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It's more paradoxical, maybe I'm selfish.!
There are pros and cons. But let me choose, I definitely don't want to live with my boyfriend's family, and I don't want to be with my own family, you will definitely feel that being with his parents is not more restrictive, and you have to rush to do any work, then he lives next to your parents, and it will be the same So it's better to have a nest by yourself It's more casual and warm. If you two want to go out to play at night, there is no limit to how many nights you can get, if you two parents come back at night, they are disturbed, if you are going to have children, it is highly recommended that you be with both parents on both sides After all, multiple care, haha Done, ask for extra points
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10,000 are unwilling and unwilling to live with their parents.
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Of course, I hope to live a relaxed two-person world. However, parents have worked hard for their children for so many years, and they also want to enjoy the joy of family, and children should understand them. Even if you don't want to, you must respect your parents' choice first, which is a reward for your parenting grace.
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Unwilling. There are a lot of inconveniences.
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I'm a woman. Seriously, the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law has always been a big problem in China, of course it is good to get along well, and if it is not good, it is very uncomfortable for you to be caught in the middle.
So I don't want to.
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There can be various reasons why a boy knows about his parents and lives with a girlfriend. Here are some common concerns:
1.Cultural and family values: In some cultural and family contexts, cohabitation may be seen as immoral or inconsistent with traditional values. Boys may worry that their parents will express displeasure or criticism of this behavior.
2.Parental expectations: Parents may expect their children not to live together before marriage, or they believe that cohabitation will adversely affect their relationship. Boys may worry about not meeting their parents' expectations, leading to tension or disharmony in family relationships.
3.Family stress and conflict: A boy may worry that his parents have a negative view of his girlfriend or that the fact of cohabitation will lead to conflict and disputes within the family. They may want to avoid unnecessary family stress and tension.
4.Lack of financial conditions and preparation: Boys may be considered by their parents to be immature or financially inadequate to take on the responsibilities and burdens of cohabitation. They may want to wait until a more stable or appropriate time to tell their parents.
These are some possible causes, but everyone's situation is different. For boys, communicating ahead of time, being open and honest with their parents, respecting each other's opinions and values, and building a stable and healthy relationship can be key to addressing this concern. Having authentic, open, and respectful conversations with parents can help them understand the boys' decisions and build better communication and understanding within the family.
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The boy's fear that his parents will know that he lives with his girlfriend may be due to the following reasons:
Cultural and traditional beliefs: In some cultures and traditions, cohabitation between unmarried couples or couples may be seen as immoral or inappropriate. The boy may be concerned that his parents hold such views and want to avoid causing disputes or controversies in the family court.
Family expectations and pressures: Boys may face family expectations and pressures for future development, such as marriage, stable careers, and financial status. He may be concerned that cohabitation with a girlfriend will have a negative impact on these expectations, leading to strained relationships with his parents or misunderstandings.
Social views and moral beliefs: Some social views and moral beliefs have different views on cohabitation. A boy may be afraid that if the fact that he and his girlfriend are living together is known to his parents, it will cause negative comments or criticism in society.
Parental prejudices and concerns: Parents may worry that cohabitation will affect their children's future or create a bad impression of the woman's family. A boy may be afraid that his parents' opposition or concern will cause difficulties in his relationship with his girlfriend.
These are all possible causes, but the specifics may vary from person to person. It is important that boys are able to have an open, honest and respectful dialogue with their parents, communicate their thoughts and concerns, and find solutions that work for both parties. Establishing healthy family communication is key to dealing with this situation.
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I am afraid that my parents will not agree, and I am also afraid that my mother will agree too much, and I am afraid that I will not be free to be exposed.
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First, you need to consider the pros and cons of living with your boyfriend and parents. Living together may increase interaction and intimacy between family members and can also reduce the financial stress of renting or buying a new home. However, living together can also cause inconveniences for each family member, such as privacy issues, different living rules, poor communication, and so on.
Second, the attitude of the boyfriend and parents towards this arrangement needs to be considered. If they were willing to try to live together, then the arrangement might be more successful. If one of the parties is not satisfied, then this arrangement may lead to contradictions and disharmony.
Finally, the need to consider whether such an arrangement should be implemented on a case-by-case basis. If you and your boyfriend already have a solid relationship and your parents are happy to join this lifestyle, you may want to consider implementing this arrangement. But if you're worried that conflict between your boyfriend and parents will lead to family disharmony, or if this arrangement doesn't fit your life plan, then you can choose other solutions.
In conclusion, when considering the issue of a boyfriend living with his parents, you need to consider the various factors as comprehensively as possible and weigh the pros and cons to make a decision that meets your needs.
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They should be told that they love you more than their boyfriend.
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I was so willing to live with my parents. The main points are as follows.
It's living with my parents, who take care of all the housework, and when I come home there is a ready-made meal, and it's still the taste of my mother. I can be a hands-off shopkeeper (snickering).
I live with my parents, and all the expenses of the family are paid by my parents, whether it is as small as a needle or as large as the various water, electricity, weather, gas and heating bills at home, I can live a fairy life without spending money on food and clothing (continue to snicker).
It is to live with the parents, if there is a small baby, the parents can be a good waiter for the daughter-in-law confinement, the parents can be a full-time nanny, both responsible and parenting experience, can take care of the baby, I can sleep until I wake up naturally (or steal fun).
It is to live with Yinfan and disturb the parents, and the family does not speak two words, which can reflect the atmosphere of the family, and will also allow the daughter-in-law and mother to establish trust and respect, and can handle the relationship between the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law well, and establish a harmonious and happy family (continue to snicker at the sedan chair rent).
Whether it is with parents or there are many inconveniences, friction, and misunderstandings, these problems need to be paid attention to and overcome.
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I don't want to live together, there is a big difference in living habits or living habits, and there will be a lot of contradictions when I barely live together.
I am a strong supporter of you.
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Both parents are right, I think it's better to leave peacefully, if it's just one parent who opposes it, then work hard to let them accept you from the bottom of their hearts, they will always be moved, and now both parents don't agree, if you have to keep going, there will be more contradictions in the future, as the saying goes, a marriage that is not blessed by parents will not be very long-term, if you really can't leave, don't want to separate, then the boy will try his best to convince his parents, and then the woman's parents will understand your dissatisfaction, If they think you don't look good, then you can't change it, only through your ability, if they think your family doesn't have a car or a house, you try your best to be satisfied, even if you pay a down payment, in fact, think about it, which parents don't want their daughter to marry a person who doesn't have a car or a house, and their daughter's life will be very sad in the future, and parents are also for their daughter's good; Also, when you go to your mother-in-law's house, your eyes must be flexible, don't sit there all the time watching TV, take the initiative to chat with the woman's parents, set up, try to make them very happy, their impression of you will get better and better, and maybe they will accept you from the heart. For girls, the most important thing after marriage is the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, the man's parents do not agree with you to be together, there must be your personal reasons, but also to understand that the other party's parents don't like you**, and start to change after you know, when you go to the boy's house, take the initiative to do something, don't want people's mothers to cook in the kitchen, but you are watching TV in the living room and knocking melon seeds, so that people will definitely not agree, be diligent. Anyway, happiness is earned on one's own, and if two people don't want to be separated because of their parents' opposition, then try to get them to approve of it.
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