband only needs to go to his hometown to pick it freshly, but every time my husband goes home, only he has no corn, every time he asks him, he says next time, so the tender new corn grows alive in his hometown, and he didn't see him take it back, and when he finally got it back, the corn can only be made into popcorn.

Once, my husband's unit wanted a business assessment, and sent them two books to read and finally take the exam of the unit, this exam is to answer questions on the computer, and there is no need to score too high, as long as 60 points can be passed, and the knowledge learned is also some trivial business is a flow process, or the news and new regulations of the party and government, and my husband is responsible for the assessment of attendance in the unit, so he said that there is such an exam, and I didn't take it to heart.

At first, he didn't read a book, and I didn't supervise much, and then he was about to take the exam, so I asked**How did he read and didn't learn, and he always shirked that he was either going to have a meeting or someone was looking for him to do something, anyway, he didn't have time to read. I don't think he pays much attention to himself, and I think he knows it, so I don't care. As a result, on Sunday, the week after the exam, he didn't turn on the TV after going home and eating, but honestly went to the study and started reading

As a result, hahahaha, he hung up the exam managed by his own department, and he had to retake the exam, he had to study, and the unit had already sent a list of failures in the group, and it was estimated that there was really no way to delay it anymore, so I started to watch it. I can still laugh at him often about this matter, and procrastination is not a disease, and procrastination is terrible.

It is very bad for my husband to procrastinate very much, and he must be allowed to get rid of this shortcoming.

I'm a resolute person, and every time my husband drags on, I feel impatient.

Since I got married, I have quarreled because of my husband's procrastination, and every time I take the waiter, I am so angry that I can't take my breath, I can't understand that a doctor doesn't have a sense of time at all, and he still procrastinates. My friend always comforted me and said that he might be procrastinating on certain things, or maybe he was just procrastinating on me, and he could get good at work, and he couldn't afford to delay things that were at stake on people's lives.

Human habits may be like this, or they may be inherited from their mother, and their mother does not care about any priorities, everything is up to her own nature. I heard my husband say that every family in the countryside cooks and eats in the morning to work, and only when his family comes to work together, he cooks and eats ...... when he is hungrySo my mother-in-law said that she came to take care of the confinement child, and she didn't make a single breakfast for me. It's slow to do anything, it's still rough, can't you do it yourself, and you're stupid and noisy, and you have to make a show for others, and you get angry when you look at it.

Chinese New Year back to my hometown with my children to the mountains and fields to see them, it's almost dark, still busy washing hair and feet on the ground, I took the children afraid that the road is not good to walk down the mountain first, they grind until dark before taking a flashlight to go home, and when home began to take a bath, I said it is really incomprehensible, this is not to take advantage of the dawn to go home from head to toe washing, this is a few meanings?! Is it hard to do it for me? Interesting?!

Just like at that time, taking care of my confinement, taking a bath and washing clothes can rub for a morning, don't do anything, can't cook, just don't take a bath, sit dry and don't cook, at that time, I eat some soup and rice mixed with ...... every dayAnd her deafness is also selective, sometimes very small voices can be heard, sometimes no matter how you knock on the door, it won't open, I'm afraid that I can't hear clearly, and she hangs up no matter how urgent it is**, it's really ...... angrySeeing that her husband's virtue has a fucking shadow in it, this selective procrastination is even more annoying!

The day I got my driver's license, my husband said that he would take me to Chenggong to practice driving on the weekend, and now it's been almost three years, and I haven't been there once. Now every time I complain, he says, "Didn't you get pregnant at that time, did you go to practice with a big belly?" Isn't the child still young......Listen to it, though, there is a certain amount of truth.

Excuses, all excuses! The car has changed from manual to automatic, and I haven't touched the car yet, so he is so angry that he is reasonable. And his hyperthyroidism, allergies, weight loss, insomnia, ......I repeatedly advised him to check up in time, but he was always busy with work, and it was not until he was diagnosed that his condition was found out for several months, and the symptoms improved.

And his teeth, when we got married, we heard that he was going to plant teeth, but he didn't plant one for more than three years, and then I went to check for chronic periodontitis and gum recession, and I couldn't plant ......This is what procrastination ends! Every day when I get home, I lie on the sofa and brush the small **, waiting for dinner, after eating, he said that he was waiting for him to wash the dishes, and I was afraid that he was embarrassed to make a joke, and then lay down, and went to bed at eleven o'clock, he said that he had to catch up with a report, you listen to it! As soon as he delayed, I couldn't help but want to get angry, and the gunpowder in my stomach exploded, and I don't know how to lose my temper now, this is all a ...... of procrastination

I'm procrastinating, I'm not angry; My boyfriend is procrastinating, and I really can't bear it.

It is easy to be lenient with oneself, and it is difficult to be lenient with others, I didn't fully agree with it before, but look at myself now, and I think so.

Actually, it's not a big deal, and when it comes to big things, my boyfriend is quite reliable. Like going to the station to pick up the station, it has always been half an hour in advance, and getting rid of him to buy something on the way, I bought it for you if I didn't stop by, or got rid of him to help send a courier, and it was safe and never delayed.

On the big right and wrong, the slow travel is reliable and reassuring, it is indeed rare, but how can the life change be worthy of living and small things can not be a little more reliable?

All right. Why is it so hot all of a sudden, it has to start from last week.

His friend's company does **, girls, what kind of skin care and makeup, I always have to prepare. So, last week, I bought something online at his friend's company, asked me to pick it up, and said that I would bring it directly when the time came. (We live in the same unit).

Well, I'm not in a hurry to use it, the current one can still last for seven or eight days, and according to the previous experience, it can be reached in three days.

What's the matter, the 15th shows that the company has signed for it, waiting, three days have passed, and it has not been delivered. Wait a little longer, and let him ask if something is wrong, and if there is something, it will be fine to send it for two days.

This is the first time, say ask for me. Promised, okay, I'll ask later. It's been another three days, and I still haven't sent it, and I asked if I asked last time, and I knew that I definitely didn't ask.

I said, it's okay, you can ask again now, I've been waiting for a long time, mine has run out. Promise, okay, ask in a moment.

This is the second time, and he said to ask for me.

Well, three days have passed, and there is still no movement. It's not a three-story thing, okay? I do mumble a little, I've already asked, it's impossible that there is no news at all, at least give me a reply if you have something to do.

Today, I asked him again if he did it for me. And spit,, I knew I definitely didn't ask.

I'm really angry. In a hurry, I asked him directly, "If you don't want to ask, I'll ask in person!" ”

He is actually angrier than me, what is it not okay to ask for a while, and it is not that he will not ask for you.

Three times, did you really ask for me? I explained to you, good things and bad things, can you give a reply?!

, just terminate the conversation. Go to the ** and buy another one directly on the official website, I don't want this, I don't want the money! You don't want to ask. Trust? There's no next time.

If a person is reliable in big things, but not distracted in small things, is it really reliable?

He may have his reasons, once or twice I can understand, one offense and one offense, how many meanings? Sincerely.

Friends, what do you think is the right way to deal with this situation?

Hello, glad to answer your questions. The experience of procrastination is painful, you want to finish something, but you don't want to start, there are always various reasons for you to procrastinate. And when it comes to finally having to do it, it's very anxious.

In short, procrastination is a very uncomfortable thing, since it is suddenly so uncomfortable, how can you get out of procrastination? Here are a few ways to help you get rid of procrastination.

1. Do the most important things first

People's energy is limited, so if you want to complete your daily work efficiently, you must take the lead in doing those more important things. Focus on the three or four most important things to do each morning each day. After doing these things, even if you don't accomplish anything else, you still have a very fulfilling and fruitful day.

2. Wake up half an hour early

3. One-time solution

4. Use your odd and medium-sized time

It's the short time we wait in line for the bus to wait for a meeting, make a list of small tasks that can be completed in five minutes, or bring a book to read, or bring some odd jobs, anyway, don't waste this spare time, make the most of it.

It's hard to do anything, it's hard to go out, even if you go out, you have to come back to get things, you can't get up in the morning, and you often regret it afterwards, thinking that if you do it earlier, it would be nice to be more urgent when doing things, but it can't be corrected next time.

I am very healthy, and there is no procrastination, I will talk about the people around me, there is a department leader in the company, in charge of a business, because I have to face an experimental spot check, which is related to the development of the enterprise. The meeting was held very early to determine the responsibilities and division of labor of each department, and everyone was busy with their own affairs, and they rarely communicated; Until the day before the inspection, he suddenly said that he didn't do anything at all, saying that my department occupied space and didn't make room and time for his department, and there were 10,000 horses running in his heart at that time, and finally scolded the man, and finally worked overtime at night to do things, remedy, and strive to finish the things he left behind, because he didn't care about the development of the company, but we couldn't care, this is the most bizarre procrastination I have ever encountered