Why does it hurt if you don t like it?

Friend, in fact, you also like her very much, you have to be decisive, if you really love her, you have to try to get it back, otherwise you will regret it. If you don't love her, you don't have to think so much, this heavy psychological pain is very normal, I have also had it, then you should silently wish her happiness, adjust your mentality, see her happy, you are also happy, and slowly your psychology will not be so painful.

People are not plants and trees, who can be ruthless.

It's just that people often don't understand themselves, and if you feel heartache, then this feeling is the most real. To like someone is to hope that she is happy. It's okay to tell her your feelings or bury them in your heart.

Tell her that the person who may need to bear it is her, the person who is buried in her heart, and the person who hurts her heart is herself.

As a man, there is always a need to bear the necessary responsibilities.

There is always a time when emotional things come to pass, so believe in fate.

It's normal, you don't like and don't want her to be interested in guys other than you, because it means that you two who are often in each other, you haven't been able to attract him. You're just grieving about your attractiveness.

You probably don't have a girlfriend, I'm afraid that I won't find someone to be with in the future, and you won't feel this way when a new woman appears in your range This is selfish, I always hope that people can revolve around you, and people are not allowed to have their own space.

You rarely have friends of the opposite sex, it's normal, I don't like her, I see her as a friend, I'm afraid I won't see each other in the future.

Actually, in your subconscious, you already like that girl.

Otherwise, where does that "pain" come from?

She's not the one you want to love the most, but she's the one you love.

This is psychological possessiveness.

1.First love is hard to part with.

2.What you don't get is to feel "the best".

It doesn't mean it's the best fit for you.

It is not a good woman and a good man to have a good family) 3Now, your other half in happiness is the most suitable contentment for you, so that you can still have true love, contentment.

4.He didn't leave a shadow on your body.

Giving you a chance to have a better future, I guess it's now.

So thank you for the good memories he once gave you5Let go Let go to be liberated.

I can understand what happened to you, because I also had my first love, we used to love each other very much, it can be said that it was the kind that was unswerving to death, but in the end it was separated, at that time in my heart and you now feel the same, I have been thinking about tea every day for a whole year, my family is very sorry for me like this, in this year I lost a lot of weight, until my mother said to me something like this, (child) love is not possessive, but selfless dedication, and then I also figured out that although I can't be with the person I love, But I hope he has a happy life. I also hope that you can get out of this shadow as soon as possible and go your own way, and I sincerely wish you eternal happiness.